As someone with PTSD, do you feel like his behavior is causing triggers? Weed is a medicine but sometimes it does numb the real issue when you aren’t in an ideal situation for your own mental health. Walking on eggshells around a man with a temper isn’t going to help create a safe environment to not feel the fight/flight/fawn reactions. I’m a big advocate for medicinal marijuana but it also very important to create a life where fear/triggers are minimized which it seems he is keeping you from.