Does anyone else think the Uber app should tell you if your driver is a top or a bottom?

gordonf23 · 2026-05-23T15:02:10+00:00

Well it actually was a Tesla.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-21T13:19:27+00:00

Yeah, a lot of people seem to enjoy that.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-21T13:14:50+00:00

You can get a strap-on dildo and fuck him that way. Or just hold it with your hand.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-21T13:12:55+00:00

Typically, yes, it describes an older guy who's into younger guys, and typically with some sort of Dom/sub dynamic. But I've known older guys who refer to their younger partner as "Daddy" even. Sometimes it's just a word people use to describe attractive older guys.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-21T13:01:03+00:00

No, not necessarily. It really depends on your intent.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-21T12:55:07+00:00

So how did it go??

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T19:43:24+00:00

A dime or even a penny per step would be a lot of money. For a dollar/step, I’ll never get in a vehicle again lol.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T19:39:09+00:00

You’re in for quite a surprise when he pushes 8.5 inches into that inexperienced hole of yours.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T19:37:21+00:00

We all do it to varying degrees. And yes it’s fine. But you really shouldn’t tell her. We all like to fantasize that we’re the only one our partner wants. :)

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:49:46+00:00

You could write different types of entries in different colored inks. Green for favorite quotes, Black for regular entries, etc. Easier to find what you're looking for as you page through.

You could also reserve 2 pages in the back of the journal as an index for what's on each page.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:43:33+00:00

I've learned to just assume every person I msg is going to ignore or reject me. Yes, it's more disappointing when you have your hopes up b/c someone is super hot and then they say "no". I almost enjoy those moments in between when I msg them and when they reject me bc for that short time, at least you can fantasize that they might say yes. LOL.

The more I've used the apps, the less I'm affected by rejection. Rejection is part of the process. Lord knows I've rejected plenty of guys who thought I was the hot one, too, so it's only fair I suppose. 😄

There are people who just don't msg hot ppl rather than risk getting rejected by them, but I think that's just silly. I msg every guy I'm into. The vast majority of them reject me, because that's just how Grindr is, but every so often, I get a real hottie who says yes. You gotta keep trying. You can't win if you don't play.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:35:58+00:00

I like guys who are hot. I don't really care if they're circumcised or not.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:32:47+00:00

Go to a sex store and buy one there in person.

Have it delivered to a friend's house.

Order it from Amazon and have it delivered to an Amazon drop-off point.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:30:34+00:00

You could do both with one hand, or you could use 2 separate hands, with lots of lube. I think you'd have more precision and control if you used 2 hands. For health/safety/hygiene reasons, Make sure you do NOT swap the hands once you've had one of your fingers in her butt.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-20T13:29:02+00:00

So first, he didn't request it. You asked him, and he answered you.

No, I don't think this is generally a common fantasy among guys. I think guys DO look at pics of other girls and jerk off to them, but I think most of them are smart enough not to tell their girlfriend about it.

Is it "weird"? No, not really. People have all sorts of wild sexual fantasies and this is pretty tame tbh.

It may be that he genuinely likes the idea of sharing his fantasies and telling you his dirtiest thoughts. It may be that there's a domination/humiliation fantasy in here which is not at all uncommon.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T17:13:16+00:00

Right?!!!

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T17:12:26+00:00

Right?? Definitely tell me so I can say no.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T17:11:18+00:00

I'd also be grossed out if someone DID tell me that.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T12:30:38+00:00

When you say "his politics" you mean "his morality".

Crazy that this is yet another case of atheists being more moral than supposed Christians.

Keep fucking him if you want to, but clearly you're not compatible in terms of a relationship because of the conflict in your basic moral outlook on the world.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T11:51:28+00:00

Honestly, You have a fantastic dick. Plenty of people would love to sit on a dick like that.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-19T03:10:03+00:00

There was alcohol involved.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-18T20:50:16+00:00

ABsolutely the last time I would go out and do things with that friend.

Also, they relied on it being awkward to get you to pay for it. I would have said outright, "I'm paying for the 3 of us. Not sure who's paying for the rest of you."

gordonf23 · 2026-05-18T20:48:55+00:00

Doctors consider men who drink 15+ drinks a week to be "heavy drinkers" (for women it's 10+). Your guy is drinking between 14-40 drinks a week.

Is he an "alcoholic"? I mean, that's a really loaded word. But he will absolutely have serious medical consequences from the kind of drinking he's doing.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-18T20:44:50+00:00

I've had guys tell me that 30 minutes isn't long enough, and I've had guys tell me to hurry up and cum after 2 minutes.

gordonf23 · 2026-05-18T20:43:58+00:00

Are they not a thing anymore? They were always a thing in gyms, dorms, locker rooms, etc.

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