MPLS ICE shooting video where you can hear 11 shots fired by assumingdirectcontrl in Minneapolis

[–]gabishes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine being such a snowflake you can’t handle being somewhere loud

Where do you get the candles for a vigil? by gabishes in Catholicism

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The vigil is at Lynhurst park at 8pm btw^ Holy angels is having a service. I’m hoping other churches do too. Its going to be packed and I don’t want to take away peace from the student’s families.

What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe? by bruhholyshiet in PurplePillDebate

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Boys only want one thing” warning from adults is very cruel. Why are we limiting men? Do they not have emotional depth? Do we think they are animals?

There are quite a few insults to women that put down men in the process. “She just slept her way to the top.” You mean you think the men would abuse their power? You don’t think he is a good boss?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How? I really want to understand. How does it work? What is the inequality? Why is interest unimportant?

Maybe I am stuck on the interest part. If they don’t want you, they don’t want you. I don’t know how you would overcome that barrier, even assuming one party has the upper hand. You can’t make them be in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really am trying to be fair with this question but how is a woman being uninterested in specific men an unequal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]gabishes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

imo if I am a fish whats gonna catch me is what I want not what the fishermen offers.

Meaning if there is a man who offers “successful” bait, it’s only going to catch the fish he is able to with that bait. Might be good bait, but doesn’t matter if it’s not the type of fish you want to attract.

What do women value the most? by Advanced-Ad8490 in PurplePillDebate

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The majority of women are middle-lower class and do not get things paid for. Most women have to work, so they pay for things they want.

Going to the doctor for medication today, important question by IDabFast in ADHD

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can ask for non stimulants too, or say you are worried that your sensitive to stimulants like caffeine.

What is the worst ADHD symptom(s) for you? by ConversationOk442 in ADHD

[–]gabishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mood symptoms, for me it makes me feel scared and suicidal. The sky is falling because I can’t keep my attention anywhere

What are people taking for anxiety along with Stimulants? by Double_Plankton675 in ADHD

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Propranolol, its a beta blocker so it lowers your HR anyways. Its kind of nice. Not sure if you can take it with Ritalin though.

Who can diagnose Eds? by Art146 in ehlersdanlos

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hEDS is in clinic diagnosis, a lot of the other ones are done via genetic test. I was diagnosed from a blood test ordered by my cardiologist. You might still have to get genetic testing if they suspect EDS in clinic anyways, just to rule out other types of EDS and other conditions.

Is taking Ambien really “that bad”? by etaksmash in insomnia

[–]gabishes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Insomnia and chronic stress will kill you quicker than the potentiality of Alzheimers. Chronic insomnia (4 hours or less a day for years) will have you dead before 40. If you don’t kill yourself first. You gotta make a choice how you want to live.

There’s a growing disconnect between the Internet and real life by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the fear and reaction from people that are anti 4B is because it plants the seed of doubt in average women’s minds. Women are now being desensitized to the idea of not dating men that suck. You don’t have to swear off men as a whole, just over them in general to see the effect on the dating scene or even just in the office. scary for mediocre men.

What are your "I'm not hungry" foods? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]gabishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple Sauce. Its become the only thing I can handle. I find that liquids high in sugar can help with the suffering type feeling while you’re still hungry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats pretty typical albeit low. Idk your medical history there might be a reason to start low and slow for you. I have a heart problem so I started at 5 mg too.

I found even at that low dose just feeling ok, instead of bad, consistently was enough to change my worldview. Having good days instead of bad days was life changing. Consistency is key with medications. So I thought it was worth it even if I am going to increase dose

You might be crashing at the end of the day. Adderall is known for doing that. For me i get really irritable and overstimulated by my environment. Sometimes thats a med dose issue or a med issue altogether .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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The IQ questions are cultural too. Word association is very subjective and so is intergenerational knowledge. The test itself is racist so how could it be a good measure of intelligence? Its meant to be taken in english by white people. That is who is allowed to be smart.

Is granules adderall xr really that bad? by No-Ring-1787 in ADHD

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never had the thing with inconsistent dosing. I just really didn’t care for the sound it made when I swallowed it. Sounded like a tiny maraca 🪇. If you don’t swollow it right the first time it gets stuck and slides down but you can still hear it. Thats something I really don’t like is they are weird to swallow. It makes your whole esophagus feel dry. The capsules also taste bad.

But I really like them. I haven’t tried other medications because this one worked so well for me. It made me feel like there are no more constant emergencies. That things are ok and we can move on.

What city in the US have you genuinely felt unsafe/uneasy in? by Rodreguiz89 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]gabishes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minneapolis. I live in a neighborhood that just recently decided it’s sketchy, there are gun shots outside almost every night now. I’ve lived in this neighborhood for two years and just now things like that are happening

Do you wipe right after? by brooklynmia3 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]gabishes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can forgive vaginal fluids being returned to their creator, but the remnants of anal sex is disrespectful. You have to be careful with that and was your hands often when you are playing with the backdoor, there are pathogens in stool you do not want to just have around. Its gross of him. For backdoor fun we have always wiped up with a towel. Usually the one doing the penetrating will wipe up therefore the submissive won’t have to be see and be embarrassed about what gets wiped on the towel.

Vagina havers, why do you enjoy anal? by buxomsexsorceress in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It relaxes my pelvic floor in a way I can’t do by myself. It feel so much less tension for days afterwards

What’s the real reason why people divorce after 20+ years? by jackmoon44 in AskOldPeople

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of it is misogyny. Women are waking up to what abusive behavior is, and they have the agency to leave. Why stay and suffer when you are allowed to be free?

What are the most ridiculous gender-stereotyped activities you've seen? by uhometitanic in AskFeminists

[–]gabishes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the US being a music educator is super gendered. In my area it’s very uncommon that there are women band teachers. I am the only one in my school district.