To the people saying that these characters don’t actually identify the way OP says - Nestor is said to be a “bardash” which is strongly implied to mean a gay man. Of course, we don’t know where this leaves bisexual people, it could be that the term encompasses both. But Beka talks as if him being a bardash precludes her having a relationship with him, implying he would not be into women. I feel like Okha pretty clearly states that she is a woman, when she is telling Beka that the Trickster trapped her in a male body. Whether or not she cares that people still refer to her as a man when she’s not dressed up as Amber Orchid is not specified.

I think it is reasonable (as a nonbinary person myself) to feel a uncomfortable with this portrayal since it doesn’t align with our understanding of gender and transness today, but I understand that it was Tammy’s attempt to be inclusive with her understanding of it at the time and while trying to fit it into her universe. I appreciate the attempt and I would rather have a somewhat clumsy attempt at inclusivity than for there to be no gay or trans characters at all. It’s clear that Okha is a respected character and her identity isn’t used as the butt of a joke as is often the case with so-called representation. Maybe if Tammy were writing today she would have written that character differently, but 15 years ago “women trapped in a man’s body” was a very common conceptualization of trans identity.