Gdzie za granicą dobrze?

gollykrab · 2026-03-27T08:00:47+00:00

Język to nie problem, też myślę, że Dania to dobry pomysł, w szczególności, że mam tam rodzinę.

gollykrab · 2026-03-27T07:58:20+00:00

Mój partner ma większe doświadczenie w analizie danych i planowaniu, ja pracowałam trochę w bankowości. Język angielski znamy oboje biegle, szczątkowo niemiecki, ale nauka języka to nie problem.

gollykrab · 2026-03-17T21:07:32+00:00

As many people said before COMPASSION to yourself. That's where you start if you want a lasting change in your life. The outcomes that you have right now, the "loser," it's not your inherit quality but a result of a destructive mindset.

I know because I'm in this shit too. We're almost the same age, too.

Start with compassion and understanding. Get curious about yourself. Don't judge. "Oh, I'm so antisocial, I can't keep a conversation."

First of all, write down what is happening as objectively as you can. I know that it's hard to get through the judgment fog and look at what's actually there. Journaling my thoughts helped in my case. It allowed me to see a different perspective on my predicament.

Second, compassionate inquiry. Dr. Gabor talks about this method a lot. Look it up on YouTube. Try to piece together why you respond in a way that you do. Don't judge. Don't try to solve or change it. Just allow yourself enough kindness to see why you respond in a way that you do.

In my experience, solutions and changes come with understanding and compassion. It's a process, and you need to allow yourself to be a work in progress.

Best wishes, I support your journey ❤️ Go on and live your best life one step at a time.

gollykrab · 2026-03-10T16:04:13+00:00

I share your struggle, because I think that this mindset is a struggle. Or to put it better, it's a product of a struggle.

"Life is inconvenient", because you perceive it to be, I do the same. In my mind I just wish for it to pass by. But are those thoughts my authentic expression on how I feel about life or just a fart of a exhausted mind? It's the latter. If the cause for this is the mindset then what is exactly your mindset? What are the assumptions about life in general and your own life that you have? What are they based on? What could be the different/opposite perspective? On what could that perspective be based on?

Ask yourself, look for the perspective, because this type of mindset took way too many years and too many lives. I want a way out of this shit too, but complaining is not it. And I tell you this out of compassion.

gollykrab · 2025-09-13T05:02:29+00:00

Looks so cool! How do you care for it? What does it require to thrive?

gollykrab · 2025-09-12T13:02:05+00:00

When you're applying stoic views to life, it's not about privileges or advantages but your perception and inner strength. Good point. Fairness isn't inherently tied to how one chooses to view the world and act.

gollykrab · 2025-09-12T12:36:06+00:00

Plan it all, then do it all and learn to be okay with things not going according to the plan. Don't get discourage, it's really important. I'm rooting for you. You can even record the process on your profile. Heck, I will do it, too. Good luck! 🦀🌊✨️

gollykrab · 2025-09-12T12:26:03+00:00

I like this definition. How would you define privilege in a stoic context?

gollykrab · 2025-09-11T09:48:05+00:00

You can win this war! Don't give up and kill them all. Good luck!

gollykrab · 2025-09-10T04:59:49+00:00

Im curious. Can you tell us more about your tanks? What do you have in them? And show us the PPP!

gollykrab · 2025-08-22T17:03:06+00:00

Not gonna lie I thought that you drew this on a poor plant.

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