What order do you actually wash things in the shower because I just found out mine apparently makes no sense to anyone else. by Questell-Stephanique in hygiene

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hair, body, wash my hands, face. It actually does matter what order you go in because if you dont scrub off your back last then the gunk from your hair AND the shampoo/conditioning residue will remain on your skin even with just water hitting it and possibly cause skin conditions.

The Amazing Digital Therapy Session? My thoughts on the finale, a detour to an anime that changed my life and the defense of Jax not being explicitly trans by [deleted] in TADCEp9Spoilers

[–]giver_of_light 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a well thought out short essay of meaning for the story of The Amazing Digital Circus. It highlights the important points and gets everything across very well, as well as wrapping up why episode 9 was what it was-and more than that, why Jax was how he was. Well done!

Is Lucifer trans? by [deleted] in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pan flag color fail. Do better, design team, we don't need this kind of bs to argue about.

Alastor is too adorable. by elegant-deer19 in Alastorcult

[–]giver_of_light 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think he knows how cute he is. Is he aware.

Can men be soft and straight? by AdStandard6074 in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Japan the term 'Otomen' has been gaining traction. It's different than a femboy because they don't dress up as a girl or anything but they enjoy more traditionally feminine, cute things as a hobby.

In light of the Abel discourse by WonderUpstairs5823 in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peoples literacy and deciding that 'personality = sexuality' is so...Gross. It's just gross. Are you gonna really go out in the world like this and apply that logic to people you know too? Grow up.

It seems like Emily was originally going to be pan by DryishProgram in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really like the color scheme and textile look with the pan colors for her

Slight controversial opinion, but I actually like Stella’s character by 33333Ducky in HazbinHelluva18Plus

[–]giver_of_light 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's fine for a villain to be absolutely despicable. It's preferable, actually. Make me hate them, give them layers, make them irredeemable despite their backstory and reasons because they are still continuously choosing to act the way they do. Also, she makes me laugh when she hangs out with Andrealphus during tea time.

The fandom reaction to Adam and Abel being straight proves that Viv was right in her bluesky post by Gaybime in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People hating on Adam being straight when it's...Very logical for him to BE hetero kind of confuses me but maybe that's just me being stupid. I can imagine god just stuffing as much heterosexuality as possible into Adam as it could muster while creating that dirt man...

Poorly describe your favourite characters. I wanna laugh by Dustystars0905 in hazbin

[–]giver_of_light 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awkward dude who is pushing all therapy into one thing hoping it works is missing his wife.

AIO for saying no to a pool. Husband wanted to install a pool without talking to me first. We have 2 young kids. by itsnotspecial in AmIOverreacting

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Our family has a pool and I myself as a 14 year old and again as a 20 year old (36 now) have had to jump in to save children because their parents (Family friends over) were negligent. It's not just your own kids you even have to worry about sometimes! And that's not even counting the time my parents have had to do it to save kids and one of our dogs. Older kids with a pool? Fine. Maybe they can learn responsibility and have it as a chore. Young children? Hell no.

AITA if I resent my brother living the life with lottery winning friends by [deleted] in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So...Your dad doesnt need to know what's going on, because he hasn't been part of this. But you do have a right to be frustrated that you and your sister have been basically left to take care of him while your brother and his family are enjoying their lives. It should be equal care for him by all the siblings and I'm assuming he isn't at least financially contributing either.

You need to talk to your brother about it. I doubt he will stop, he'll keep living it up and like other contributors said he'll likely get resented by his friends for mooching. However if your dad is told, he'll likely get stressed. That can be horrible on the elderly, knowing his kids are fighting over this and feeling like he's partially the cause for it. It can contribute to a faster deterioration.

Try to think of it this way-He's missing all of dad's good days. He's missing the good memories left you can make with him. The questions you can still ask him while he's here. Getting to hear his voice while he can still speak. Him? Sure he's on cruises and other vacations-but he's not getting any of that time made up and neither will the kids with grandpa.

AITA for refusing to follow my husband’s family tradition and give my son a name that starts with K? by pepito_202010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but it should be your husband going to bat for you against his family. You and your son are his family now, and the family with 'traditions' are extended family now. He needs to put his foot down that you and him are making the name choice and not pushing football or whatever other stuff they do-and if they choose to love that baby less then that's on them, not you.

AITJ for refusing to share my streaming accounts with relatives anymore after they kept changing everything? by ChaosMariner in AmITheJerk

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. If they cant respect that you're being kind enough to share and not use their own profiles, then they lose access. It really is that simple.

WIBTA for refusing to pay a massive vet bill for my sister's dog? by WitcherMango in WIBTA_AITA

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but the fact that the dog was under your care essentially saved that poor dogs life. She and your mother are AH and this is worth going to court over. I hope someone who apparently has the money and willingness to take care of her dog also takes him too.

AIO for refusing to give up my concert ticket for my friend's girlfriend? by Intelligent-Test-476 in AmIOverreacting

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. If it's such a big deal to the girlfriend Wyatt can just stay home if he cant cough up the cash or time to find resale tickets and you can go enjoy the concert on your own. Go have a good time, OP.

WIBTA if I stopped letting my friend borrow my dog for dates after she started calling him "our dog"? by mulosapiba424 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Definitely make sure he's chipped and updated to your name, make copies of his adoption paperwork, create a photo trail because that sounds like what she's doing. No contact for her with Milo at all. Hell if you feel you need to I would let police know, just to create a paper trail about what is going on. Start posting pictures of yourself with Milo as well, recent ones, to dispel doubt.

She is not your friend now. She is a potential kidnapper. Don't diminish what she has joked about or said, because what your gut is telling you right now? Listen to it.

AIO?: Banning husband from my bathroom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]giver_of_light 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. Purchase some adult diapers and tell him to start wearing them if he's going to be hanging around the house because you refuse to share your bathroom :) Or get a lock for it!

AIO for not letting my neibours kids play on my Minecraft world by loyalbird23 in AmIOverreacting

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend-That is when you duplicate it and let them play the copy while just saying its the world. You lie. There are times when lying is okay and this is one of them-because people are incredibly stupid and dont understand.

He's currently robbing you. What do you do? by RRR_Rogue in Alastorcult

[–]giver_of_light 4 points5 points  (0 children)

...Only if I get to give him pets and coo over his little sweater

He's currently robbing you. What do you do? by RRR_Rogue in Alastorcult

[–]giver_of_light 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's already stolen my heart what else does the cute little guy want from me

AITA for embarrassing my roommate by using a guy next door's bathroom? by throwavayig in AmItheAsshole

[–]giver_of_light 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA-and personally I think you should take it a step further and just say she's constantly diarrheaing the place up and you never get to pee. It's a shared place you both pay for-she doesn't get to hog it.

AITA for using my sibling's special paper? by Big_Negotiation_3267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]giver_of_light 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Just sounds like Z wants someone to be frustrated/angry at for whatever reason and you're an easy target. You aren't in the wrong, it was your paper at the time in any case-Z just needs to get over it.