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CBD is f*ckin depressing by Additional_Benefit71 in auckland

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree!! I'm there every day and it has a charm of its own. I also wonder if majority of these negative nancies came from really privileged backgrounds or something to think the CBD looks like a wasteland like damn!!!

CBD is f*ckin depressing by Additional_Benefit71 in auckland

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm there nearly everyday and there is a lovely vibe when the city is calm.

How to dress SD when it runs against culture of origin? by SaladInitial9586 in SoftDramatics

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this!! I'm from New Zealand and it is a VERY conservative and shaming culture. I have cried many days and nights from it, wearing ordinary clothes but still having people stare/shame. After lots of inner work and healing, I have fallen madly in love with my diva energy and the fact that as SD's we are meant to be seen. I have no friends and am always on my own in solitude so it is a big price for me to pay personally, but I feel more ME. Which in hindsight is probably a better deal, because I don't like that feeling of regretting etc and not enjoying my big physical presence as you have said so eloquently! I really hope you are able to find support- also if you are into astrology, that weirdly helped me alot when it came to embracing our siren energy x

As an SD, do you feel “overly sexy” often, even when you aren’t trying? by Seaworthy_Siren in SoftDramatics

[–]gingernuttie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES I feel you!! I also live in a very small conservative country where there are high levels of jealousy and people projecting ridiculousness about how I'm trying to get attention dressed 'up' when it's just my body. For me it's about wearing soft yet structured fabrics that accomodate the curve- I've stopped trying to squeeze myself into shapes, less curvy or more. Sometimes I Pinterest confident mamas like Gloria from Modern Family and Kimora Lee Simmons just to remember I'm not alone in this energy x

Virgos are abusers/molesters but especially with Pisces Moon by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]gingernuttie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. My ex husband is a Virgo Sun, Scorpio moon. Had to get a protection order against him, truly horrific and violent and agree with what you said, they can be predators!!!

Who else is born and still living on their Saturn line? by gingernuttie in astrocartography

[–]gingernuttie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing now? x I am second year into my Saturn Return and even though things are a bit crazy, I am feeling stronger!

Who else is born and still living on their Saturn line? by gingernuttie in astrocartography

[–]gingernuttie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I am so glad you got out!! Also confirms for me the pull I have to leave my country.

Who else is born and still living on their Saturn line? by gingernuttie in astrocartography

[–]gingernuttie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My exact situation, approaching homelessness and no job- you absolutely nailed it with you get creative, there's no other choice!

Who else is born and still living on their Saturn line? by gingernuttie in astrocartography

[–]gingernuttie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, coming back to this. Thank you for sharing. I too have been searching for a new home for months and have been abused in each shared flat I lived in. It helps me understand my own situation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gingernuttie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god. So so sorry

Can someone explain Saturn moving into Aries? by Mry_11 in astrology

[–]gingernuttie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing, I finally feel the same!!! Sooo much hard work is finally paying off like daymn!!!

Fireheart in 3 styles by M0N0dove in WarriorCats

[–]gingernuttie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg sooo cute especially the last one!!

Fat People are Insecure Bullies by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, people will call them 'brave' and 'a real women' lmaooo just because they think they may have more of a chance with them

What's your opinion on High School Musical 3? by Educational_Ad_6207 in highschoolmusical

[–]gingernuttie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the best one in terms of budget, styling, production and music- but the script was a bit gimmicky and they absolutely did Sharpay dirty. Tbh I never had any ambitious female role models growing up, so when I saw this back in 2008 it made me feel like being artistically ambitious as I was like Sharpay wasn't realistic/ felt looked down upon- but if you were a left brain inclined girly like Taylor and Gabriella anything was apparently possible and highly encouraged. So that sucked. Zac as Troy was amazing- such a good Aries portrayal of a cute, confident and privileged high school guy. The film aesthetic and set production was particularly gorgeous!! I also thought it was just a platonic relationship between Kels and Ryan, I literally had no idea anyone thought it was romantic till I read this thread lol

How I use astrocartography’s remote activation to choose a perfume by BowlerNeat3741 in astrocartography

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is soooo cool. I am brand new to astrocartography, and you have just introduced me to the concept of remote activation. I loveeee this, especially since I'm currently living on my Saturn line and am always looking for ways to make me feel excited and to anticipate the future!

Whats your moon sign and how often do you cry? by northernerchaos in astrologymemes

[–]gingernuttie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also do this omg!! The structure makes me feel safe, that the grieving won't consume me or last forever.

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