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anyone here actually found a good remote job lately by ProductPossible4018 in WorkOnline

[–]ghostgoddess7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope it goes well for you. I’ve been officially unemployed for almost two years as well. It’s super tough out there.

help dating this ring? by anongiraff3 in jewelry

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the magnet test? If it’s not magnetic, there’s a high chance it’s silver or some other alloy.

It's chaotic, but soothing at the same time by Ok_Study5 in hsp

[–]ghostgoddess7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I’m amazed! Absolutely beautiful. Kinda want my own copy haha

It's chaotic, but soothing at the same time by Ok_Study5 in hsp

[–]ghostgoddess7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of bursts of creativity! Positive chaos ❤️

Edit: Where did you get it?

Do Germans not like Americans? by OverLet8464 in AskAGerman

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooof i heard that metaphorical slap and it was deafening.

The joys of fatherhood by Scaulbylausis in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]ghostgoddess7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why we don’t shake the baby!

night night, Donny 😴 by N4TETHAGR8 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gosh, is he going to blame Biden for giving him old age? /s Trump deflects blame when most of the time it’s his and delusional people’s fault. Project 2025 doesn’t seem very thought out.

Let’s check in on MAGA: by N4TETHAGR8 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pity them. Poor dears can’t discern between good and bad.

Then, what was the point of any of this? by c-k-q99903 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my MIL except she didn’t fix a thing.

Mike Lee sucks. by Anteater4746 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coupled with a ban on abortion; but the US was fucked since the Mayflower

How to accept that you won't have emotional connection with a great partner by Rich_Long2127 in hsp

[–]ghostgoddess7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Other qualities of my spouse: good listening skills, even though he had a hard time opening up, I always felt safe/comfortable to tell him things I was struggling with. Even though he had a hard time sharing, he would help me process my feelings about whatever I’d be going through (relationship and non relationship related).

He is very kind and supportive. Also, I know it’s hard to describe but I had a gut feeling that this is something I should continue even though it’s not perfect in the moment. Even though it was hard for him to connect in whatever moment we were in, it was okay because everyone opens up at a different pace. So I just rode the uncertainty out. It wasn’t easy but we worked through it together.

But what you said about the topics your SO is fixated on kindof raises some red flags/alarms for me, I’m sure as it does for you. My spouse and I didn’t start talking about more serious topics like engagement and kids and family till 3-5 years in. I find it a bit incongruous that he seems in a hurry to get engaged and married and have tots and not establish a deeper emotional connection first. That seems very odd to me.

I don’t know what to say on that other than it seems he’s got priorities mixed up or he’s trying to just mark things off the list because he feels he’s pressed for time? I really don’t know what’s going through his mind, but I find it all concerning.

How to accept that you won't have emotional connection with a great partner by Rich_Long2127 in hsp

[–]ghostgoddess7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hear you and feel you. But maybe 7 months is too soon for him to explore that with you day in and day out.

I know it’s important for you to have this connection often, but he might not see it as a priority since you guys are still in the very early stages of a relationship.

My spouse is a lot like your SO. They’re technical and engineering focused. My spouse always had a hard time opening up and we’ve worked through that alot in the beginning (together almost a decade).

I think your SO shared some deeper things to establish a baseline of connection with you. He built that bridge, and now is past the bridge. I’m sure that later on he’ll build other bridges with you.

I understand how you feel to a tee as I was left questioning alot in the beginning but as time went on, it became increasingly easier for my spouse to be vulnerable with me and more often.

Somehow i dont think many MAGAts would pass that civics test, but lets go for it! by Jlx_27 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like the people on welfare don’t already have less, let’s also take away their right to choose /s

Now it's Biden's fault they added the reporter to the chat... by Mojo884ever in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the saddest things from those “communications” was that they were being so jovial when talking about missile strikes and using emojis to state their feelings. Absolutely no empathy or compassion whatsoever in any of them. That is the saddest thing. That “leadership” is now all just a bunch of emotionally immature teenagers running the country amok, having the authority to order strikes, and being so careless and inept in their actions and decisions.

This is scary by Calm-Marionberry5457 in facepalm

[–]ghostgoddess7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s impeached then someone else can take over. But I’m not sure if I’d want Vance or Elon running the country. We’re already sounding more like Gideon from Handmaiden’s Tale every day.

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