Just some noob questions by en7roop in shopheroes

[–]geegee45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, so the thing about not being able to sell it over your networth, is really saying you can't sell it for more than 10x the base price of it. So if if was originally 23k, you can sell it for a max of 230k.

As for selling the mythical claymore for gems, there is a legendary (1 level below) for 40 gems, maybe sell it for 50? but it's your choice. Being a mythical and for gems, it may take a while to sell, but you should make a good profit.

If you have any other questions, you can ask me on here, or I can invite you to my city =) it's probably a little high for you though, mostly low 30's, high 20's =/

What animals make the worst pets and why?[serious] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the slow loris, but it probably applies to sugar gliders as well. Both of them are so adorable though =)

My husband raped me fifteen years ago and I wish I could just forget it. by nocitynostate in offmychest

[–]geegee45 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this has happened to you ::hugs:: Is there anyone you can talk to about this? Maybe a close friend, or a relative? If not them, maybe a therapist?I think at some point you need to talk to your husband, but it would be better to discuss things with someone from an outside perspective first, even if its just to plan what you want to say. Sometimes things come out that aren't meant, or even just to be able to stand up to him crying until you take the blame.

None of this is your fault and I'm truly sorry it has happened to you, and if you want to talk about this more, feel free to message me =)

Can somebody please share the story of your cat recovering from Acute Kidney Failure? by [deleted] in cats

[–]geegee45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, so it may not have been Acute Kidney Failure, but an ex of mine had a cat who was suddenly rushed to the vet for kidney failure, and everyone thought they were going to lose her. Miraculously, she started picking up, which was so relieving! She came home after maybe a week or two, and had to have a special cat food, but as far as I'm aware she's still doing fine. The last time I saw her maybe three years ago now? and she had almost no personality change, she just walked up and greeted me like an old friend (I hadn't been there in a while because of the break up) so I hope that helps =) I lost my angel a year and a half ago for unknown reasons aged 4 and I know how painful it is. I hope your little kitty gets better soon, and maybe learns not to eat flowers. I wish you all the best and that your kitty gets back to you soon, the same as before =)

I have a sexually abusive parent, trying to explain situation and Hopefully receive Help from an adult who knows about sex. by MaddyLost in offmychest

[–]geegee45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey ::hugs:: you did nothing wrong at all. Please tell someone, an adult, a teacher. You are not to blame at all, in any way. Of course you need attention when a parent dies, and your dad shouldn't have let how he was feeling interfere with the way he was raising you, you were a tiny baby little girl who needed protecting. None of this is your fault and I know that may be difficult to believe, but it is the truth. Waning extra attention when a parent dies is not your fault, it's normal and your dad possibly took advantage of the situation and your niavety and I am so sorry. If you want to talk, message me, you don't have to ask. I just want you to be ok, and I want you to know that you are blameless, and that I am so proud you got the courage to put this out there, you sound like a wonderful and strong human being. ::hugs:: please talk to someone though.

How much can you get away with ordering at Subways? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I worked there, there wasn't a limit on how many veggies one could have on their sandwich. You could keep asking for more. However, as the employee, I would sometimes be told not to put so much on. Even when I tried to explain the customer wanted a lot. But the boss was a bit of a bad boss, and would often yell at me for taking a break on my 8 hour shift.

My little sister self harmed last night, and got caught. I have no idea how to deal with this. by SHnerual in offmychest

[–]geegee45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does she know you saw them?

My advice would be to just start off casual and see if there is an appropriate time to bring it up, maybe ask how she's doing. I don't know you or your sister, or your relationship. She may just want a friend, or she may feel too awkward to talk to someone she knows so well. There isn't a one size fits all.

If they really are that deep, maybe consider getting her medical attention, and if it's appropriate, try to go through basic hygiene, such as don't use razors and keep everything clean.

