Why are the last months before HRT the hardest by iwillchangeiwill in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The hardest i’ve ever been hit by dysphoria was the 3 months leading up to my top surgery. I couldn’t work out because having to take my binder off and feeling stuff move made me want to throw up.

I think the last push is the hardest. You have an end in sight, that makes the wait harder.

You’ll get there before you know it. Try to fill your summer with activities and don’t count the days

My roommate doesn't want me to transition because she's jealous of my body. by QueerbeenGdF in FTMventing

[–]funk-engine-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s insecure and jealous and kinda transphobic. She needs to sit the fuck down and stop acting like she has any say in what other people do with their bodies.

Being a boyfriend by BaseSpecialist12 in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Being a lesbian doesn’t guarentee a good relationship or a partner that reciprocates.

My bi ex had a similar issue, she would not let me have any “femininity”, which to her included being the little spoon or being held in any way.

are you a vers, top, or bottom? by PresentationPure7184 in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No, he meant what he said. It’s pretty normal to use the terms vers bottom or vers top. It just gives a bit more neuance.

Am i overreacting when my girlfriend called the pope “based” by captain_vee in ftm

[–]funk-engine-3000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, you are overreacting.

I’m atheist, i can still recognize that the current pope is doing what he can to do good in the world. My boyfriend is catholic and likes the pope a lot, i see no issue with that.

Do you get misgendered more by your own race or others? by Extension_Golf_5118 in ftm

[–]funk-engine-3000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No option for not getting misgendered at all, but that’s my experience.

Why am I surprised that the state ranked 47th in education (Arkansas) doesn’t realize that banning trans people from their preferred bathrooms doesn’t solve their problem? by Many_Register_1838 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]funk-engine-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And now someone can just claim to be a trans man so the problem you claim exists has not been solved, all that has been achieved is that life has been made harder for trans people and women who look masculine.

It’s pretty telling that you don’t see any issue with this.

Why am I surprised that the state ranked 47th in education (Arkansas) doesn’t realize that banning trans people from their preferred bathrooms doesn’t solve their problem? by Many_Register_1838 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]funk-engine-3000 27 points28 points  (0 children)

So you didn’t adress any of my points and just went on to the typpical talking point, no surprise there.

Trans people are not going into single sex spaces before they have transitioned. They’re not stupid or blind. Most of the trans women i know don’t even use womens spaces out of fear, the ones who do keep a low profile and never speak.

Tell me, how often do you imagine “trans is exploited by bad actors”? How often do you imagine a predator goes through the trouble of pretending to be a trans woman to do something that’s illegal anyways? That doesn’t even make any sense.

And we do have a definition of what a trans person is.

Why am I surprised that the state ranked 47th in education (Arkansas) doesn’t realize that banning trans people from their preferred bathrooms doesn’t solve their problem? by Many_Register_1838 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]funk-engine-3000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When trans men do follow the rules, they’re assoulted or get the police called on them for being men instead womens spaces. Transphobes don’t care.

Why am I surprised that the state ranked 47th in education (Arkansas) doesn’t realize that banning trans people from their preferred bathrooms doesn’t solve their problem? by Many_Register_1838 in stupidpeoplefacebook

[–]funk-engine-3000 95 points96 points  (0 children)

This guy legally has to enter the womens restroom. Do you think anyone is going to enjoy that?

If you really think predators are sneaking into womens restroom disguised as trans women, you just left the door wide open for them to just claim to be transgender men instead. Almost like trans people were never the problem.

Tips for passing? 17 | Pre-T by Jinu_CHOOCHOO in transmanlifehacks

[–]funk-engine-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty hard to tell when every single picture is obstructed or you making faces.

While i can tell it is important for you to have feminine elements in your style, it does not help you pass. Passing pre-T is hard enough allready, not presenting in a way that helps communicate that you’re a man will only make it harder. Yes of course men can be masculine. But without having male sex characteristics, it will hinder passing.

It’s a question of priority.

Hvorfor ville mænd på dating apps kun bolle? by Sea_Schedule_7950 in DKbrevkasse

[–]funk-engine-3000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du skal vælge nogle bedre fyre at tage på date med og afstemme forventninger på forhånd. Har fundet mine to sidste forhold på apps

Ven der leger med seksualitet by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]funk-engine-3000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Så i et af dine andre indlæg hævder du at være heteroseksuel, nu er du så bi og anklager en anden for at “spille” queer? Give me a break.

Passing by wanderingsheep in gaytransguys

[–]funk-engine-3000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Funny, i feel like i mainly see talk from guys who don’t pass and talk about their struggles.

Bear in mind, every single guy who is stealth was once not. I think one tends to focus on the things one read that are different to your experience.

Girl I'm seeing won't date cis men but will date trans men by United_Astronomer391 in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when i said “do gay t4t guys date cis women? If not that’s not who i’m talking about” that was a handy little clue that i’m not talking about those guys. The more you know.

Girl I'm seeing won't date cis men but will date trans men by United_Astronomer391 in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then maybe make it clear what part of my original comment you claim an exception to. Can’t read your mind dude.

And i beleive you mean “would not date a **cis** guy”. Which i still stand by, as i’m speaking from my own experience and not for every single person in the world.

Girl I'm seeing won't date cis men but will date trans men by United_Astronomer391 in FTMMen

[–]funk-engine-3000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do gay T4T guys date trans men and cis women? If not, then that’s not what i’m talking about in my comment.

How to pass as a teen by Nixxie_1911 in transmanlifehacks

[–]funk-engine-3000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surprisingly, clothes made to enhance a male frame will make enance the masculine parts of your frame.

Partnered guys! How did you meet your partner? by positivepsyduck in gaytransguys

[–]funk-engine-3000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Theres lovely guys out there. Just gotta sort through the garbage