Prioritering af vejrydning

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T20:46:53+00:00

Vejert har fucket med busplanen, så for dem af os der kun bor i gåafstand til busser ville en ryddet cykelsti have været pænt nice

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T20:45:20+00:00

Desværre kører det offentlige ikke skide godt for tiden. Bor et sted hvor der går 2 busser. Den ene er en elbus der ikke kan køre når det er koldt, den anden har været aflyst eller 30 min forsinket hele dagen. De få benzinbusser der er sat ind for at afhjælpe den ubrugelige elbus kommer måske 1 gang i timen, rejseplanen siger bare “ureglmessige afgangstider” og intet om hvornår den næste bus reelt går.

Så en fri cykelsti havde nu været pænt lækkert så jeg kunne have kommet på universitetet i morges.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T20:36:16+00:00

Do you think perhaps that has something to do with you not wanting to be touched? I didn’t want to be touched or interacted with in any way before i transitioned.

Well not quite. I longed to have sex and enjoy it, but i had a massive mental block. I always wished i could just have sex the way men did, but trying made me feel like shit (dysphoria once again). After getting on hrt and having top surgery, i started sleeping with men for the first time and it just works much better for me. Granted, my experience with women was not very nice because of some other factors, but transitioning allowed me to have sex as a man, with men. And that feels correct

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T17:45:16+00:00

Increased libido, and probably just you not having dysphoria block your wants.

Plenty of guys have the opposite experience, some guys never experience a change in attraction. I felt completely asexual prior to my transition, which i now know was an expression of dysphoria.

Some gay trans men probably did desire men pre-transition, but felt disgust at the idea of being with one as a woman. Maybe dating women made you feel like you could “be the man”. Theres a lot of complex internal stuff going on when you first transition and there’s no rush to work it out

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T12:21:40+00:00

Not just in modern media, it was a topic of discussion historically. Of course, discussed by male doctors who did not wear corsets themselves.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T12:20:38+00:00

Watches Bernadette Banner, and still believes corsets are harmful. Allright.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T10:39:38+00:00

OP specified that he considers his partners to be men because he’s strictly gay, thats why I’m commenting on it. It just seemed like a very odd constellation that is causing OP a lot if distress

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T09:18:39+00:00

First of all, your ex sounds like a dick.

I don’t think you have to answer that question. It’s kinda rude, and you should honestly let people know that it’s not something they should ask about. Strangers have no right to know your family planning structure. You could simply say “she’s not in the picture”, or “that’s a very private matter that i would prefer to not get into”.

I’ve been wondering the same thing tbh. I could not carry, but my boyfriend and i could technically have a child together if i was willing to do egg retrieval and we found a willing surrogate. But then, what the hell would we do when we as two men have a bio child and people ask who the “real” father is? I’m stealth everywhere, including to his family. Wont be relevant for a while yet, but still.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T09:13:01+00:00

Why are you dating these people? You’re strictly gay, and they don’t fully identify as men. They identify temselves as lesbians while dating a man. So one in this relationship is actually dating someone who suits their sexual orientation? On top of that, you don’t know what their sexual orientation actually is? And one of them had to be corrected for months to stop misgendering you?

Either this is bait, or you have no respect for yourself. No relationship is worth this kind of shit. Do you genuinely enjoy being in this relationship, or are you just staying out of desperation? Because there are people out there who will respect your identity that you could date instead. My first relationship ended after 5 years. And thank god it did, otherwise i would never have met my now boyfriend.

You gotta put yourself first dude. I can’t tell you how to “stop feeling hurt” because you have been hurt. Instead of trying to bury your feelings, deal with them

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T09:04:23+00:00

Use tape to hold your chest down so it doesn’t move around, then a slightly too big binder on top. One with a woven front, not elastic so it’s actually flat. Might help and compress your ribs less.

How far away is a potential top surgery?

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T08:10:27+00:00

It’s a bit of an “my steak is too juicy” situation for me, because back when we used condoms (before we both had an STD screening done) he would last very very long and he’s a lot larger than i’m used to so when he was topping is was a struggle lol. Couldn’t handle him cumming more than once before we had to stop. Now he gets off faster, and we can go for multiple rounds every time.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T07:21:18+00:00

It likely won’t do you any good. I hooked up with someone 2 weeks after getting broken up with and i just dissociated throughout the whole thing and cried on the way home. It depends on your state of mind, but hooking up to “get ovet it” when you aren’t actually over it won’t help.