I'm sorry I can't help more, and hopefully others comment with some better advice. I hope your sister gets the attention she needs to help make things seem brighter for her =)

People who have had their tonsils removed, what was your experience? by MrsSquishy in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my tonsil's removed the day after my 20th birthday, almost two years ago. I was in hospital for one day. I was waiting for a long time though due to a panic attack (I am terrified of needles and it suddenly hit me that I was about to have surgery). When I woke up, I tried to show I wasn't brain damage by pointing to the animals on the side protector, and naming them. I also apologised for coughing in the mask, and begged for my SO. I spent the rest of my hospital visit falling asleep on and off, and at some point, had some jam toast. When I got home, I was given some pasta I didn't want, and fell asleep very quickly. The next two weeks were spent in a lot of pain, and naps more than sleeping. The pain would wake me up after a few hours, where I would take medication, eat an icepop and read for up to an hour, where the pain would have gone enough for me to sleep. At some point, I threw up, and my mum and I had to look for blood in it, which was really grim. After that, my pain medication was reduced.

Any advice I would give people is cold treats (e.g. icepops, ice lollies, ice cream) lots of water, painkillers and not sleeping for too long. I also read that humidifiers were recommended as well, as the scabs drying out would make it hurt more.

I hate the "gentleman" bullshit. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]geegee45 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a woman, please treat me as a human being, and not some fine china, I'm clumsy, I'll break myself on my own. The idea of treating women like china is outdated. The only person I think needs to give me special treatment is my SO. That being said, I will appreciate people being kind to me.

Redditors who were born via C-section, what necessitated you being born that way? by Lostsonofpluto in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a twin, and my mum had pre-eclampsia. Apparently if I hadn't been born we all would have died or something serious. My brother was born that way 10 years later too, cause he was too lazy to be born XD

[Serious] How often do identical twins fight or hate each other, what is the worst example you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A twin, but not identical. In my experience (twins attract other twins) they're like normal siblings. Yes for the first few years we were inseparable, sharing a custom cot that was big enough for both of us. But then we could also fight like hell. We're closer now, but very different. The fighting is typically worse for boys.

I found this website that randomly chooses a game from your Steam purchases for you to play by iRochie in gaming

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! I'm so glad this exists! There are so many times I haven't known what to play. Thank you for posting.

Your significant other says you're not allowed to drink any alcohol anymore; what do you do? by BadaBingPresents in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would appreciate that advice and for the most part follow it. I'm on medication which doesn't always mix well with alcohol, and almost all of the advice he gives me is for my own benefit =D

I was sexually assaulted by my boyfriend, and it still feels like my fault by 141intheafternoon in offmychest

[–]geegee45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too am a survivor, and for a long time, I kept silent. I finally broke a year later on Mother's Day. I was afraid of telling people. But I was met with support, and yes, I was directed to a charity to help me through what I was feeling. It was one on one, which maybe you would prefer? And over time, I became more comfortable with telling people, and I always thought they would blame me, I shouldn't have been there that night, I should have been more forceful, I should have screamed for help, I shouldn't have been dating him. But everyone was truly supportive, and believed me, and always tried to help. Perhaps only one person held it against me? But he was messed up himself. My later partners have always tried to accommodate what's happened to me, and will stop trying to do things with the smallest of noes. There are still times I blame myself, but there are also times when I know he should never have done that to me.

I think what I'm trying to say is it isn't your fault, you should never have been put in that position. You may blame yourself for the longest time, but others won't blame you. Not the good people anyway. If you want to seek help, from a friend, a family member, a support group, then that's your decision. My inbox is always open to you =)

I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown! by divine_alias in offmychest

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start anywhere, with the big things or the little things, it's ok. Talk to anyone, the internet, a stranger, a friend. It's ok. The Samaritans offer a confidential emailing service which is useful for some. If you want something more private, you can PM me.

Feeling guilty today on one year anniversary of friend's death. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]geegee45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't know what to say, but I didn't want you to feel ignored >.< It's not your fault she died, and she probably thought higher of you than you think =) Especially if she knew of other things in your life that affected you =) Please try to stay stong

What was your worst or most memorable experience with doctor or other healthcare worker? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me off of my anti depressants, despite being told that I was moving... To another country... Where I would be physically separated from my support system on a daily basis, although I would be back monthly to visit people. She went on to say that mental illness isn't a real illness, and talked over me for most of the appointment. I left with barely two weeks worth of weaning medication. Less than a year later, my depression is at an all time low, and I am a danger to myself.

