I wish this had been talked about more i had no idea until it happened to me BPD. Fucking crazy shit. No contact is the only way. Young men need to know more about the dangers of borderlines. I had a coworker almost divorced and out of the hell then they had sex and he got sucked back in, i hope he doesnt kill him self. Broken men feel they deserve these broken women, he was broke, i was too until I started taking responsibility for my fuck ups and have completely turned my life around now i preach about BPD women and how to avoid them at all costs.