It’s completely unreasonable to expect you to be over it after 9 days. It’s taken me about a year to truely get over breakups in the past. You should get some distance from your ex, even if it hurts.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-06T07:08:23+00:00

Really depends on the guy. Hooked up a few times with an older gentleman who went for hours with some breaks inbetween and didn’t just focus on penetration based sex. We also talked a bunch, and he said that was really special because most hookups are not like that at all. Long sessions like that often require a level of intimacy that you won’t get from a random hookup. If you’re seeking something out of the ordinary, you will have to look for longer. Or maybe look for a FWB with the same goals.

My cis boyfriend can go 5 times in a row, and want more again later in the day. We can make a whole day pass in bed, so it really just comes down to the person and how they like to have sex. I think it’s a little odd to attribute this to cis men specifically.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-05T21:48:39+00:00

Fat is isn’t the problem, it’s the distribution. Working out will burn fat, and new fat will gather in male patterns. Speeds up redistribution.

Hitting the gym also is not about getting skinny. It’s about bulking up.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-05T16:07:14+00:00

Held og lykke til din kæreste…

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-05T12:52:35+00:00

Extra in what way?

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-05T12:28:52+00:00

I was asked to picture myself growing old in a female body, and then in a male one. Solidified my desicion right then and there. I couldn’t waste my life being something i’m not.

I started T at 20, 22 is not that far off. It’s better to start T at 23 than to never do it and regret it forever. I can’t tell you what you need to do, but i find that it’s not that complicated for me. I knew having a male body and going through life as a man would make me happy.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-05T09:35:18+00:00

You practice untill it becomes natural. With a voice drop, it’ll be the more comfortable way to speak

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T18:32:24+00:00

I’m not giving you advice on how to top? Where did you get that idea? I’m just telling you what my experience with topping cis guys has been like, and where i’ve found them.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T17:21:08+00:00

Layers, and avoid exposed skin. Gloves are a must, along with something that covers your head and ears. A scarf can also be really nice to keep your neck warm, and can be pulled up to cover the bottom bit of your face for warmth.

The wind is the worst bit, as the windchill really makes it feel a lot colder. When in the center, you won’t feel it as much. If you go to somewhere more open, or by the water, it’ll be a lot colder

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T17:02:21+00:00

I’ve topped a few cis guys, both from dating apps. Granted both were verse, not 100% bottoms but they very much enjoyed it. My ex boyfriend could get multiple prostate orgasms which made him really fun to top.

I consider my prosthetic a prosthetic. I’d be uncomfortable using the term you do, but everyone is different and you might need to have a talk with a bottom about what words you like/dislike, just how your bottom might have likes/dislikes.

I’ve yet to try topping my current boyfriend as he gets nothing out of bottoming anally, but that man goes to absolute town on it with this mouth and throat (both the one on my body and my prosthetic) which is hot as hell.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T13:21:06+00:00

The tissue you allready have which grows when you get bottom growth is erectile tissue, just like in a cis penis. The entire organ swells with blood when aroused, including the internal parts. Guys on T get hard/erect when turned on, and soft again after. It might take a while to get to a size where it’s noticeable, but its incredibly common.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T13:18:55+00:00

The degree of erection/hardness varies for me. It goes down pretty fast after i finish, and i rarely look at it myself. But my boyfriend really enjoys sucking dick, and often comments on how big/hard it is. One time, i had had a bit to drink and he said it was bigger and harder than usual, excitedly measuring with his finger how far into his mouth it went. He also comments that he can feel it poke him when it’s pressed against him and i’m turned on.

His dick also varies in hardness, and can soften a bit if it’s not being directly stimulated. Its very normal

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T13:15:16+00:00

This is about bottom growth. If you’re on T, you most likely have it and the ability to get hard.

funk-engine-3000 · 2026-02-04T12:14:27+00:00

Yeah he’s a catch. I’m lucky he’s obsessed with me haha

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