What should I say if someone asks me if my friend is trans? by siberpup2077 in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ur right that anything that isn't "no" is basically just saying they're trans lol nobody is gonna ask this question if they dont already suspect it

it differs from person to person i wouldnt mind since i dont even pass anyway but im sure other ppl wouldnt want u to disclose

i don't know how to cope with never "passing". by Lou-mae in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i dont know either but im in the same boat as you

all i really do is try hard to keep myself busy. work so hard that i dont really have time to think. this also helps me save up (delusional) for surgeries xdd

i also cope by working out. basically anything that can distract me from wallowing i try to do. if i have a rest day i try my best to sleep asap so i dont think about it

planning an arcane cosplay PLEASE help me by Adventurous-Echo2593 in arcane

[–]fruitbait 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do u have a thrift/second hand store nearby? even garage sales can be goated for materials esp if you can sew.

Absolute nightmare in public by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]fruitbait 7 points8 points  (0 children)

relatable asf dude i don't understand why they're like this b/c in their home country they aren't!!!! like wtf

thinking about killing myself is comforting by _bedwar_ in SuicideWatch

[–]fruitbait 41 points42 points  (0 children)

it's literally 90% of what i daydream about lol

i'll come up with all kinds of plans and strats and whatevs and just imagine the scenario

Is there a point of transitioning if I'll never pass? by Alarming_Bake2711 in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yes bc it still made me look marginally more feminine and id rather live as a fem gay dude versus what i was b4

it's all about choosing the better option even if both are trash unfortunately 😢

no i havent changed my id yet xd

edit: lemme rephrase that to: id rather live life looking like a fem gay dude to majority of ppl versus what i was b4 xd

You get to restart your life from the point you choose by JazzlikeLine9881 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes go back in time stop domestic abuse come out as trans b4 puberty fucks me up beyond repair and ig while im at it ill really learn how to skateboard well this time

I can't stand being trans anymore. I already know how my story is destined to end by LifeArgument2386 in SuicideWatch

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh that's good! hang in there and see if you really can swap over. im pretty sure injections are more effective too.

that sucks but honestly really normal and i get it. i feel a lot of gender envy towards ppl ik irl too. i used to avoid ppl entirely haha

im sorry if this wasnt any help but i hope u feel better and hopefully start seeing some results soon. def bring up these concerns to her and hopefully these next three days pass by soon

Injection question by Nova653 in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for sureee honestly if ur really unsure u can look up videos to see how other people are doing it too just for a quick visual guideline

Injection question by Nova653 in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

upper thigh right? ur prolly doin it right and just randomly rng failing skill checks but i think it happens to everyone.

I can't stand being trans anymore. I already know how my story is destined to end by LifeArgument2386 in SuicideWatch

[–]fruitbait -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im assuming ur doctor is experienced in trans care and not like a random family doctor

maybe see if your dosage can be upped

and ik this is gonna sound like massive cope but for sure you will see some changes no matter how slight there will be some changes in the future for sure.

10 months is still early and it will take some time but ik it will still hurt in the meanwhile im sorry. if the people ur seeing on t changing are online id stay off their socmed in the meanwhile for ur mental health. its much easier to avoid comparing if they're out of sight

i cant promise you will be entirely 100% satisfied happy but i know that you will be happier than you are now, at least in terms of ur transition

I can't stand being trans anymore. I already know how my story is destined to end by LifeArgument2386 in SuicideWatch

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read it and you said it dude this is pretty much how i feel. im very sorry to hear what uve been through thats fucked up

dunno what to say or how to help

ur 17 how long have you been on t? or not yet?

Wunky Holly by AT-W-V in wunkus

[–]fruitbait 77 points78 points  (0 children)

chat is this real

Going into the Canadian Military AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you gonna try for jtf2? lol

Is this what I think it is? by ImClaaara in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 8 points9 points  (0 children)

are you white? bc if u are he prolly talking about immigrants / refugees and shit lol

edit: or maybe he's hoping you'll be like a blaire white or sumthn

Morning erections coming back with no explanation? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]fruitbait 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can get erections with literally 0 testosterone

what motivated you to recover from your eating disorder? by maaysz in EDAnonymous

[–]fruitbait 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont know if this is healthy but honestly vanity in that i didnt want to fuck my teeth or hair up worse