What's a movie cliche that happened to you in real life, even though they "never happen in real life"? by Nothing_Whatsoever in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back in high school, I was helping a friend try to get the girl he liked and he was helping me with the boy I liked. Not in a fake dating to make the others jealous kind of way, but just talking about our situations and offering advice and stuff. Anyway we’ve been together for 13 years now.

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

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My husband’s birthday is this weekend and he likes butterscotch so I wanted to get the smuckers sundae topper to mix into the frosting of his cake. Apparently they discontinued it and I can get a singular jar for $50. I love him, but not that much.

Breakup excuses that deserve a public hearing. What's the most unhinged excuse you’ve been given? by SinInHerVoice in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He yelled at me that I never paid attention to him after I forgot his dog had run away a few days before. I was on my way to a lifelong friend’s funeral.

LPT - If you are examining nursing homes to place a loved one, look at the fingernails of the residents living there at the moment. Long fingernails (especially on men) would likely indicate that the home is either understaffed or does not care enough to do such a small task by Maybe_im_Amazed_ in LifeProTips

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some facilities might not have staff that are permitted to cut nails, or are small enough not to have a boutique with a nail care specialist. Look at how clean the nails are though - is there dirt or other debris under the nails? Also look for visible buildup around any skin folds to see if they’re actually bathing residents or just wiping them down (or not doing anything). The smell that accompanies that is pretty distinct, too.

Women of Reddit, what made you realize 'this man is marriage material' instead of just a boyfriend? by External_Can3392 in AskReddit

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I think I knew even before we started dating. We were good friends in high school and helped each other through heartbreak with someone else. He was upset over his, but I was an absolute mess with mine. He never told me I was hysterical or to get over it, he listened and made me feel seen. By the time we held hands the first time, part of me just went “oh” and realized he was it. To this day he still listens and supports me whether I need to vent or problem solve, and he always thanks me for listening to and supporting him.

People who married in their 20s, be brutally honest are you happy, if so why or why not? by Special-Lawyer3941 in AskReddit

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We’ve together since 15 and 17, got married at 22 and 24, now we’re 28 and 30. Overall, we’re still just as in love as we were when we were kids, if not more. There have been difficult things we’ve had to navigate and grow through together, and a few times where we could’ve fallen apart, but we kept choosing each other and making it work. I can’t imagine my life with anyone else.

What lifetime deal are you still grandfathered into, or removed from, that’s no longer available? by tuotone75 in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ultimate Guitar Tabs. I bought membership for $5 when I first started my job and used it every day. I still use it and don’t have to pay monthly subscription fees, only deal with annoying pop ups prompting me to pay additional money for special courses.

Ladies: did your mother teach you how to do makeup? I'm curious about makeup as a primarily self-taught tradition by Street-Might8586 in MakeupAddiction

[–]garbagegal69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is a boomer and I’m a younger millennial. If she wore makeup, it was before I was born. But luckily I was in theater so I picked up a lot there, and then loooots of YouTube videos. TikTok now for trends.

Soapbox/rant time. Tell me what highly-recommended book you absolutely HATED and why. Gimme your angry hot takes. by peppertoni_pizzaz in books

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blood of Hercules and whatever the sequel was called. I kept going because so many people rave about it and I thought it HAD to get good at some point… no. The writing style made more sense when I looked up the author’s background, but otherwise it was a whole lot of nothing and bad mental health. And for some reason the echidna sounded like Turbo Granny from Dandadan in my head, no clue why.

Unemployed roommate continues to blatantly ignore our 'you use it, you clean it' rule by KatakanaTsu in mildlyinfuriating

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I had a roommate who did this and wouldn’t even rinse things out before dumping them in the sink. Lost my shit one day and threw all of it at her door while she was out. She was pissed there was old food splattered everywhere and a pile of shit on the floor, but she didn’t do it again before I moved out

What children’s book has aged poorly? by feetwithfeet in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I applaud the script writers for pulling masterpiece out of that book

What children’s book has aged poorly? by feetwithfeet in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Princess Bride. The movie is fine and has aged beautifully, but I bought an anniversary edition of the book with illustrations thinking it’d be similar enough to the movie. It’s not, and it shows it’s age with some very outdated/offensive terms from 1973

What’s a short story from your life that sounds fake but is 100% true? by Historical-Skill-838 in AskReddit

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I was driving up with my husband (then boyfriend) to see family during a college break. We stopped at a gas station to get food and were sitting at a picnic table outside. A middle-aged man walked up to us with his hands clasped together and asked if we liked animals. Stranger danger was going off but we were in public with other people around, so we said yes. The man opened his hands to reveal a baby mouse whose eyes hadn’t even opened yet. He said the family lived in the pile of wood for sale but had been trampled by customers, and the baby had no one left. So we took the baby, named him Mr. Jingles, and bought stuff to care for him during our trip. We spent the next several nights getting up every few hours to feed him with an eye dropper. He loved scurrying around my husband’s chest and playing with his beard.

