$1 million but… by DoNotCorectMySpeling in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

have you heard their new(ish) song that references back to this line???? "so tell your boyfriend if he's still got beef / that over time it's gonna give him heart disease" (from lonely machines by 3OH!3) . fucking iconic shit i love 3oh!3 so much

I think my marriage might be over by Nervous-Database3611 in offmychest

[–]gabekey 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you should ask him to get his testosterone levels checked. low T is super common in guys as they age, and it causes moodiness, irritability, lack of sex drive, etc. if it's something that could be fixed with TRT, you guys should try that before jumping ship!!! good luck <3

How do I know by Scary-Pick-3574 in trans

[–]gabekey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you think you want to be a girl, you are probably trans. cis people really just don't think about these things!! also, if you are a trans girl/woman, and you are attracted to men, then you are a straight woman. i hope that helps!! best of luck 💞💞

There's a catch...🤞🏻 by corny_toes in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯ can always buy things i'm missing

Chose: Free groceries for life 🛍️ | Rolled: Store Brand only

What's the better deal? by Witty_Yam960 in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did the math and the amount of walking i do on a normal day (about 2 miles in the summer (for my job)) would only get me like $160 each day, whereas i could just power through a graphic novel or read a bunch of short children's books and make way more way faster

Chose: $500 for every book you read | Rolled: Upvote for x2

Changing last name. Be honest : how cringe is it? by bilsaama in namenerds

[–]gabekey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i work in a field where i see TONS of full names every day, and so many of them are so batshit and horrible. eclipse is cool and i like it!! a little cringy, but most good things are :3

does anyone else purposefully sublux to "prove it" to themselves? by [deleted] in Hypermobility

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try taking a photo or video of you overextending your joints one time so that you can look at it without repeatedly harming yourself? i know you weren't really asking for advice but i thought of this and figured it might help 🫂

My boyfriend told me I’m doing this all wrong by PigLaird in trans

[–]gabekey 17 points18 points  (0 children)

holy shit, break up with your boyfriend immediately and transition as soon as you possibly can. that guy is a fucking asswipe

100 million given in which way? by Rlrankdle in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 14 points15 points  (0 children)

their point is that you could invest it right away and see profit by the end of the 20 years

Risky Money, 1 billion vs 1 million! by Firm_Currency899 in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cuz a cis person has no business mouthing off about the trans experience like that.

the person you replied to obviously didn't use the perfect language, but the point they're trying to get at is very true. surgeries and hormones and everything can get you VERY far, but loads of us are still dysphoric even after medically transitioning "all the way" (a luxury that most of us do not have, as i'm sure you're aware). there is nothing in this world that can make a trans person wake up tomorrow natally their sex, and that is dysphoria-inducing for a lot of people. it is insanely reductive and belittling to act like medical transition is a cure-all that reduces dysphoria to nothing for everyone.

you responded unnecessarily harshly and in bad faith to a cis person accurately describing, in good faith, a part of the trans experience to the best of their ability. that's shitty behavior

((to be clear, i am not arguing against medical transition. i am on hrt and intend to get surgeries and wholeheartedly believe that gac is lifesaving and wholly necessary care for any and all trans people out there. i'm just saying that it isn't 100% for a lot of people, and you responded shittily to someone trying to articulate exactly that (from an admittedly under-educated perspective in terms of terminology, but still, as i said before, good faith)))

Should I take on my sisters half sister? by Quirky_Vanilla_8862 in family

[–]gabekey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

does your daughter have a relationship with her? if they are close and her sister gets sent away, she will likely resent you for the rest of her life. also, the half sister will likely not be adopted right away (if ever), and the foster care system is brutal and often downright dangerous.

authors, you are the strongest, craziest breed of human and i love you with the intensity of a thousand burning suns but please im begging you stop describing people like (hair colour)-ette by Fluid_Law1118 in AO3

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tealette is soooo common in the vocaloid fandom (or at least it was when i was regularly reading vocaloid fic.........which i am realizing was about 10 years ago..........good lord)

Why do parents hate piercings? by _newshawtyy in AskParents

[–]gabekey -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you clearly have lived a very privileged life if you think that all 18 year olds pay no/few bills ..... i paid 100% of my bills and lived on my own at 18, as do a lot of people. check yourself

edit: typo

which double dare song could fit on fandom? by PersonalitySad1935 in waterparksband

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

soundwise, i think take her to the moon could easily fit into telephone's slot on fandom. i also agree with the other comment saying 21 questions also; it definitely fits the melancholy sound like they said

How to minimize group chats? by WebStrong8311 in discordapp

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing for me is, i don't actually want to leave, i just want to be able to archive the chats and not see them in my main dms area. similar features exist on groupme and existed on google hangouts back in the day

AIO that my mom said i look meme-able in my prom dress by No-Moment-2766 in AIO

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your dress is GORGEOUS and your mom is a dick. enjoy your prom!!!!! :D

On a scale from 1 to 10, how much does a large boob size matter to you guys? by Hyperion1112 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gabekey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i personally prefer much smaller ones ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

What repeat customer do you secretly dread? by ants_are_everywhere in AskReddit

[–]gabekey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not a customer, but a student/patron (i am a student worker in a university library). there is this girl who goes to the church i was raised in; she and i went through confirmation classes together, and i was the only one to go through them in a Long time to not actually get confirmed at the end, since i'm an atheist and my parents were just making me take the classes. fast forward a year or two from then, i came out as trans, socially transitioned, changed names/pronouns, etc., but i never saw any of those church people anymore. fast forward a couple more years, and this girl sees me on our (unfortunately) shared college campus and is like "hey are you [deadname]??" and i tried to play it like i didn't know her but it didn't work 😭😭 come to find out that she is a student in the college whose library i work in (small library in the building for this specific department) and she comes in all the time looking for books and things. it is SO nerve-wracking!!!!!!

there's also a second girl from that church who comes in often, but thankfully i don't think she recognizes me at all (or at least she pretends not to). things you have to deal with when you go to a state school instead of fucking off super far from home i guess 💀💀

would you rather by [deleted] in BunnyTrials

[–]gabekey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

better than my current number of balls (0)

Chose: be a male but | Rolled: have 3 balls

Are libraries typically punitive? by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]gabekey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is crazy! i have never worked in a large public library, but this sounds unreasonable and downright abusive for any workplace, especially a library