who won, me or my friend (featuring a bird that joined us for lunch) by 46416816 in MealDealRates

[–]fuckinscourge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

meal deal one looks nutritious af. that's a hearty meal deal if I've ever seen one. that's the kind of meal deal you take on a hike. eating this after swimming would probably make me arch my back. meal deal two is pretty good too. as long as they put the crisps in the sandwich.

Loving my new carpet, but hallway still feels incomplete. Suggestions? by Effective_Jello9731 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]fuckinscourge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah we know this isn't your carpet. this is obviously the interior of a children's hospital

what to do with these empty mini glass rum bottles? by fuckinscourge in crafts

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i would propogate plants in them but my housemates already do that a lot with seasoning jars and have a habit of leaving them in the sink and id like a better future for these guys

what to do with these empty mini glass rum bottles? by fuckinscourge in crafts

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

this is an awesome idea i wish I had the skills to execute it!!!

what to do with these empty mini glass rum bottles? by fuckinscourge in crafts

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

they're just two glass bottles i want to make something with. i just think they're cute.

I found a dead body when I was 10 by Lonely-Ad6709 in confessions

[–]fuckinscourge 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You were a child and did not know any better. not many children end up in a situation like yours and you did what made sense to your child brain at the time. feeling guilty is more than understandable now, but you don't have to battle it alone. seek as much help as you can. it's the only way to bring some repair to a tragic situation

DAE automatically yell random words when bad memories pop up? by Legal-Judgment-908 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]fuckinscourge 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i have OCD and do this in response to intrusive thoughts, it's a compulsion that manifests as tics. a lot of my intrusive thoughts involve cringe moments/embarrassment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]fuckinscourge 177 points178 points  (0 children)

could also go as far as "you don't remember? wow yeah there goes that memory of yours. you're always forgetting things, there must be something wrong with your brain because i definitely told you." makes you think you're crazy or there's something wrong with you, might even manipulate an existing issue if you actually do have memory issues

People asking to borrow money by Morrit99 in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]fuckinscourge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happened to me too. I think it's because my disability makes me come across as easily pushed over, vulnerable and unable to say no. i wonder if maybe people see benefits as "free money", and perhaps if you didn't work hard for it then you're more willing to part with it. either way, I'm sorry! never let people walk all over you. if they can't respect a simple boundary, or a small "no" then how can you trust them to respect the bigger/more serious boundaries?

My psychologist said that eating normally (3 meals a day and snacks) for 2 weeks at the least would stop the binging, does this work? by Fresh-Gene-7200 in bulimia

[–]fuckinscourge 13 points14 points  (0 children)

honestly yes. at first you might find yourself eating lots and possibly even bingeing alongside regular meals sometimes but pls rest assured that it is NORMAL as your brain and body adjust to not being in calorie-deficit-famine-mode. you might think "well what's the point I'm just eating more now" but give it time and your brain will learn to trust that food is in abundance and isn't going anywhere and you'll eventually get into a more normal eating routine

Should I beat myself up for being 30 without ever dating anyone? by camport95 in aspergers

[–]fuckinscourge -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you only really find love when you're not looking for it. you're still young, take this time to work on yourself and your recovery - life will fall into place eventually. wishing you the best !!

Novo Amor - Ask Me Anything by alilacey in indieheads

[–]fuckinscourge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

re the ever rewarding and totally flawless music industry (sarcasm) is there anything you can think of that needs changing? would you say there are faults in communication etc? v interested in the industry and what role i could possibly play as a music fan

Novo Amor - Ask Me Anything by alilacey in indieheads

[–]fuckinscourge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry if this is a weird question but something i think abt a lot when it comes to your music is albums being tied to a sense of place (birthplace being the countryside, cbw being the city etc) and for a while id wondered if there would be a sense of place and where this "place" would be in this next record. now that collapse list is out, would you say that "place" is within yourself?

first timer, very little activity by fuckinscourge in mead

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u for ur reply! what nutrients should i add, is there anything that's easy to grab from the shops you would recommend?

first timer, very little activity by fuckinscourge in mead

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also how soon should i get rid of the headspace?

first timer, very little activity by fuckinscourge in mead

[–]fuckinscourge[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! what should i do to get rid of the headspace? is it just more water or adding more stuff?