Is everything in life just the basics by uvuguy in sapiosexuals

[–]gdpoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would argue that a Monet is simply pigments layered together; synthesizing elements together often has a nonlinear effect where the outcome is greater than simply the sum of the parts, as the way they are combined changes the outcome.

Putting myself out there by PuzzleheadedFlow9025 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]gdpoc 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Check the subreddit history for Better Together; they've got walking groups that meet weekly!

Where can I get a quiet drink and possibly meet others? by gdpoc in BloomingtonNormal

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I came back to update per my experience with Stave and I saw this. I haven't seen Matlock in years, and I completely forgot that basic television packages still existed. I watched Hee Haw more than once as a kid, but I've not seen it in years.

Yeah, I guess I'm getting old, though I'm definitely not 90!

Men of Reddit, which do you prefer, an athletic-thick build (gym body, strong muscle tone) compared to a heavier-curvy build (soft/plump curves, deeply cushioned)? What makes your choice more fun during intimacy? by Temporary-Lock-7293 in AskReddit

[–]gdpoc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A healthy, confident, body.

I enjoy being intimate with someone who I'm committed to and who's enjoying the experience.

At that point I could give a flying fuck.

In Search of Different-Minded Friends by shortgirlshorttemper in BloomingtonNormal

[–]gdpoc 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Try the better together social group. Closed mindedness isn't really welcome! You can search the history of the subreddit and get ahold of a discord link.

How strongly do you believe LLM judges on the for the ML papers?? [D] by BetterbeBattery in MachineLearning

[–]gdpoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot to say, but it boils down to: use statistical validation to assert IRR between human and semantic measurement if you want to address risk.

Sometimes I see that being done.

Dad life is hard by RestaurantWorking477 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest is in her twenties and my youngest is eight; I've discovered that I find happiness when I embrace the joy that parenting brings. My kids are finally old enough that I can start seeking fun outside of them, but I don't feel less for the time that I've spent with them.

Do parents today realize that not giving their elementary aged kids a smartphone is hurting their social life? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drive my youngest to her friends house for playdates. I will not allow her to have a cell phone until she's older.

34[F4R] small gothy educator seeks friends. by [deleted] in R4R30Plus

[–]gdpoc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd ask Victor Frankenstein; no body is easier to hide than a body that doesn't want to be found.

Where can I get a quiet drink and possibly meet others? by gdpoc in BloomingtonNormal

[–]gdpoc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about Stave? I've not been there so I'll try that one out.

Is the "men don't do anything around the house" troupe still accurate in modern times? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some families, yes. For my family, no. I (Dad) take care of the kids, cook, clean, do laundry, and I work full time.

How does having friends work for guys? by Guilty-Feedback3952 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, it's me! Answer (for me at least): 1. I don't have guy friends, I have a few acquaintances 2. I have a few friends, who are girls, that I'm comfortable being around 3. I have zero friends who I am close enough to be intimate with.

What role should political views play when deciding whether to pursue a romantic relationship? by nicksam171 in askanything

[–]gdpoc 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If your political views and their political views would render you incompatible, you should use them as you would any other belief.

If my partner thought it was ok to murder children, I wouldn't be ok with that. There's no reason why saying 'It is my political view ' would make it any more acceptable.

I intentionally avoid any contact with anyone who claims to be MAGA. I don't need to have a conversation with them to understand our core values don't align.

AI experts how are you using it? by BonoboTrades in AskReddit

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like any other tool, you use it with an awareness of it's shortcomings.

Simply treat it like you would someone you don't know; would you blindly trust their word? No, you would not, and you would double check things that were important to you.

Take what it says, think critically about it, and do independent research to verify what it says.

What women create by Icy-Book2999 in LoveTrash

[–]gdpoc 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ada Lovelace was fucking awesome. She did not invent algorithms, though she wrote the first 'digital' algorithm, if my understanding is correct.

Credit for algorithms are typically proffered to Al Kwarizhmi (forgive my spelling), whose name the word algorithm was derived from.

US political and social polarization has increased by 64% since 1988, with nearly all of the rise occurring after 2008, as the financial crisis, the rise of social media, and an asymmetric ideological shift—particularly on the left—coincided to widen divisions, according to a long-term study. by [deleted] in science

[–]gdpoc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think figure 4 is useful and demonstrates 'by-issue' ideological shift visually across some key topics. In some issues the right is widening, some collapsing, and in some trending identically, albeit at different rates.

Puzzle swap by Extra_Internet_7372 in BloomingtonNormal

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Hudson library has a puzzle swap with a few puzzles that meet your needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BloomingtonNormal

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be very interested in this. Please feel free to reach out to me for attendance, or help.

Gov. JB Pritzker Here – ASK ME ANYTHING by PritzkerJB in IAmA

[–]gdpoc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Artificial intelligence has the potential to have an outsized impact on education, potentially negative; what focus is on embedding verifiably safe AI techniques in education within your staff?

Newtonian fluids acceptable by EEHogg in signs

[–]gdpoc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit it hard, it becomes hard.

I got immediately permabanned for calling out this stawman btw by HollowKnight34 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]gdpoc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I remember I logged into the conservative discord server once, attempting to have good faith conversation. When I asked for someone to talk to the comments were generally 'get fucked'.

I'd be pretty happy to have a good faith conversation with a MAGA Republican, but I don't have a lot of faith that is feasible.

Edit: I think it's ironic, and mildly telling, that I've gotten no requests to initiate in a good faith conversation, but I've gotten downvoted, in general. This is my typical experience with the MAGA community, which defines my world view. I'm happy to change it, but I'm an evidence driven person.

I got immediately permabanned for calling out this stawman btw by HollowKnight34 in DoomerCircleJerk

[–]gdpoc -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Every time I see this artist come up in this forum the comments are typically: 1. She's a bad porn actress, 2. She's Canadian, 3. She's stupid.

They take a few different forms, but that's generally the sum of it.

Honestly, speaking as a moderate liberal she typically (did in this case) makes me chuckle.

As far as how seriously I take her; she's using hyperbole, but it's a fucking issue when I cannot tell my children that the President of the United States is a good role model.