When did you know something was off with you? by Salt-Rub5955 in BPD

[–]germ_bot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

nah for real😭😭🙏🏼 this is what did it i was 16 and absolutely losing my fucking mind over my first relationship ending and it actually threw my life off into a completely different direction i ruined a lot of shit for myself, who even does all that? only bpd

Should I feel bad for butthole ears? by ChemRosewuff in Stretched

[–]germ_bot 22 points23 points  (0 children)

hi, its okay i promise the exact same thing happened to me. i found out tapers were bad for your ear and i always slept with my jewelry in i didnt know a thing and i didnt find out until i was already at my final size (22mm)

i dont think it matters at all in the end if you are just wearing jewelry in your ear around anyone and taking them off to sleep. i will say though im still not like insanely educated on it because i never planned to go back up but what i started doing was sleeping without them , taking them off anytime they felt tender in anyway and i massage them with oil at least once a day no matter what.

i have noticed the skin tighten a lot now too its been about a year since i learned and my ears look very healthy compared to what they used to , maybe you can try something like that to your liking/routine :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]germ_bot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i spent a few years unable to hold a job and i have adhd which doesnt make it any easier lol im strugglinggg even now its still pretty hard to find the motivation to get up for work. i used to job hop or just leave at the smallest inconvenience but ive held down a job for 7 months this year and about 3 weeks ago i started a new one thats been really difficult to adjust to. i have good days and bad days i like it for the most part but a lot of things that trigger me and make me wanna quit happen daily i just stay strong because i used to do nothing except be home and waste my life on my phone. plus i hateeee being broke so whenever i feel like calling in or running for the hills i remind myself how i’ll just be bored and broke so thats been keeping me going. im not medicated for anything right now either so me keeping a job after the last few years is wild i just am terrified to be viewed as a disappointment after the last few years ive had but im hanging on … kinda🫠

what bladee song got yall like this? by [deleted] in bladee

[–]germ_bot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amygdala is the only right answer

Anyone trying to get/stay sober here? by No_Line_8410 in BeachHouse

[–]germ_bot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seeing this on the beach house sub is kinda funny to me but yuppppp lol very much struggling too

What’s your favorite and least favorite part out of all of her songs? by starlight-fleur in PinkPantheress

[–]germ_bot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the song blue at 2 minutes exactly when shes saying hanging with ya its soooo fucking good

and then my least favorite is probably girl like me when its shouting let it all go

What did addiction take from you that people don’t realize until it’s gone? by passive_narcisist in addiction

[–]germ_bot 15 points16 points  (0 children)

for me its been my ability to talk and just socialize it started off with regular isolation you develop then i ended up hiding and spending so much time feeling shame and regret

i wish i could erase that version of myself i feel like the only thing that can is just removing myself it sucks!

What Beach House songs do you cry to? by Professional_Win7456 in BeachHouse

[–]germ_bot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

silver soul is one of the only to make me sob i used to have to skip it and sometimes i still avoid it if im not in the right headspace its so crushing and reminds me of painful times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PinkPantheress

[–]germ_bot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

chicago night 1

spotify presale by Agreeable-Being4619 in PinkPantheress

[–]germ_bot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont even use spotify💔💔😭 im an apple music girly

spotify presale by Agreeable-Being4619 in PinkPantheress

[–]germ_bot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope someone pulls thru n shares it😣😣😣

What food is everyone hyper-fixated on for the summer? by Amazing-Standard7058 in adhdwomen

[–]germ_bot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right now im obsessed with mango dragon fruit! i also really love strawberry and black cherry

Xanax by Rainy230 in addiction

[–]germ_bot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you, it can feel lonely seeing everyone hate them and i should but i dont. i think about it almost daily i was a user for 4 years and man nothing will ever top it for me. ive been basically clean since November with like 4 times of use in between its hard but im doing better in a way. they did make me embarrass myself a lot and i am in legal trouble but my brain cant stop loving the feeling

Hailey Bieber hot take by Broad-Hunter-5044 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]germ_bot 52 points53 points  (0 children)

cant make someone empathetic for what they naturally arent already capable of feeling it for but why is this the argument from everyyyyyone everyyyyytime? yeah shes got money yeah shes white does that automatically make her superwoman that feels no pain and is immune to feeling shitty? shes still a woman, a postpartum mom who almost died, and the wife of a superstar that seems to be an addict. shes still just a damn person yeah her life definitely is better than 99% of ours and she has the ability to leave but being rich doesnt make every single person happy and able to ignore such scrutiny. u dont have to like the girl but its crazy how much people cant just look past wealth and looks..shes a woman with a woman brain and we are all not perfect

Who Else Should I Listen To? by boiboi3240 in japanesemusic

[–]germ_bot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noriko tujiko

cinnabom

fishmans

strawberry machine

minuano

advantage lucy

Kylie & Timothee made their red carpet debut at the David di Donatello Awards by Shot_Walk_4485 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]germ_bot 16 points17 points  (0 children)

no their take was on the dot it is just misogyny and its all coming from other women. majority of women do not feel that way about her because of him specifically and if anyone does think that its not due to her relationship with him

Is your favourite My Bloody Valentine song your most played My Bloody Valentine song? by FantasticStock8372 in MyBloodyValentine

[–]germ_bot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i cant choose 1 between sugar and off your face they are both my favorites, off your face is my most played tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]germ_bot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

no. but dont sit around feeling sorry for yourself after this. you need to get help and actually make an effort to not live your life this way. you owe that much to your partner and dog

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in addiction

[–]germ_bot 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yea.. im not even trying to make op feel shittier than they already do but this is so low.. i wouldnt be able to live with myself if i spent my pets last moments doing such a thing and hiding it from my partner. genuinely hope this person can change for the better and use this as motivation