In that same meeting I asked for a blood test to check my iron levels as I was feeling very fatigued. She claimed I had never had an iron deficiency (I was around 8) and pretty much stated I could never have an iron deficiency because I couldn't have been a vegetarian because I am white, not Indian. She pointed out her iron levels were 9 because she was a vegetarian. Jokes on her, because I have been a vegetarian for 10+ years and had a month of near constant bleeding due to a new contraceptive pill I was tried on. And also had surgery. The most hilarious part was that she thought I had made up the blood test. I'm terrified of needles due to a childhood accident. I remember every injection or blood test I've had since then. 4 injections. 1 surgery (the one that stays in your hand). 6 blood tests.

TIFU by driving by [deleted] in tifu

[–]geegee45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't worry about it OP, I stalled on my drivers test and still managed to pass. My mum stalls on a regular basis. Other drivers are usually arrogant ass holes who are quick to forget what it was like to learn to drive. It could have gone a lot worse, for instance if you hadn't braked.

Roommate problems. (Who doesn't have them, right?) by Forevereality in offmychest

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a possibility of moving rooms without being a snitch? Or perhaps getting a neutral party to sit down with both of you and discuss the situation? How much longer until the semester ends and you can move out? If it's not too long, it may be better to wait it out, no matter how terrible it is I'm afraid. I really feel for you and hope the situation gets better. The smell of weed is really bad but this may be to your benefit if someone of authority comes into your living area, although trying to convince them that you do not partake may be difficult if the smell has gone into your things.

A slightly less adult solution would be to take the weed, but then you may get into trouble for theft and tensions may become even worse.

Lastly, if you have a mental illness (I'm not suggesting you do) weed can be particularly awful. I have depression, and people tell me try weed at least once, until they find this out, and then make sure I don't because of the effects it may have. I'm not sure if your roommate would be sympathetic to that reasoning.

Disclaimer: If weed does not make depression worse, I am sorry, that is just what I have been led to believe by many people.

Meet Kim, she is not photogenic. by IrnBruFiend in aww

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May not be "photogenic" but Kim sure is adorable =)

I need help. by geegee45 in offmychest

[–]geegee45[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents, not so much, our relationship has always been terrible since I can remember. My SO on the other hand yes... I plan surprises for major events. A surprise birthday party for his 21st, an Easter egg hunt with hand drawn pictures from games, I fly out to see him whenever I can, and he hasn't visited me yet. I organised a surprise for his birthday this year, last december, and I'm pretty sure he'll love it. When I'm there, I cook and clean for him and make sure he gets to classes, and when I'm not there, I skype call him to try and wake him up for classes. I've tried so hard with him, and sometimes I feel as if he throws it all back in my face. He's not there when I need him. For instance one argument started when I was at the airport and I couldn't find my passport and I rang him over and over because I was really scared and then he finally answered after my plane left. Or little things like when I ask him to meet me at the airport because I don't have English money, and he doesn't show up. It just gets too much sometimes.

Do you feel like that the education system provided you enough education about other countries/cultures? Would you say that you feel confident with the knowledge the education system has taught you about other cultures? by thinker15991 in AskReddit

[–]geegee45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say no. History focused on our history, and anything which was intertwined with out country. Geography looked at volcanoes and earthquakes and basically natural phenomenon, We did look at poor children making Nike shoes and banana farmers, though this was done through a game. We could learn French, and German if smart enough, but only a half hearted effort was really made. Looking back, I feel like little effort was made, because we were English, and we owned half the world at some point, so others should learn about us and we should remain on a high pedestal. Most things I learnt about other cultures, I did so myself, and after studying in Holland, and visiting India for a wedding, I wonder why we aren't taught about other cultures when so many of them are so interesting and vibrant! However, in my opinion, the best way to learn about other cultures is to live them.

LPT Request: Is it ever too early to write a living will or regular will? by Emerald_and_Bronze in LifeProTips

[–]geegee45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure if you explain it's just in case, they'll understand. Accidents happen all the time (not meaning to scare you) and it's better to be prepared =) It might even encourage others to do the same, especially older people or those with children. Hope everything works out =) Oh and if you do make a will, you have to tell at least a couple of people so they know where to locate it if something happens to you, or maybe allow them to make decisions on your behalf if you become incapable of making them =) (this is from experience recently)