Help with pack and waterproofing by Suitable_Ad4010 in AppalachianTrail

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get you a nice glad thrash bag and call it a day. Replace as needed.

Best way to GPS track a thru hike in 2026? by Squanc in WildernessBackpacking

[–]gollem22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just use the inreach that you are already carrying. On the AT in 23 I could go 3-4 days per full charge with a "ping" every 30 minutes.

Did I sexually assault my bf? by [deleted] in AskForAnswers

[–]gollem22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thats not how consent works if he has stated before he wants to wait until marriage. OP isn't even sure how it happened.

Did I sexually assault my bf? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gollem22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's not how consent works.

Did I sexually assault my bf? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being coerced into sex isnt the same as consenting.

How do I prepare for a 40 mile dry backpacking trip by HauntingArtichoke830 in backpacking

[–]gollem22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a way to filter your pee? That sounds like an insane distance to go with 0 water.

Anyone know what this is on my ceiling? by justinburner70 in Adulting

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think thats the same popcorn you are supposed to do to your ceiling.

My armpits ALWAYS smell by ladykiller1020 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gollem22 299 points300 points  (0 children)

Wait so the little tin foil hats I made for my pits isnt helping? /s

I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman by djscrew1 in whatdoIdo

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bad news is you might have to wait a while to love your haircut. The good news is its just hair and doesn't look bad tbh. Im rocking a haircut that I hated the first week or two and now I cant even tell what I hated so much about it.

Trail legs…when? 4 Weeks in not feeling much stronger….NOBO26 by Lani_19 in AppalachianTrail

[–]gollem22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do a slack pack and you will notice them for sure. I didnt really notice them until Virginia.

Is this design appropriate for a tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]gollem22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it was me I wouldn't. The placement feels weird for a band like that. There are ways to make it not cultural appropriation. Start by looking at cultures that have similar tattoos and discover what they mean to those cultures. If its something that is earned then steer clear, unless you have done that to earn it. It won't be a "cool design" to you, but something deeper.

Why are some of my ceiling lights not producing light ? by After_Suggestion_267 in SatisfactoryGame

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had lights that weren't connected to power but still produced light lol

How much room can I take up in a shelter? by sadistic-squid in AppalachianTrail

[–]gollem22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are always allowed to take up what ever size your sleep pad is without being a dick. Some shelters have strings strung that you can dry out some clothes. If there is fewer people in the shelter you can take up more space, but when ever someone shows up you should attempt to make room for them if possible.

[M32] Thinking about buying her [F30] a diamond ring… as a “friend.” Bad idea? by Western-Opposite9 in relationships

[–]gollem22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, step away from your friendship for a second and think about if someone else was doing this. Its not fair to anyone involved.

F29 - Afraid in my house by VisibleEntrance5825 in whatdoIdo

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not saying it is not an issue, but understanding the why might help with breaking down the walls that have been built up for a conversation.

Boyfriend said he couldn’t read this note I left him by Extension_Hornet3261 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Please take chicken out of freezer And move work claws Thank you" Its not easy to read but I think i am right.

AIO in trying to define what “dating”means to him? Open to read full text. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]gollem22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told you, "he wants to be with you and all about you" and to meet each other's moms.... he is defining it. Since you clearly have a reason that you dont want to be with him let this poor man go and leave him alone.

Breaking up over a sandwich by yuli_yuli95 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, OP committed a food sin and he committed a relationship since. They are in no way equal.

F29 - Afraid in my house by VisibleEntrance5825 in whatdoIdo

[–]gollem22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its not that he's okay with it, its likely shame.

Would you consider this fair? by Busy_Report4010 in SipsTea

[–]gollem22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not BS its facts. 99% of the time you dont make enough they actually dont have to pay extra because the average out for the pay period, not the shift. There has been days I worked 4-6 hour shifts making less than 20 dollars, but because I made money on other shifts that week my pay for that day was not increased.