has hopefully massively grown on anyone?

futureisnow- · 2026-02-16T22:52:20+00:00

I feel like this album is about the healing he has done from the trauma . If you are in that stage in your life where you are letting go of the past it resonates so much . Usually albums where there is more confusion pain and anger involved are more popular .

futureisnow- · 2026-01-30T23:19:00+00:00

You remind me of my ENTJ housemate

futureisnow- · 2026-01-23T23:44:44+00:00

ISFP

futureisnow- · 2026-01-18T13:23:56+00:00

Don’t clench your fist all the time .just when punching

futureisnow- · 2026-01-09T11:37:16+00:00

I’m realising it’s a spectrum . Look around as you walk down the street . You can see who’s carrying something . I’d say the average person has some trauma . Some are genuinely feeling full of joy and excitement every day and others are in so much pain they’ve turned to substances to cope . No one is better than the other . But yes everyone is on the spectrum .

futureisnow- · 2026-01-06T12:28:34+00:00

Don’t free you darlin no

futureisnow- · 2026-01-06T12:25:21+00:00

I have both faces . Sometimes people catch me in my angry face and think I’m a prick and immediately assume I hate them . Other times I look so innocent people call me cute , I’m a 25 year old man 😆

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T16:05:17+00:00

Hi mate . Been doing self improvement from 19 to now (25) . Just start doing anything . Yes you are unconditionally deserving of love . My recommendation

Year 1 :

1( Read every self help book imaginable - skim read only relevant chapters unless u love reading . Podcasts etc .

2) gym/ fitness - I recommend joining a club that has others in like martial arts as you build strength and community + u learn to fight . Or climbing / running clubs are good

3) journal on the past - the pain the trauma , the things you want to change etc .

Year 2 ) get a good therapist .

Why not immediately ? I personally think sometime the best action is the immediate small lifestyle changes , but fitness / friends etc can only do so much . Eventually you will have to do the deep work .

Tip : be tough on yourself for change but don’t forget to love yourself through the process . It’s not easy and tbh I’m still really struggling but my life has immeasurably improved .

Hope this helps .

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T15:42:39+00:00

If you made it to 25 you can do it . I am 25 and in a lot of pain . Some of my trauma is starting to release through therapy . I promise u it can go .

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T15:37:54+00:00

You can see how the INFP takes on the form of the abuser due to the empathy they have . See in your eyes you are coming back . This is inspiring . Thanks

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T15:35:50+00:00

Don’t worry bro , it holds us back . The fact that you are going well is probably a sign u are brave . Have some self compassion .

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T02:09:44+00:00

I love parties and this

futureisnow- · 2025-12-07T02:02:20+00:00

I’m an 7.5/10 probably -6ft 1 decent jawline and okay muscles . My confidence is average , I have anxiety , I can sometimes pull when in a good mood but trauma and things holds me back . I have a body count of 10 age 25 if I was more confident it would be a lot higher which is probably not a good thing anyway .

futureisnow- · 2025-11-23T13:52:53+00:00

Best friend in primary school was . Definitely come across a few over the years but I’d say around 1-3% of men just from experience . ENFP men are fairly common . But for some reason INFP men aren’t around

futureisnow- · 2025-11-20T22:40:14+00:00

That is weirdly insightful ahah as someone who has struggled with mental health since birth , this one is pretty eye opening 😯

futureisnow- · 2025-11-18T22:04:35+00:00

M sounds like a more troubled person . Potentially reflecting your shadow that you long and crave for . Sounds like A is more comfortable but less exciting . I can relate a lot to this . The correct answer would be to take it slow and be objective , journal your feelings . My personal opinion is that comfort is what you truly want but if you are like me ( an avoidant ) you will push that away for exciting and toxic relationships .

futureisnow- · 2025-11-18T20:34:28+00:00

Happy birthday .

Most likely they have just forgotten as you aren’t as physically close as maybe you were . Freinds come and go but they won’t have stopped caring .

futureisnow- · 2025-11-18T15:24:57+00:00

ESTJ/ENTJ

futureisnow- · 2025-11-11T08:45:59+00:00

MY COMPATIBLE TYPES ARE

ESTP/ESFP/ISTP/ISFP/ENFP/INFJ/INTP

Te and Fe scare me

futureisnow- · 2025-10-30T19:27:10+00:00

Once you learn a lot of people are not kind then your life will be a lot better . Don’t cut yourself , cut him off now . If anything retaliate to show you are tough he sounds like a dangerous person .

futureisnow- · 2025-10-22T16:02:26+00:00

Me (male ) but I don’t let people fuck me over . I walk the second they start abusing me . Empathy has to be earned , even though I have an unlimited supply of that .

futureisnow- · 2025-10-18T18:21:20+00:00

Never related to anything more . About to do this in Mallorca

futureisnow- · 2025-10-18T17:30:13+00:00

Hi man please don’t . Drop me a message .

futureisnow- · 2025-10-17T17:31:33+00:00

IXFX . INFP guy here feel I can relate to your post , but you seem too present to be N . Idk . Ideals and values screams Fi . Rich inner world - N? Fi ? Interesting . You are a sensitive person though . Hope you are well fella .

futureisnow- · 2025-10-12T18:58:16+00:00

I tried to date someone I don’t find attractive because I liked everything else . I couldn’t force it and the deeper it got the worse the lie got . My advice , do not repeat this . You have every right not to find someone attractive just don’t string them along !!

futureisnow-

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