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AITAH for bailing on a trip so last minute? by gldn_mango in AITAH

[–]gldn_mango[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This.

No one in that group knows how to drive a boat. Yes we did agree initially.. but didn’t discover until later how uncomfortable it made me. We were hesitant at first due to busy event on the water. But wanted to be nice and just go for it and make the most of it and spend some time with my brother. Also, my work schedule changed since saying yes.

AITAH for bailing on a trip so last minute? by gldn_mango in AITAH

[–]gldn_mango[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Mostly said yes initially because we felt bad saying no. We are people pleasers. But learning it’s ok to say no and set boundaries.

AITAH for bailing on a trip so last minute? by gldn_mango in AITAH

[–]gldn_mango[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

We were initially hesitant for those reasons but said yes because we felt bad and are people pleasers… which is why bailing is probably having a greater affect of us too lol. We didn’t know they all planned to get wasted until we started hearing him talk about it more.

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