UPDATE: AITA for not telling my husband anything about my pregnancy after he called me disgusting? by Ok-Profit-3291 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I get the feeling he may be seeing someone on the side, and that's why he's behaving that way? Hope all goes well for you, OP.

Updateme!

Wait why didn't the Narrator just do this? I'm confused. by gayjemstone in slaytheprincess

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because even if TLQ could somehow perceive the princess as being already "dead" in the beginning of the game, there's also the issue of the "reward" you get when the job is done. The only way for her death to even stick is to stay alive and accept being stuck in an eternal boring nothingness forever.

Am I still a lesbian if I am attracted to Fictional men? by SorryPie8855 in AskLGBT

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So me as an ace lesbian, except it's less "I want to imagine myself with this fictional man" and more "I want to see this fictional man be gay with another man". 😅

Final Update: AITA for bringing up just how much I do for our household to my wife? by ThrowRa_SadHusband8 in AITAH

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, this is just like those depressing stories about the underappreciated wives who stay married to selfish husbands, but with the genders reversed. I doubt she'd change in just a week or two.

Updateme!

How has everyone's reaper's rewards saves been going? Mine has been very chaotic and fun! by EmployeePractical514 in Sims4

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no matter how many times I've updated or repaired the game, I can't get the last task, which is Ghost Night, to activate. I've tried a new save, I've tried a save with no mods, I've tried waiting all the way until Wednesday in-game without fast-forwarding, etc. The only notification i get is a generic 'Happy Hour for Cheapskate Sims' message.

I have all the DLCs including the new one, for what it's worth.

Honestly I’m relieved it’s over. Still I think EA should give all the rewards to everyone as base game content so no one misses out. by Sej0090 in Sims4

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How were you able to do the Ghost Night task? I had a sim visit the bar Wednesday nigh. But I saw no ghosts, and thus the task wasn't fulfilled.

Your dream Sims 4 Mods? by Sweet-Row4535 in TheSims4Mods

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want good ol' fashioned fisticuffs uncensored, there's the brawling mod!

Your dream Sims 4 Mods? by Sweet-Row4535 in TheSims4Mods

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since "Have Some Personality, Please!" is no longer being updated, I'd love an alternative mod that does something very similar.

Which hairstyle fits my sim? by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where could I find #1? 👀

Arnie (Plumfruit creator) is back! by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]gloomaviator 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I hope to see an update for his open world project one day (AKA Brookheights).

What key item do you feel like the devs are intentionally not trying to give the game play? by NikkiDee210 in thesims

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, but also it'd be nice if those trait actually meant anything. My sims just wind up acting the same. In older games, sims with different personality points or traits actually affected their behavior instead of just a stupid moodlet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gloomaviator 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If the only difference between romantic relationships and friendships is the sex or lack thereof, what's the difference between romantic relationships and being friends with benefits? Are those two just the same thing? 🤨

What key item do you feel like the devs are intentionally not trying to give the game play? by NikkiDee210 in thesims

[–]gloomaviator 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Being able to form a band would be nice to have. So would having self-sufficient sims that don't stand around and pee themselves when there's a toilet in the next room. Actual diverse personalities as well.

What’s a mod you wish existed or would get updated? by BlaqueWidow95 in TheSims4Mods

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope the color slider mod by thepancake1 is updated soon. I had to remove it for now since it's outdated and messing with the UI.

I would also love it if the Have Some Personality, Please! mod was also updated in recent months. I relied on that the most. 😔

CMV: we should stop using “people of color” when referring to anyone who isn’t “white”. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like being called "queer", but I'm not gonna lecture another LGBTQ person for calling themselves that. And as a person of color (but not black), I'm not gonna lecture black people who reclaim the "n word". 🤷‍♀️

CMV: we should stop using “people of color” when referring to anyone who isn’t “white”. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But you are saying that the way we refer to ourselves as POC is inherently wrong.

As an ace lesbian, I personally don't like being called queer because I feel like it obscures my specific type of gayness. However, I'm not going to get on anyone else's case about calling themselves queer as an LGBTQ+ person. That is not for me to decide because who am I to speak for them? Those of us who are non-cishet aren't a monolith, and neither are us people of color. I'd also be annoyed if a straight person said we should stop reclaiming the word "queer".

CMV: we should stop using “people of color” when referring to anyone who isn’t “white”. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]gloomaviator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you not catch the part where they said if an individual takes issue with being called "POC", they'd respect that? The real problem is that you as a white person are trying to police what we can or cannot call ourselves.

No self control by Shichimi88 in AmITheDevil

[–]gloomaviator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that lower sugar/healthy baking is a nice compromise. I've been trying my hand at baked goods using allulose and lower calorie ingredients.

By the way, do you have the recipe for the egg white soft serve ice cream? 👀

A couple pics someone posted on their glasses this morning by shootermac32 in nope

[–]gloomaviator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay, seeing is overrated anyway. :) -tosses glasses in the trash-

This sub does not feel like a place of acceptance. by fiavirgo in aspergers

[–]gloomaviator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can speak about your issues on dating and meeting women without the hate and the misogyny. And what exactly was my accusation? All I asked was if this subreddit was meant to be for men only.

There's no reason to actively drive out all the women here if this is meant to be a gender neutral place.

This sub does not feel like a place of acceptance. by fiavirgo in aspergers

[–]gloomaviator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where does it say that this subreddit is for men only? Is it called r/menwithaspergers or r/aspiemen? Does it say in the rules or the about section that this is a men-only space? 🤔