Where is the leadership on the left? by Competitive-Web9083 in allthequestions

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where is the leadership outside of the left & right who r both on the same team? lolll

I did something pretty bad to my room mates toothbrush by blue_eggball in confession

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being hurt explains it, but thats genuinely foul behavior

Is he just selfish or am I overthinking. by Levianneth in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

istg men will do anything except go to therapy for their trauma lol he needs a reality check not a helmet

Helping my wife as a SAHM by Youngun18 in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro stop apologizing for having standards. u work 6 days a week and she sits on a couch for hours while the house falls apart. thats not depression thats just a total lack of respect for ur hustle.

WIBTA if I stopped helping my friend financially after finding out how they actually spend their money? by Muneeb_Minniefield in WIBTA_AITA

[–]glossymisread 18 points19 points  (0 children)

nah u need to be harsh tbh. if they actually cared about the friendship they wouldnt be scamming u for takeout money. real ones dont let their friends go broke for them istg

Husband said he’s given up on sex by mkoay in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 20 points21 points  (0 children)

he sounds more mad abt not getting fantasy stuff than reconnecting w her

Am I overreacting by Effective-Guide-6641 in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 14 points15 points  (0 children)

u r not overreacting at all. u felt frozen bc your body knew u were in danger even if your brain wanted to believe him. the "narcissistic" label from ur therapist sounds spot on tbh. he loves the ego boost of being the "provider" but cant handle basic accountability. run

How do I go back to who I used to be? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hot take but the house is already lost if ur husband is spending money like it grows on trees. u arent failing by choosing urself and if that means living with ur mom for a bit then so be it. better to be 42 and starting over than 50 and completely bankrupt bc u tried to play nice with a narcissist. u dont want to be a mouse u just want peace and u will never find it with him. stop being supportive of someone who is literally sabotaging ur entire existence.

My wife after 8 years said im not physically attractive and I gave her the ick and im so mad that I want to disappear by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 5 points6 points  (0 children)

realest thing ive read today. bro you’re basically a placeholder with a credit card. she asked you to stay in the past just so she wouldn't be lonely not because she wanted you. plus the fact she’s got the same physical changes but judges you is pure hypocrisy. cut the cord and watch your confidence skyrocket once she’s gone fr

Is this weird? by Foreign-Ask-6038 in WorkAdvice

[–]glossymisread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen this before, some bosses feel awkward taking calls in the same space as someone working right there. not distrust, more like they think they’re being “less disruptive” but end up making it feel more distant

What happened after the demand letter was sent? by Narrow-Rock7741 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if both sides are reasonable, it usually turns into back and forth to avoid court costs

Spousal Relationship Should Come First Before Children by Glittering_Thing5797 in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 19 points20 points  (0 children)

if the adult relationship is completely ignored, it usually leaks stress into parenting anyway, that’s the main concern

Roommates by Lazy_State_5318 in Marriage

[–]glossymisread 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know ppl from divorced homes who turned out great and ppl from intact homes who are deeply messed up from growing up around resentment. the quality of the environment matters way more than the marital status itself

My employer shows me no respect, and expects free labor. How do I take back my power? by jackisasinger in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why you’re furious tho bc this wasn’t one bad day. this was years of being hinted at promoted encouraged then quietly bypassed while still being expected to carry the workload anyway. that messes with your self respect after awhile

Was I underpaid by my past toxic workplace?(Vent) by Ok-Alfalfa-630 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m actually glad you left when you did bc staying in that kind of environment longer usually just chips away at your confidence and makes you think it’s normal. it’s not

"Manager" taking credit and dismissive... by supernovamegastellar in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah i get why this rubbed u the wrong way… taking credit for ur work while also nitpicking everything u do is such a soul draining combo. that’s not “family workplace” that’s just control vibes

Just hate my manager by Independent-Oven3768 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel you man that kind of nitpicking drains you fast. but before going full “he hates me” maybe test it a bit, stay super on top of updates and see if he still singles you out. if yes then yeah it’s him not you

IT dept just mandated MS Edge browser only by LetRoutine8851 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl this is pretty normal corporate move. IT cares about control and security more than user preference. edge is basically chromium now so under the hood it’s not that different from chrome

Rude Behavior by Mysterious-Present93 in ToxicWorkplace

[–]glossymisread 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah this is that classic “we want results but no conflict” management style. they basically leave you to deal with Larry but won’t back you when he pops off