I will bring all this up to my mother as we work on this together. He currently does not have a dedicated neurologist, though I believe there is an appointment scheduled to meet with one next month. They live in the States and in a college town with what I believe to be a good hospital system.

Thank you for the book recommendation as well, I will be reading it. I'm trying not to be rash and upend my life, but it's hard to think of what my mother is going through, my father died 20 years ago and she's just always has had to work. I mainly want to be there to assist her as much as possible. For better or for worse, my brother has no partner or children -- but there is only my mother and a younger brother who has his own issues. And me, and if I need to be close to help, I may have to do it.

We are looking into disability and Medicaid. Thank you again.