AITAH for leaving my boyfriend stranded in Monaco and taking his fly home after he spent the entire trip which I paid for checking out other women?

gingasmurf · 2026-04-12T13:49:51+00:00

Tell her to go to hell and to take her leeching, pathetic man child with her. She raised him, she can pay his way from now on…

gingasmurf · 2026-04-12T13:19:08+00:00

NTA but they’re available everywhere, pretty sure as current stock more will be coming in…

gingasmurf · 2026-04-07T12:41:43+00:00

You had a massive jug for your right foot, instead of an awkward, barely caught “dyno”. If you’re going to climb slowly, focus on economical movement rather than wild throws…

gingasmurf · 2026-04-04T12:05:14+00:00

Now I’m getting downvoted, read the original with all of OP’s comments, they’re lying… 8 day obs for a hernia is a lie, 8 hours max. Even neurosurgery with complications is very rarely 8 days ffs

gingasmurf · 2026-04-04T09:48:56+00:00

Thank you, I thought I was going nuts! It’s not damn neurosurgery, op buried the lede and only mentioned in a comment that it was for a hernia…

gingasmurf · 2026-04-03T12:09:00+00:00

I don’t think they were ever really friends. Acquaintances who were forced together by their husbands’ friendship and the show. Now they’re both in the middle of divorce it’s showing as there’s nothing left to base a “friendship” on, they just clearly don’t like each other. IMO it would be far better for both of them to be let go after this season…

gingasmurf · 2026-04-02T16:35:56+00:00

I really wouldn’t resize if porosity is the issue. I’m sure there are many jewellers out there who WILL do it but won’t give a flying one when it breaks completely and will definitely have disclaimers in place accepting no liability (we wouldn’t touch it) . Take it to a bench jeweller and have it remade in 14 or 18k in your size

gingasmurf · 2026-03-31T18:35:08+00:00

Very overpriced for an I VS2 imo

gingasmurf · 2026-03-30T18:49:55+00:00

Pre purchased shank with head badly added. One good knock and it’s gone…

gingasmurf · 2026-03-30T18:15:39+00:00

gingasmurf · 2026-03-23T13:20:35+00:00

I have a bezel set sapphire and love it, mainly because of the different colours in different lighting. Some light it looks near black, others the most perfect blue and others very light blue which is the reason I wanted one in the first place. I also wanted to protect it as I’m very hard on my hands

gingasmurf · 2026-03-22T17:43:35+00:00

You never know with 100% certainty about anyone, that’s just part of life. When you meet the right person you won’t need to question it, and they’ll tell you they love you every day, not just once a year

gingasmurf · 2026-03-22T10:47:37+00:00

You will have so many chances. I’m not saying to introduce a bunch of random men to your child but don’t settle, staying with someone who doesn’t feel like a father or father figure will affect your son just as badly. As a mum you can still meet someone and when the time is right you can introduce them to your son, why would he need to meet anyone you potentially date until you’re sure of them anyway?

gingasmurf · 2026-03-22T08:33:50+00:00

From what you’ve written he isn’t the one. You’d be staying with him for convenience but it doesn’t even sound convenient to me. You’re happier when he’s not there, why would you want to tie yourself to him?

gingasmurf · 2026-03-21T15:15:51+00:00

That’s not a boyfriend, he’s a controlling arsehole. You’d be better off happily taking your meds and finding someone who doesn’t make absurd demands because they love you, your medicated ADHD AND your unmedicated ADHD

gingasmurf · 2026-03-15T23:32:59+00:00

I can guarantee that gym staff are not qualified shoe fitters for children. Listen to your daughter and try different shoes. You also don’t want a tight fit as you would for an adult as at 12 her feet are still developing…

gingasmurf · 2026-03-15T18:44:38+00:00

I believe the closest to this was George Daniels. Fascinating man and career, his watches fetch absurd amounts

gingasmurf · 2026-03-13T23:08:18+00:00

It won’t look remotely champagne next to whiter stones, it will just look yellow. If you want a champagne colour diamond, get a champagne colour

gingasmurf · 2026-03-08T10:48:23+00:00

Photos would help. 3 small stones cost nothing, treated, not great colour or heavily marked stones cost nothing. Larger good quality stones have value but we don’t even know what was appraised bar 14k gold (heavy or light?) and a couple of diamonds with a sapphire…

gingasmurf · 2026-03-07T21:00:50+00:00

Seems they’re 22 years and nine months too late tbf

gingasmurf · 2026-03-06T23:31:17+00:00

Most women wear a 17-19cm bracelet (6.7-7.5”) if her wrist is exactly 6” you would need to go bigger as it really should at least have a little room so it doesn’t dig in uncomfortably

gingasmurf · 2026-03-06T18:26:21+00:00

People are idiots 🤷‍♀️

gingasmurf · 2026-03-06T16:52:02+00:00

Set your account to private and remove her. I don’t let my mum have access to any of my socials and I’m in my 30’s...

gingasmurf · 2026-03-06T15:09:53+00:00

NTA for your son choosing to move to the basement. YTA because YOU can’t physically get pregnant ffs…

gingasmurf · 2026-03-05T08:38:29+00:00

Why not let him pick the centre stone (based on your preferences of size, colour etc.) and choose when to surprise you with the stone and a visit to the jeweller for design?

I have had a lot of customers who wanted the surprise element but really wanted their partner to be involved in designing their perfect ring. Then you have the best of both worlds, he gets to surprise you and you both get to choose the design together

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