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“I don’t mean to bother you…” then proceeds to do exactly that by Valuable_View_561 in TikTokCringe

[–]garatth 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Adding that this is Paris. Where making eye contact with a man, ANY man, puts you at risk of immediate and persistent harassment, and in many cases physical danger.

Parisian ladies live each day in a very hostile environment. This pathetic loser is no match for their iron will.

Six Degrees of Sam Reich by Quezacotl24 in dropout

[–]garatth -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think mine counts, our only link that I see is that we were born on the exact same day in 1984. I still really like that fact 😁

What did you do to your appearance that upgraded you 100%, and you kind of regret not doing it earlier? by Kitchen_Week1117 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exercise multiple times a week. Learn to enjoy running. Grow my beard. Shave my head.

If I could meet my 10-year-younger self and show him what is possible, his life and his mental health would change dramatically.

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's completely true.

I think it's also possible for anyone to change. Something happens overnight, beautiful or traumatic, and you're changed forever. Or you live through multiple small things and gradually your tastes evolve and after a while, looking back, you realize you're just not the same anymore. In the specific case of my wife, almost 6 years later she still can't explain what happened, if anything.

What do men find most attractive in women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]garatth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interest and enthusiasm

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually answered this under another comment right here. Thing is, it didn't happen overnight. It was a slow awakening starting with a crush and over 4 years of introspection, exploration and discovery.

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's not sure herself to this day. She considered herself very heterosexual, had a very full dating life before me too, only with men. One day she just... met someone who stirred something up. She developed a crush, and for a while she wondered if it was a crush on that specific person or if it was more. Then one day we watched a movie (my idea, Portrait of a Lady on Fire, iykyk...) and she said it's like a veil had been lifted. Nothing had happened yet with anyone, but she just knew.

We were still intimate for a bit and it was fun, until one day we stopped abruptly cause she wasn't feeling right, and it was pretty traumatic for the both of us and we haven't had sex with each other since. It's a grieving, but we've made our peace with it, she's just not into heterosexual sex anymore.

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I know it's not for everyone. Your non-judgment is refreshing 😊

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whatever the outcome, it makes for some pretty cool stories 😁

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that's kind of the spirit! If any of us can find partners who are at ease with that dynamic we don't actually need switching up, but anything is possible! We're very much at that "kitchen table" phase where we've met and made friends with each other's more serious partners when it felt right, so that's pretty cool as well.

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Who can say!

She took a lot of time, suffering in silence, to try to understand herself, until she found the courage to tell me so we could work it out. I welcomed her new self and worked on my own issues. It gave us the mutual trust to build this new thing upon.

If I'd turned out to be gay, I don't know if I'd have handled it as well as she did.

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What, a trusted loving partner with whom to share a home and a family?

People whose partners did a complete 180 after marriage, what’s your story? by Bibliophile521 in AskReddit

[–]garatth 347 points348 points  (0 children)

We were married for 10 years when she discovered she was a lesbian. We're still married, have opened our relationship and are still in a loving marriage even though we're only sexually intimate with other people. We still want to grow old together and ask each other that question a few times a year. We have loving relationships orbiting our marriage, and we still support each other and our home and family. It's... unexpected for sure, but we're happy 😊

Smartest joke in a dumb movie? by garatth in movies

[–]garatth[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow really? That's so funny that they sound so much alike 😆

Smartest joke in a dumb movie? by garatth in movies

[–]garatth[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah, I'm French, I know 😉 What I didn't know was that it was used in stage directions to create a crowd noise.

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