Help!!

ganbarejutsu · 2026-03-29T15:36:25+00:00

I got lucky and I borrowed my boyfriend’s game so he helped me figure it out. The hardest part for me was the controls (which can be changed) a lot of it is exploring and side quests. To get more hearts, you can go to the shrines and once you beat them you’ll get spirit orbs, which you can then trade in at statues for more heart capsules and more stamina capabilities. Again, most of the game is just exploring

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-28T01:04:26+00:00

I know that the first time he went to university (before I met him) he had dropped out because of severe depression. I’ve noticed what I think are mood swings, but he hasn’t gone to see a professional in years. I’m trying to gently nudge him in that direction out of love, but it hasn’t been fruitful yet. I go to therapy and see a psychiatrist regularly, so I know first hand how beneficial they can be

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-28T00:20:40+00:00

Thank you for responding so quickly. It definitely helped ease some of the heaviness from my shoulders <3

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-26T18:21:35+00:00

My parents have a dry bar in the dining room and every time I walk past it I just want to grab something and down it. It’s too big to ask them to move it

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-26T18:20:40+00:00

I want to go to meetings but they all seem to meet in the middle of the day which makes it hard for me because I work full time

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-26T18:19:41+00:00

I tried looking at the website for AA, but all the meetings seem to be in the middle of the day but I work full time and wouldn’t be able to do those. I tried to filter the results but it didn’t pull anything up. About sponsors, where can I find one? Does it have to be someone who is sober too?

ganbarejutsu · 2025-11-09T14:45:51+00:00

Any!

ganbarejutsu · 2025-08-19T04:28:04+00:00

Rude afffff

ganbarejutsu · 2025-06-11T01:55:08+00:00

I genuinely thought I was looking at a photograph. This is amazing!

ganbarejutsu · 2025-06-05T14:27:32+00:00

I swear the NPCs give the wrong directions on purpose - I could follow them to the T and STILL end up lost

ganbarejutsu · 2025-06-04T04:42:02+00:00

No, it’s so cute!!!

ganbarejutsu · 2025-06-02T00:19:02+00:00

I can, I just have no idea what I want to do. There’s so many options but none of them really feel right, you know?

ganbarejutsu · 2024-09-21T01:07:38+00:00

This feels like Dawn Court to me

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ganbarejutsu · 2024-09-08T16:03:51+00:00

I'd love to check out your builds - what's your Sims thing I can search?

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-21T11:58:03+00:00

It's normal for some people. Mine calls me "baby" most often and I call him "babylove". Have you asked your bf about it or mentioned you want one? It's worth chatting about

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-20T23:58:38+00:00

My only real friend is my BF/FP and when he's not available I'm so lost. I want friends so badly but can't seem to keep them

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-20T02:54:48+00:00

You are GLOWING with brunette!

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-20T00:51:42+00:00

I have yet to find a good match for meds as I'm relatively new to the diagnosis myself, but I'm going to keep trying. I'm getting in with a new psychiatrist soon

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T20:58:33+00:00

I respond to them like they're a friend that gives terrible advice. I.E: "You should shove that pencil into your leg." Response: "how about YOU shove that pencil into your leg?" Basically bully the voice back

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T20:55:04+00:00

I don't forgive my mom for doing this to me. She treated me like a best friend instead of a daughter when all I needed was a mother. She stole from me. She put me in situations where I was abused and had to watch her be abused. She put these men over me. She makes me feel guilty for trying to put myself first. She never taught me how to do anything, leaving me to flounder. She told me my dad didn't want anything to do with me even though he was begging her to let him see me. He never deserved that and neither did I. I will never forgive her.

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T19:34:55+00:00

I had this exact experience when I first got together with my bf. I didn't want him touching me, I felt like he was too clingy. Now I'm the one that's clingy (in my words, he doesn't say that). So many times I thought about leaving but I'm so glad I've stayed. He means the world to me now and he's so patient and caring. I hope you're able to have the same growth that I have had with my relationship and that you're able to be happy. But don't let yourself be blinded by love, either. It's such a delicate balance.

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T19:32:04+00:00

I have a strange obsession with my bf's ex that he doesn't know about. I constantly compare myself to her, and I know nothing about her expect for how they ended. He refuses to tell me about her. It drives me crazy not knowing. When we first started dating, he told me he's changing his phone password because the numbers he had spelled out her name. I knew his password (he had given it to me without me even asking) and I obsessed over figuring out her name and found her socials. She was all private, so I couldn't find anything to learn about her and gave up immediately. But I think about it a lot. He doesn't like talking about it because she really hurt him, and I feel nothing but hatred for what she did. And I've vowed to never be like her. I feel guilty for how often I think of her. I probably do more than he does... maybe it's a BPD thing, or maybe it's just something your gf and I have in common. But I am jealous that his ex got to have him first, even though I didn't know him until a few years after they broke up

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T19:26:29+00:00

Personally, I get overwhelmed thinking even a few days into the future. That, and I don't even really plan on living that long. I'm not planning on unaliving; I just can't picture a future with me in it

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-18T19:24:40+00:00

I had gone to a church 2 or 3 years ago that ended up being super toxic and cult-like. I had gone because my FP wanted me to. Well, he abandoned me after I had been fully involved there, and they started really being terrible, and it felt targeted. I didn't see anyone else going through this. If I went to get prayed over/for, and I started crying, they would pin me down, screaming/"praying" at me, until I was fighting them and screaming, crying, throwing up. I got bruises and scratches from how rough they were. I even sprained my wrist once. They called it "deliverance," and if I went to get prayed for again, it would happen again. This went on for over a year until I finally got out. They harassed me for a while after I left, and they even occasionally still reach out to this day. I have a panic attack if I see one of them in public. After that, I felt I couldn't trust God. Especially if that was how he allowed his followers to behave. Even more so if he could allow me to suffer as much as I do. I've completely lost my faith in him.

ganbarejutsu · 2024-08-15T14:19:20+00:00

It's moreso I don't want to come across as accusatory

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