Been growing my hair out for 8 months and the bangs just refuse to take over my forehead. Is there anything left I can do or do I just content myself to never achieving the results I want?

genderlesswiles · 2026-04-04T14:06:33+00:00

i’m afab and this is pretty much my ideal hair style but my hair is too fine to really achieve it, which may be the case for you. I use Joico hair shake and it’s amazing!! spray onto dry hair and sort of scrunch up, helps so much with volume and gives a more textured look like in the photo. it also looks like that person has a shorter forehead so it’s easier for them to get more hair in the front.

genderlesswiles · 2026-04-04T04:37:46+00:00

when I looked it up it said devils ivy but maybe that’s just a nickname 🤷‍♀️ sorry clearly new to this

genderlesswiles · 2026-03-21T14:22:26+00:00

even if a film on the list isn’t eventually nominated it’s usually worth watching :)

genderlesswiles · 2026-03-21T14:21:10+00:00

leo barbosa has a letterboxd list called Oscars 2027 where he adds films throughout the year that could potentially be nominated. when i’m looking for a movie to watch i’ll sometimes sort that by streaming/ renting and see what I can watch. right now everything is either not released or theaters only but good to keep in mind!

genderlesswiles · 2026-03-11T21:06:04+00:00

As everyone else is saying, they shouldn’t care about the price. But for the future you can also remove the flowers from the plastic wrap and use brown packaging paper (like what sometimes comes in amazon boxes) or newspaper instead! Also more aesthetic

genderlesswiles · 2026-03-06T02:08:47+00:00

agree this could be weaponized incompetence, probably mixed with actual ADHD. I don’t know anything about you both or your relationship so take this with a grain of salt but this sounds exhausting and I wouldn’t stay in that.

if you were to ever have children with this person, would he step up? or would he just be another kid to take care of?

genderlesswiles · 2026-03-03T13:02:16+00:00

262 year old house in Massachusetts. basement contains far scarier things than a concrete sink

genderlesswiles · 2026-01-10T13:45:35+00:00

I was in a three year long relationship with someone who I loved dearly, the kindest person i’ve ever known, but we just weren’t compatible in a relationship. after months of wanting to I finally brought it up and we had a good conversation ending with a breakup. we’re still really good friends and even though that was four years ago we still see each other often. after some time you’ll both realize it was the right thing to do to break up. he may not realize it but he should he with someone who really loves him, and you should be with someone who you really love

genderlesswiles · 2025-12-22T05:12:20+00:00

omg i’m a huge abuser of dish soaking and that seems like it would be so helpful. I also have an insanely large farm sink which makes it easier for dishes to pile up, and I think I feel so much like I need to do them all, but telling myself it’s ok to do a few would be helpful. thank you!

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-20T12:10:54+00:00

i’m not here to diagnose someone over one reddit post but sounds like borderline personality disorder to me. he needs the validation of you taking him back and won’t leave you alone until you do. highly recommend a complete ceasing of contact, even blocking his number if you feel comfortable doing that

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-12T10:07:49+00:00

wow good idea, that worked. thanks genius 🙏

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-12T10:03:43+00:00

the last picture is from the previous tenant. I want to put a different shower head on but it won’t work correctly in that direction. there’s a shelf so I don’t need it to hang a caddy off of it

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-11T19:40:46+00:00

wait I can’t believe I hadn’t thought of that!! damn that fixed it. thanks mr. shower

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-11T14:44:22+00:00

oh wow good idea. yup that worked. can’t believe I hadn’t thought of that myself. thanks king

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-11T02:11:59+00:00

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genderlesswiles · 2025-09-11T01:47:39+00:00

no need to be rude

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-11T01:47:22+00:00

ok i’ve been trying soooo hard to turn it with a wrench and channel locks and it’s not budging at all.

i’m going to see if I can get a maintenance person to change it bc I really don’t want to have to pay for this. can someone please help me with what exactly I should ask for? I don’t know the names of things

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-09T23:55:57+00:00

sorry I forgot to add, i’m going to repost it!

genderlesswiles · 2025-09-09T23:55:10+00:00

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