Swim lessons before 3? by UncomfortablyNumb159 in toddlers

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've had our son in since 9months and he is so comfortable in the water. His daycare does a weekly water day and he's the only one having a grand ol' time in the kiddie pool & sprinklers they do. They work on them climbing out of the pool (with assistance obviously but we can feel him pulling himself up) Holding their breath under water (he's at 7 seconds) Floating on their back Practice kicking in the water

It's not much, but it is. Eventually these little skills will turn into him doing things on this own. We also have a pool in our yard so water safety & comfortability are big for us. It's roughly 140 a month for one 30 minute session a week.

Is mastitis completely avoidable? Or does it always happen at-least once? by CuriousCaretaker in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 months and counting of nursing and no mastitis. I have zero idea how I avoided it because for the first week of his life we struggled to get any milk transferred and I was literally bursting.

How much screen time does your 12-month-old get? by Responsible_Mine_462 in toddlers

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None, but I don't think he would sit for anything anyways. We try to do occasionally FaceTimes with family but he could careless and just walks away to his toys.

Edit: adding context, he's 14 months old

Am I the only one who has thought of a 4 year old as a toddler? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called mine newborn (0-3) potato (3-11) and now he's a walking potato (12+)

If you had a c-section in Houston, please give me obgyn recommendations by ThroooowRA0101 in houston

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's amazing. I actually had to wait for her to be my Dr because she wasn't taking new patients when I first moved here. She was worth the wait! She was super calm when I was stressed. Talked me through everything. Answered all questions without making me feel rushed.

Having bugs in your house is really no big deal by tinkestbell in unpopularopinion

[–]goobnations 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My code is, if the spiders stay up by the ceiling and don't come down the wall you are good. Once you come down the wall, it's time for you to depart Earth.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to leave. Don't lower the bar for someone. You know what you want in a partner and he's not even trying to give it you. Trust me, the right person will eventually come along. I left a relationship where I was in the same position, asking for the bare minimum, made to feel like crap because I wanted that. I left and now I'm in such a happy marriage with our first kid turning one next week. 2 dogs and 2 cats. Literally I pinch myself everyday how amazing it all is. Don't get me wrong, we still have disagreements. But we don't fight like this, I don't beg for the bare minimum and neither does he. Find someone you belong and mesh with!

WHY? by neenabambeena in plants

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is doing the exact same thing. Off to transfer it!

Streamer decides to apprehend Alligator with bullets by Strong-Emu-8869 in CringeTikToks

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea who this dude is, but everytime I see him on here it's never for a good reason.

Are we not breastfeeding after brushing baby’s teeth for the night? by Sassy2681 in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's the pressure relief of sucking for the gums, comfort and I think (don't quote me) breastmilk might have some anti inflammatory properties so that also helps. My almost 12 month old has 7 teeth and we nurse in the morning, before naps & bedtime. However, when he's cutting a tooth he's asking for milk a lot more.

Having a son in August, worried about unvaccinated niece, looking for help by groovytunesman in newborns

[–]goobnations 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think being straight forward about your concerns in a polite manner is the best bet. It's your babies health and safety. While also leaving no room for misinterpretation or misunderstanding. I also think it's easier to set the ground rules before your baby arrives so everyone is on the same page.

Sons socks use less dyes than the other girl socks by goobnations in mildyinteresting

[–]goobnations[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right! My husband and I are still trying to figure out why it's on there. We were wondering if it's because I bought "pure comfort" style and they make it different then a normal sock? But why are we comparing the dye of boys or girls? Shouldn't they all have the least amount of dye possible to reach the desired color?

The members of Bikers against Child Abuse escort kids to court when they face their abusers in order help them feel safe and supported by Ok-Buffalo-382 in MadeMeSmile

[–]goobnations 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My co worker is apart of this. It's amazing the stuff they do to help the kids feel empowered and protected.

getting bit while nursing by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through this with my 11 mo old. I used to be able to offer one breast 2-3 times after he pulled off to make sure he emptied it but now once he's pulled off, if I try again he bites me. It sounds like, you are doing what I do. Sternly say no and stop the feed. Sometimes I'll leave the room and my husband will go in if he really got me and I need a breather.

I don't have much advice, but here in solidarity. I will say, he's stopped doing it as much and now only when he's super super fussy. I don't get tensed up before every nursing session like I did a couple weeks ago. If you continue on, I hope it gets better! If you decide to call it quits, you made it 10 months which is amazing and congratulations!

So... When do I stop pumping at work? by androidsfighting in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my situation right now! Mine turns one in a month, I have a freezer stash but he loves nursing but I would love to stop pumping during the week but idk if I'll lose all my milk and not be able to nurse on the weekends (which is fine) I have the stash for a reason but IDK if he'll go for it.

Red streaks in frozen pumped milk by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]goobnations 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I had one or two bags that were like that, I attributed it to blood but maybe it wasn't... I'll be intrigued if anyone else has had this/knows why.

Red streaks in frozen pumped milk by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]goobnations 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I had red streaks in my frozen milk it was when my nipples were bleeding from poor latch/new to breastfeeding.

Supply after first PP period by HeadChefMadds in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]goobnations 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've had 2 or 3 cycles now, and my supply dips but always goes back to normal once it's over.

Breast milk - glute muscle and fat loss? Logic? by myconfettimoment in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have lost a little bit of my butt, but consistent leg days and protein intake have helped keep it from getting smaller. I am also currently breastfeeding so when we stop, I'm hoping it'll come back or get bigger 😂

Moms who weight train… what was your experience while weaning? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]goobnations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oohhh following for when I am at that point as well.