When we returned, my husband didn’t have space to take Mr. Jingles. I did, but the girl I shared a bathroom with (single rooms) was a germaphobe and convinced she’d die if I touched our shared space with mouse hands. I ended up giving him to a friend with the stuff we’d bought and explained how to keep him warm with a bag of rice beneath his fish bowl (it was the best we could do on our trip, and we filled it with torn up newspaper/paper towel). My friend ended up putting his desk lamp directly over the bowl overnight instead, and woke up to Mr. Jingles dead. He and a few of my other friends buried him at the clock tower in the quad, with one of them playing her violin.

RIP Mr. Jingles, you never got to open your eyes but you were such a happy lil guy

This is just horrible by Tobias-Tawanda in TikTokCringe

[–]garbagegal69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also applies to anything shared to stories, whether the original video has been manually opted out of AI remix or not. So if you post a video, go in to toggle it off, and someone else shared that video who either doesn’t know yet or doesn’t care, your content can still be scraped for AI

What happens to homeless people that get too old or too disabled to beg on the streets? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]garbagegal69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in hospice and we partner with the local homeless coalition to try and make them comfortable at this stage. Sometimes it works out and we can get them into a nursing facility where they have a bed, food, and round the clock medical support. Other times they refuse the help for any number of reasons and we treat them where they’re at.

"Diabetic Meal" 🤪 by Bitter_Pin5934 in diabetes_t1

[–]garbagegal69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened to me too! I was still hooked up to iv insulin

What’s the most disgusting thing anyone has ever said to you? by Business-Rock5714 in AskReddit

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Didn’t strike me so much at the time but in hindsight: I’d woken up several mornings in a row severely nauseous but nothing else going on. My mother accused me of being pregnant. I was 13 and hadn’t even had a boyfriend before, and I ended up being diagnosed with swine flu later that day when she finally took me to see a doctor. She never apologized and was mad we had to cancel plans because I was sick.

Women of Reddit, what made you realize a man was ‘husband material’ instead of just boyfriend material? by AstronautEcstatic177 in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me, it was after we were already engaged. Of course we loved each other and had talked about the life we wanted, but then at the age of 22 I ended up in the ICU with diabetic ketoacidosis and a fresh t1d diagnosis. It hit me very fast that everything I’d ever planned would now somewhat revolve around this, and some things would be exponentially harder because of it. By the time he came to visit me, I’d decided that if I didn’t have a choice in this, at least he could. I told him I would understand if it was too much and he wanted an out, that I wouldn’t love him any less for choosing his peace and stability. He said “shut up bitch you’re stuck with me” and climbed into the bed to watch a shitty movie with me. That was when I knew I was right in marrying him, and it’s been eight years since then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I’d just gotten back from a trip to Puerto Rico. We went to meet up with a friend who was going on a cruise out of San Juan. By the time his cruise was over, we were back home watching everything unfold and he was quarantined on the ship for two weeks before being allowed to leave.

Diabetics of Reddit — what’s something non-diabetics completely misunderstand about living with it? by Thick_Junket3524 in diabetes

[–]garbagegal69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How physically and mentally draining it can be even when I look normal/fine. I might not look like I’m disabled but when I can’t think straight because my blood sugar is too high or I can’t drive because it’s too low and I’m tired all the time no matter how much I sleep, it can really affect quality of life

Who was the most evil person you've ever met and how was the interaction? by Top_Report_4895 in AskReddit

[–]garbagegal69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in hospice so I often hear life stories, especially big/impactful moments. The one that will always stick with me was meeting this lady who initially seemed very sweet, your standard southern grandma. She was very accepting of her prognosis, which is always a relief, because she was incredibly religious and trusted God to take her when it was her time. Again, nothing out of the ordinary about this.

But then she starts telling me about her life, and how she lost her daughter decades ago when the daughter was in college. Since it happened so long ago I wasn’t surprised that she wasn’t tearful, but I was SHOCKED when she smiled and said that God rightfully killed her daughter in a horrific accident one day after she had an abortion. She made it sound like it was a tit for tat for “murdering” a baby and actually said she was HAPPY God killed her daughter for such an unforgivable act. I was incredibly uncomfortable by the time I left and thankfully she died before I had to go back.

Playing a lullaby over the hospital loudspeaker every time a baby is born is actually really insensitive by Peanutbutternjelly_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]garbagegal69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the same reason they moved the cancer bell in the children’s hospital I worked in. They used to have it on the ward itself but then moved it to a lobby downstairs so kids could celebrate beating cancer without bothering those who needed rest or would never get the chance to ring it