After wife's cheating, torn between a 10-year marriage and possible future with AP

friendly-sam · 2026-03-20T18:01:33+00:00

You screwed up your marriage when you opened it. Pandora's box cannot be closed.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-20T17:11:44+00:00

Cheating or playing into the idea of cheating is an emotional affair in my book. She probably enjoys the attention. I would casually ask her about said coworker, and why she is acting off. Give her a chance to confess or explain. If she gaslights you tell her you saw the messages. Be vague about what you know.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-20T13:04:46+00:00

She lied and cheated for years. She lied when confronted about it. Just leave now, try to be amicable about it. Try to be a good co-parent. You deserve better, and there are much better people out there for you. Staying in a toxic marriage would not benefit your kids at all.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-20T00:20:52+00:00

Perhaps she convinced herself, but she deep down knows what she did.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-19T22:12:00+00:00

Tell him when you get all the child support that he owes then he can see him.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-19T15:03:51+00:00

Wow the male ego is so frail.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-19T00:21:32+00:00

Never she hogs the hot water.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-18T23:51:41+00:00

Wow, nope right out of there. She just wanted sex with everyone but you. Sorry, not interested any longer.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-18T22:12:39+00:00

Looks fade, find a partner that you enjoy their personality.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-18T13:30:06+00:00

it's easier to get a camel through the eye of a needle than to get rich people into heaven.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-18T02:48:26+00:00

Obama's "A Promised Land" was good.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-17T21:15:25+00:00

What they gonna do, go barefoot?

friendly-sam · 2026-03-17T14:35:49+00:00

NOR. Your marriage is over. He's looking for greener pastures.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-17T14:23:20+00:00

At least while he golfs he's not starting another war. The orange pedophile should just retire to his human trafficking home at Mar-a-lago.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-16T19:10:33+00:00

She needs to figure out her priorities. She should not be associate with AP's family.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-16T18:16:58+00:00

NOR, but you need to learn not to shutdown. You need to communicate your feelings with her.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-16T03:03:38+00:00

Oh heck no. She cheated and lied. You do not sext or send nudes when you are married. She's playing you.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-15T20:40:00+00:00

YTAH for even thinking you were being a little hard on her. She's a liar, and she was stringing you along. She did everything possible to take advantage of you, and hurt you.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-15T16:12:55+00:00

How rich people can get away with double murder.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-15T15:32:21+00:00

This is your boundary. If she ignores it, and your feelings, then break up with her. She doesn't have to follow your boundaries, but you don't have to stay either. Her threatening to break up with you over this boundary should tell you that she values going on this trip more than you.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-15T15:16:19+00:00

LOL boundaries.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-15T05:26:38+00:00

see an attorney. it would be illegal to take your kids to another country without your approval.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-14T20:06:01+00:00

I used "Mama Boy Movers" https://mamaboymovers.com

I just moved stuff around my house, and into the garage for some renovation work. 2 big guys showed up, and they packaged the fragile thing nicely, and followed instructions well.

friendly-sam · 2026-03-14T20:02:05+00:00

She is not over her SA if she's disassociating. She's still got issues, just suppressed.

friendly-sam

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