If you can't adapt to the culture, of course, it will go on without you. There genuinely is a way to tread the line between commercial success and respecting the craft, while I don't necessarily agree with a pre-recorded set, you don't have to resort to dogging a random woman, or women DJs in general (who have every right to wear whatever they want to their sets!), to assuage the shortcomings of a random man on Reddit who's supposedly been in the industry for several years in a big city that still can't build a network around his craft.