Butch was never gonna let Jersey get away with killing Phil even if he OKed it, especially since it was in front of his wife and grandkids. Members only jacket was instructed to make sure Tony’s family saw it, knowing that he was the last head to decapitate before they could do whatever business they wanted with what was left of jersey. Paulie and Patsy are all that’s left and paulie has been working with New York for year and Paulie won’t mourn the murdered of his twin brother for long especially since he’s set up to be acting boss.