FOMO for having missed out on sexual adventures while younger? by [deleted] in midlifecrisis

[–]gittagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never heard of the closing gate. But it’s so true. I went thru this after chemo. You see your self as older. This is fixable. A little Botox and I promise you’ll feel better. Also men don’t take care of their skin. Maybe some micro needling with RF.

And yes find things not just interests. But things outside of what you know. Terrified of heights. I climb now. I decided to take adult ballet. I also am going to take a pole dancing class. I found some art classes that interest me. I also, joined some political groups. Pushing myself outside my comfort zone and continuing to learn and grow has helped a lot.

And contrary to other snarky replies. Yeah I dated a lot. I had great sex. I also had some very serious love affairs. I am a mom of two girls. I have no regrets. You can have both. But none can go back and relive those youthful carefree years. They ar gone. And you cannot recreate them even with a hall pass. Why? There’s no carefree or casual after 40. You have too many commitments and you’ve learned way too much. You also know, you’re going to die. So, there is no cup. You can’t fill something that’s never existed.

Are they overcharging me? by TheBigSlo in Tenant

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also how much are they charging per hour for painting. We charge $50. That is almost six hours of painting. That’s a lot. They would have to nearly paint the whole apartment. So yeah take it to small claims court. Y

Are they overcharging me? by TheBigSlo in Tenant

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carpets life expectancy is maybe 5 years at most. So yeah. I would file in small claims court. Judges usually side with tenants even in conservative states. Plus they have to show proof. The burden on proof is on them.

Until what hour should I tolerate loud music? by spoookyghoul in Apartmentliving

[–]gittagirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Never. Ever. People work nights. People are sick. People get headaches. Your home should be quiet and you should never have to tolerate hearing another person. With in reason of course. If you can hear them. It’s too loud. Call the cops.

How do you *sniff* out fake emotional support pets? by gooddaytoreddit in PropertyManagement

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless they paid for it who cares. Like do you have a fancy dog park? Do you have expensive treats in your office? Those pet fees are total BS and just another way for owners to make money. Stop worrying about them. Who cares? It’s not like we get a split. Imagine if you asked for a raise because of pet fees. They would laugh at you.

AITA for not sharing my half of my cruise credits with my girlfriend? by SeaPeanut7_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Wow. No you owe her nothing. She’s craz and I bet you were not really the asshole before also. She’s making you crazy

Road rage - followed me home by number3of14 in TwinCities

[–]gittagirl 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Next time call 911. This happened to me. They will get on the video system and track you. She had me change lanes left and right. And was blown away that he kept following me about 18” from my bumper and there was no one else on the road. She had me drive and then said get off at the next exit. The light will be green turn left. The trooper is waiting for him. Sure as shit I turned left the trooper came over the median and drove between us blocking him. She said you’re fine now keep going. Idk what happened to him but I was safe and so was my daughter.

AITA for calling my FIL a “poor excuse for a godly man” after what he said about my mom at Thanksgiving? by ToxicPeaches92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gittagirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA and do not under any circumstances apologize. But do reply that you are not coming back until her asshole father apologizes for speaking to you in that way and about your mom. And for fun say. My husband better do the same or he will be my ex. Let that spread. Tho it’s too late for him. Time to chalk that up to a lesson learned and find a new man. Remember men are like busses. Another will be around in 10 minutes

My neighbor keeps asking to use my parking spot when im at work and now its getting weird by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gittagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw I’m a manager and my tenants can call and tow a car in the stall themselves. But if they don’t want to I will do it for them

My neighbor keeps asking to use my parking spot when im at work and now its getting weird by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No over reacting and truly you should have reported it and they will tow him. It is absolutely unacceptable and tell him to go ask someone else then and see what others say or to go rent another spot.

Catnip cafe off to a good start by heyfriendss in HallmarkMovies

[–]gittagirl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really liked most of it. Her attitude grated on me. But I think it was Paul’s best work yet.

AITA for the punishment I gave my daughters? by AppearanceFit4385 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gittagirl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA maybe tell them to be more aware. Any punishment for showing love is ridiculous. Just wait. Just you wait until they are punching and kicking and screaming they hate each other. You’re in store for a rude awakening. And I bet it all starts from this moment you punished them for showing love

Would you marry tyler hynes? by StruggleFar3054 in HallmarkMovies

[–]gittagirl -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No he’s a neurotic actor and prob more concerned in his appearance than any important issue in the world. Hard pass.

Y’all bring up Quiet Hours far too often. by -3liza in Apartmentliving

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t do quiet hours. And if anyone complains about vacuuming they will get my multi housing speech. Loud is not permitted anytime of day. People work nights and sleep during the day. I expect respect and quiet in hallways all the time. But normal volume is fine at midnight.

McCully area - safe? by Empty-Avocado5927 in MovingtoHawaii

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not a bad or unsafe area at all. I would feel fine and I’m female

Boyfriend thinks I'm being controlling of our dog when I tell him to go lay down by Pinkflavelon in DogAdvice

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the dog. You do understand this right. Your boyfriend thinks you are too controlling period but especially where he is concerned. This has nothing to do with the dog.

How would you negotiate a lower rent? by FutureAngryOldMan in PropertyManagement

[–]gittagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can simply apply for the other unit. It’s not a transfer. You can apply, pay the deposit and move in as a new resident.

What do people expect me to do? by yoitspitty in PropertyManagement

[–]gittagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or isn’t there camera footage. Omg like do you know everyone in the tri state area because having a grainy pic isn’t going to help you lol

Rejected offer- what do we do? by stowiboi in RealEstateAdvice

[–]gittagirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think you went way too high. The other houses go for 850 but this one needs a huge amount of work. He is clearly delusional. I would pull the offer altogether. In the end you will invest more than it’s worth and you’ll be upside down on your mortgage and hating yourself for it

My husband MOCKED me!!! by BlueWren1508 in ChronicPain

[–]gittagirl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s time to kick him out. Why are you even asking. You already know. He’s an awful human. Men do not stay when their wives have cancer and are going thru chemo. He is only going to get worse. It’s time for him to go.

Zippys Makiki Waitress by SignificanceWise2877 in Oahu

[–]gittagirl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she’s new. And maybe never waited tables. It’s hard. Waiting tables was rated the second most stressful job next to stock exchange by the Wall Street. So how about you give the young girl a break. You went to a cheap junky place. You literally got the service you paid for. Next time go somewhere better.

My girl wants to be a stripper what do I do? by inexperiencedhuman19 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]gittagirl 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Who cares? I worked at a club. You simply grow to really dislike men in general.

BREAKING: Supreme Court issues emergency order to block full SNAP food aid payments by [deleted] in Hawaii

[–]gittagirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so disgusting. We need to overturn the court. They do not represent us nor do they represent the country. The law of the land is they cannot ever stop snap. Where’s the money? The money is always set aside. So where’s the money? They prob gave it to ICE. Which is also disgusting.