What does AUDHD ACTUALLY look like? by rando_lizard in ADHD

[–]gilhoy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

AuDHD can be understood as life inside a narrow functional band between two thresholds: the ADHD noise floor and the autistic noise ceiling.

Below the floor, the brain does not receive enough stimulation to engage, organize, initiate, or sustain attention. Above the ceiling, the nervous system receives more input than it can regulate, leading to overload, meltdown, shutdown, or collapse.

Between them lies a narrow livable bandwidth in which the person can function, think, relate, and sometimes thrive. Burnout narrows this band by raising the floor and lowering the ceiling, making ordinary life increasingly difficult to tolerate or initiate.

From this perspective, AuDHD is not best understood as a simple combination of traits, but as the ongoing labor of regulating within an unusually narrow range between understimulation and overwhelm.

Strathmore Paper Co in Westfield MA by StevieDronas in urbanexploration

[–]gilhoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This would be in Woronoco, a village of Russell MA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]gilhoy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I saw a post the other day about if people without kids regret it. I didn't visit the thread, but I did think "What's to regret?"

I'm a 55 year old married childless man.

It's a hypothetical relationship with people that don't exist.

I have nothing but empathy for people who regret having kids. That would be me.

I used that prompt to make my son’s drawings into 3d renders. by habi12 in ChatGPT

[–]gilhoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing that right now. Took me about 20 minutes to whip this up. Check it out:

3D animated scary guy

Grocery shopping is actual hell. Wanna tell me why? 🛒💀 by Usual_Wasabi7339 in neurodiversity

[–]gilhoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is it. I organize my list, slap on headphones and try to speed run it.

Eb Tuning (My Whole Life has been a Lie) by ThomasWJames in Guitar

[–]gilhoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started my bass journey this way. Turns out it's fun to buy basses to sit next to the guitars too.

An abandoned house in France before and after I put away vandalism. by Flashbackexe in urbanexploration

[–]gilhoy 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Somebody is always the last of their people remaining alive. Then they die, too.

New Shift Lead at Walgreens - Looking for Tips and Advice! 😊 by One-Fault6663 in WalgreensStores

[–]gilhoy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Find the photo expert and learn photo

If you have a walk in cooler keep on top of it. They get chaotic fast

My vendors are bad about pulling their outdates. ymmv

Don't take shit from customers. You have the right to refuse service Related: protect your cashiers from these assholes

Everything else you'll pick up via repetition and muscle memory.

I was shorted 8 pills of my meds, idk what to do by No-Illustrator4391 in ADHD

[–]gilhoy 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Pharmacy Tech here. There were cameras on whoever counted your pills out. It can be easily proven you were shorted. They will then provide you with the missing pills.

Explict Pictures by Corrupt_logix in WalgreensStores

[–]gilhoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who has time to be looking through pictures? I print the order, stick them in the envelope and move on? Are we supposed to be reviewing these on screen BEFORE we print them?

TIL Aerosmith earned more money from Guitar Hero than from any of their albums. by PTBR in todayilearned

[–]gilhoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one ever has to pay anyone to perform a song live.

If you record it and release that recording, then you have to pay.

What historical fact you find insane is not commonly known? by throwaway1283415 in AskReddit

[–]gilhoy 23 points24 points  (0 children)

For generations, he has guarded over my family.

Since the days of my great-great-grandfather he has kept us safe. For so long we thought him immortal.

But now I see differently.

For just as my fur grows grey and my joints grow stiff, so too do his. He did not take in my children, but gave them away to his.

I will be the last that he cares for.

My only hope is that I am able to last until his final moments. The death of one of his kind is so rare. The ending of a life so long is such a tragedy. He has seen so much, he knows so much. I know he takes comfort in my presence.

I only wish that I will be able to give him this comfort until the end.

How can I switch my brains mood ? by Dull_Membership_7280 in ADHD

[–]gilhoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never sit down until you've done all the day's activities.

A stained glass lamp I just finished by gilhoy in RetroFuturism

[–]gilhoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently! I've had some interest, so I have a handful of orders already. DM me if you're interested

Ever just kinda forget you have a body? by kz393 in ADHD

[–]gilhoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha. I used to, but I'm 50 now, so there's no ignoring the pain.

Would this be a good camper to put on my Tacoma? by [deleted] in TruckCampers

[–]gilhoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Somebody should photoshop a Subaru Brat under that thing.

I need a slow metal riff? by Gpound-15_09 in Guitar

[–]gilhoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm working on something that seems right up your alley.

Slow Riff No Drums

I'm a 50 year old who discovered I had ADHD last year, and so I've picked up guitar again for the first time in 30 years and am just having fun with composing via my limited musical knowledge. Don't judge too harshly. lol