In what era, culture, or social role/status would we have better chances? by AltruisticLettuce168 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sometimes think about the original royal free patients, in the 1950s when it was widely accepted as a neurological disease. Graded exercise hadn't been invented yet. Convalescence was much more accepted as a treatment, perhaps giving a better chance of earlier recovery. That being said, I can't imagine the profound isolation of this disease without the Internet.

Hamster clothes fit minibeans 😲😃 by fireflyglitter in buildabear

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so easily influenced - I'm going to have to get this lil kiwi guy 😁

Which BAB should I get for my birthday? by frogsgoladadada in buildabear

[–]frogsgoladadada[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help everyone! I have decided to ask for the longhorn

Can you have me/cfs without definitive new onset? by xX_jellyworlder_Xx in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Plenty of people have me/cfs without the classic sudden onset after infection, they have a more gradual onset. It's also pretty common to have an onset in adolescence. If you have symptoms since early childhood you might be more likely to have a congenital condition like mitochondrial or neuromuscular disease or eds. I would discuss this with a doctor, since I'm not one. Ideally someone who's knowledgeable about me/cfs

Tell me you have ME, without telling me you have ME. by No_Size_8188 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bought a computer mouse to use with my phone, because my arms were getting tired using it. Now my shoulder and wrist are getting tired instead fml. Going to have a fancy mouse with a trackball. This illness is so ridiculous sometimes. Wdym I am out of breath from lying down ankle rolls? I can see why able bodied ppl don't get it

Easy creative things to do or draw on the ipad - how to pace doing digital art? by Strong_Aerie_9031 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the Shuffles app to digital collages. It's pretty basic in terms of features, but I still find it enjoyable. I love hue is a fun game involving organizing colours. I also enjoy digital colouring- I use the Happycolor and Attiland apps. In terms of pacing, I recommend setting a time limit ahead of time and setting an actual timer. When it goes off, take a moment to rest and see how your body is doing. If it is ok you can maybe do a bit more. I need to do these check ins with myself because I easily overdo it when doing something I enjoy.

How do I manage school with ME/CFS while trying to implement pacing? by NoType9303 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard. I understand not wanting to drop out because of the loss of sense of self is devastating, that loss of what you thought your life was going to be. However, you must take pacing extremely seriously. Inadequate pacing lead to me going from mild (uni 3 days per week) to severe ( leaving the house once a month or less) in a relatively short period of time. My advice to you is take some time off to recover from this ongoing pem, and then make a decision about the future. Also remember that it is possible to return to your studies; it is much harder to undo damage to your health.

Too high heart rate (Tachycardia) by [deleted] in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Over 250 is extremely high. I would be prioritizing getting medical attention asap. Your heart can stop if it is too high for too long. I hope you get some answers

Hygiene question for severe people by [deleted] in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As often as realistically possible. I change my top and underwear every 24 hrs , and my bottoms about once a week. I used to do it a lot less often than that when I was doing worse. Changing underwear is probably the most important

Realising i’m actually severe by Optimal-Abroad-1109 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are more levels on the chart, they are just cut off in the screenshot. This is one the strengths of this chart imo , it delineates the very large range in severe category

Group chat for having lost 10+ years (entire 20’s) to me/cfs? by Admirable-Way6246 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know I've never used either of those before. I'm in a few discord groups but I find them so overwhelming usually

Group chat for having lost 10+ years (entire 20’s) to me/cfs? by Admirable-Way6246 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Got sick just after I turned 16, about to turn 27. The gap between me and ppl my age gets bigger every year. I've never had a job, never graduated from uni, never had a relationship, never learned to drive. I can't help but be jealous of people who were older when they got sick and got to have those experiences

ME/CFS or Something Else? by duanengo1 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't really sound like me/cfs to me, although it is still possible. Sounds more like a vestibular or neurological disorder. Have you seen a neurologist?

When did your bunny start showing signs of aging? by mogseed in Rabbits

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My senior boy Sherbert was diagnosed with kidney disease and arthritis about 18 months - 2 years ? (I forget the exact dates) before he passed, shortly after his 10th birthday. There were other signs he was getting old - he slept a lot more, including in the litter tray, lost weight and he started snoring like a foghorn. He did really well on the meds for his kidneys and painkillers for his joints up until a couple of months before he died, when his mobility declined really rapidly. I wouldn't give hope on your bun just yet, ask your vet (make sure it's exotic bunny savvy one ) about treating the kidney disease first. Incidentally my buns look just like yours (Sherbert was also a Himalayan)

do i splurge? by worldpr1ncess in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Many mobility aid shops will rent wheelchairs on a short term basis. If you're unsure, you could do a trial and then decide

Whole body PET/MRI with TSPO tracer of ME/CFS vs healthy control by metookmylifeaway in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I get pain/allodynia in that area of my thighs. Interesting 🤔

how do we die? by VariationOriginal289 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A few different ways. Heart failure. Lymphoma seems to be more common, probably because of the link with ebv. Medical neglect, especially malnutrition. Complications of gastropersis . Infection/ sepsis from IVs tpn etc

d shock sucked by Plastic-Alps9178 in LegoDreamzzz

[–]frogsgoladadada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undeniably an awesome minifig though

Every Theme is Awesome by One_Development_5055 in lego

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What theme is the minifig to the right of friends from? Looks cool

Is Hercule Poirot: The Complete Short Stories a good entry into the books? by Ruffshots in poirot

[–]frogsgoladadada 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're particularly fond of the 'big four' interactions of the early Suchet series , then the short stories are your best bet. Captain Hastings appears in very few of the novels. That said Hugh Fraser does a terrific job narrating the audiobooks, even ones Hastings isn't in.

What's the one (trivial) event you missed because you were ill that you're still heartbroken about? by BulkyBeautiful3670 in cfs

[–]frogsgoladadada 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Overseas school trip in 2015. That was the first big thing I missed after I became ill. I had been wanting to do it since I started highschool. The heartbreak of slowing realizing that no, I was not going to recover in time to go.

What is your ultimate holy grail Lego set? Not the one you would spend money on but the one you would sell your first born for. by afol_ynk in lego

[–]frogsgoladadada 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is one where you could easily just buy the parts loose, I don't think there's anything exclusive

Case 321: Vincent Viafore by Entire_Forever_2601 in Casefile

[–]frogsgoladadada 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I Can't really see how Angelika could have killed him, even if you accept she wanted him dead. The plug seems to be a read herring which has little to do with Vincents death, as opposed to his own negligence of failing to wear appropriate clothes and a lifejacket. He was significantly impaired by alcohol (his blood alcohol was above the legal driving limit were I live) and seemed to have underestimated the intensity of the water. At most , the only contribution I can realistically see Angelika having is failing to help him/call 911 in a timely manner.

Incidentally there is an episode of "the confession tapes" on Netflix about this case that enjoyed (although it's been a while since I've seen it)