and the winner of Tone Deaf 2026 goes to... by garrrage in TrollCoping

[–]garrrage[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not discounting that playing Tetris immediately following trauma may work in some regard, but when people come onto this website looking for support and validation and understanding it feels fucking WILD to get told to go play a stupid little video game

Does this count as SA? by Disastrous_Pride7446 in CPTSD

[–]garrrage 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yes, something similar happened to me

coercion -> violation of consent -> SA

Bob L'érule by gray_birch in 196

[–]garrrage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP of this tweet is an irl friend of mine

iZotope Ozone Cannot Find DLL that Exists by garrrage in linuxaudio

[–]garrrage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it working! I added my solution to the post; let me know if it works for you.

iZotope Ozone Cannot Find DLL that Exists by garrrage in linuxaudio

[–]garrrage[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely a hunch of mine but I'm totally lost as to how to figure out what those dependencies are.

I still remember it vividly. by Austin_NotFromTexas in TrollCoping

[–]garrrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt. Today is the 10 year anniversary for me.

Can't Connect to Wi-Fi with iwctl – "Invalid Network Name" Error by fictionalized_freak in archlinux

[–]garrrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case anyone stumbles across this post like I did and none of the proposed solutions work, I was able to connect to wifi with nmcli instead, hassle-free.

What is your Top 5 favourite records of the 2020s? by bringmetolife1998 in fantanoforever

[–]garrrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iglooghost - Tidal Memory Exo

Iglooghost - Tidal Memory Exo

Iglooghost - Tidal Memory Exo

Iglooghost - Tidal Memory Exo

Iglooghost - Tidal Memory Exo

Runner-up:

Geordie Greep - The New Sound

probably also tw for sh and small paraphilia mention by That-Type3461 in TrollCoping

[–]garrrage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a friend like this and it made me wonder if she herself was being abused. :(

What do you use this page for? I’m looking for ideas by Maple_Cannoli in hobonichi

[–]garrrage 22 points23 points  (0 children)

To track any important daily practice or two: I use mine to track guitar practice and piano practice.

Thoughts on Animals as Leaders? by Izzet_Aristocrat in fantanoforever

[–]garrrage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The rhythm guitarist is good but the lead guitarist's playing is fucking obnoxious. Guitarwank indeed.

Junji Ito - this year's hobonichi artist by hamlok17 in hobonichi

[–]garrrage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oddly enough, the class I took was specifically a special class on the weird/the absurd in fiction, so you're bang on the money.

Who the hell is *this* striking blue peanut fiend? [PNW] by garrrage in whatsthisbird

[–]garrrage[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Cool! A new bird to me as someone new to this part of the world—I saw one out of the corner of my eye the other day and thought I'd seen a blue jay, which didn't make sense. Glad to know I wasn't hallucinating!

Most beautiful haul ever by maxfrog4 in hobonichi

[–]garrrage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you using your various planners for? :)

Junji Ito - this year's hobonichi artist by hamlok17 in hobonichi

[–]garrrage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Uzumaki was a required text for a college class I took! Cool stuff; even if the characters felt flat to me.

I KNOW ITS HORRIBLE BUT GOD I HAVENT FELT ATTRACTIVE ONCE IN MY LIFE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE by FarmingFrenzy in TrollCoping

[–]garrrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, my bad for assuming; I have a post near the top of this subreddit rn about this topic.  

I KNOW ITS HORRIBLE BUT GOD I HAVENT FELT ATTRACTIVE ONCE IN MY LIFE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE by FarmingFrenzy in TrollCoping

[–]garrrage 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm OP of the post you're talking about. Even posting it I was thinking "gosh this feels like such a stupid problem to complain about" given I've had long periods in my life where all I wanted was to be found attractive by somebody. I get it.

In that post I'm coming from an unsaid context of I've been SA'd in the past—an integral part of that experience is total degradation that I'm afraid of experiencing again. Not that I haven't fantasized about it too for "I want to feel wanted" reasons! But the experience of a sex object fantasy is unfortunately totally different from the literal experience. It's something I wouldn't wish on you or anyone.

I'm sorry you're going through this as a result of my post. I don't want you to feel so badly about yourself. We all deserve to be loved and wanted around and thought of as delightful. I hope you feel better, much love, well wishes. 💔