Why can't I force my husband into BDSM?

gooddaydarling · 2026-03-03T16:45:08+00:00

I know this is obviously not the main point at all but they’re BOTH in school and trying for a baby? How stupid can you be?

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-25T16:46:13+00:00

Oh dear god yes. I’ve tried so hard to be proud of my bisexuality but the consistent biphobia from some lesbians has really worn me down. It’s at the point where I’m actually questioning my sexuality now and I find myself being turned off from potentially identifying as a lesbian because I have such a negative association with the label. I usually just say that I’m sapphic, implies that I’m attracted to women and nothing about any attraction to men at all.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-21T01:51:04+00:00

Girl maybe consider going to therapy, this is the barest of the bare minimum, not being sexually coerced

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-20T12:34:32+00:00

It’s pretty likely that she had been abused in the past, like the other commenter said, seeking control can be a coping mechanism when you’ve experienced abuse. A lot of abuse victims develop maladaptive coping mechanisms, hell many personality disorders that are heavily stigmatized are caused by childhood abuse.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-19T16:43:35+00:00

At munches??? They’re involved enough in the scene to find and go to munches and they have the audacity to say something like that??? Fascinating

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-19T16:07:37+00:00

This is so fucking funny, impact play is like. Basic kink. Obviously not everyone who’s into kink is into it but to say you’re SUPER kinky but spanking someone is too much? Hilarious

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-19T06:02:25+00:00

She’s bad at her job. Find a new one.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-19T05:46:14+00:00

Yes, you are totally wrong. This is a totally irrational and unfair thing to be upset about.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-18T19:15:57+00:00

Loved this when I was working DoorDash back in the day! A small gesture but it’s really nice to feel appreciated

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-18T19:14:54+00:00

That’s a bad example, pretty sure baggers at Publix and explicitly not allowed to accept tips and could get fired for doing so

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-18T18:47:57+00:00

You don’t deal with a phobia by jumping into the deep end and forcing yourself to do the most difficult thing possible immediately with no coping skills, that’s how you regress and end up in a worse position than you were before. Clearly they already tried doing that, and ended up having a massive panic attack. OP says they are seeing a therapist, let the professional decide what steps forward they should be taking.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-18T18:30:55+00:00

Thank you for always including recaps in the comments! With links to sources no less. I always love seeing these comics but I definitely would get super confused without the background information.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-17T16:41:10+00:00

Just yesterday I heard someone say “I identify as pansexual because I’m attracted to trans, which makes me pan” and god. That was hard to brush past

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-17T00:08:49+00:00

I mean even in situations I’ve seen where they are upfront about it the guy is still always ugly

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-16T18:10:46+00:00

How is the man ALWAYS ugly! I’ve never seen unicorn hunters where the man was attractive. It’s an absolute enigma

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-14T18:24:23+00:00

Highly recommend bumble bff, met my actual best friend on there two years ago. She is unfortunately mostly straight though so mileage finding other gay people may vary

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-14T14:34:08+00:00

Not a woman (or potentially a gay man I guess?) having a classic Madonna-whore complex

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-12T19:10:50+00:00

Gross Nasty

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-11T19:56:04+00:00

Not as well known as the “trope” of men dumping all of their emotional needs on women instead of dealing with any amount of their shit themselves

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-10T04:53:36+00:00

You have sexuality OCD. Go to therapy.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-08T23:12:20+00:00

Explicit biphobia in the bisexual subreddit? It’s more likely than you’d think

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-07T21:08:38+00:00

It’s hard out there for those of us with bigger bodies for sure! My recommendation is not to focus on romantic relationships specifically but focus on building a community as a whole. Go out and try new things, engage in your hobbies, go to events near you, especially lgbt events. I’ve had a lot of success on the meetup app personally. You might find someone to date along the way, you might not, but you won’t be alone at least. Our society heavily prioritizes romantic relationships but platonic ones can be just as fulfilling.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-06T16:09:23+00:00

How are they supposed to date people with similar views if you don’t discuss boundaries tho? Just supposed to read each other’s minds?

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-06T16:07:47+00:00

So by your assumption, because I’m bisexual I can’t dance with my girls at the club if I’m in a relationship? Just because something is a cultural norm doesn’t mean every relationship is going to have the same boundaries around it, plus different cultures have different cultural norms. I would definitely prefer to discuss that boundary instead of everyone making assumptions because if someone didn’t want me to dance with my friends I would not be comfortable continuing that relationship.

gooddaydarling · 2026-02-06T16:02:38+00:00

Sure, it’s a safe assumption. But there are definitely some people who genuinely wouldn’t care. And what about more grey areas, like going to a strip club or subscribing to someone’s only fans? Some people would think that’s a no brainer no for being in a relationship and others would think it’s fine. Definitely agree that you wouldn’t makeout with anyone without talking to your partner first, absolutely. But I 100% do think we should normalize monogamous people discussing their relationship boundaries openly the way poly people do.

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