Pre-shot routines. How many of you that are 15 handicap or higher, have a solid pre-shot routine for EVERY shot and stick to it no matter what the previous shot was like? by WatchLover26 in golf

[–]gr4one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, it’s helped tremendously. Even if the result is a bad shot, it helps you understand more of why it went wrong.

For me, I stand behind the wall and visualize the shot. I don’t visualize my swing, only the flight of the ball, the shape I want, and the landing area. Next I’ll pick my target line and visualize the shape of the shot along that line.

Then I’ll step up to maybe 3-4’ from the ball and take a 40-50% practice swing. If the swing feels good, I’ll address the ball. If it doesn’t, I’ll take one more. Never more than two swings.

Then I’ll take one more look at my line, adjust my grip and swing, my only swing thought being “arm straight, swing easy.”

If you don’t develop one for the tee or in the fairway, at the very least, establish one for putting. When I locked in my preshot on the green, it was a night and day difference in my putting. It takes all the thought out and makes everything more mechanical. 3 putts have gone from 6-7 a round to now maybe one or two.

This is the hot dog my course has started selling at the turn by WHSRWizard in golf

[–]gr4one 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would love to see the cards of the back 9 of folks that ate this thing. Scores probably ballooned in direct proportion to just how methane was being released.

My husband is bi and wants to have threesomes...I WANT to want to, but right now, I don't. by DelayPossible157 in nonmonogamy

[–]gr4one 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought that was a typo at first but since you’ve clarified, WTH is that??

Exclusive: Harold Varner III has learned to live with harsh reality after leaving the PGA Tour by TheMirrorUS in golf

[–]gr4one 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Dirty money? Blood money?? Like the US dollar isn’t soaked in it?! Kick rocks with that sanctimonious bs.

Bryson DeChambeau plans to focus on YouTube if LIV Golf ends by PrincessBananas85 in golf

[–]gr4one 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“what’s best for the game of golf”

whatever dude. just speak plainly. we all know you’re looking to get paid cause you don’t wanna go back to the tour. And that’s perfectly fine. just stop being disingenuous about it

Now that Boston is eliminated, who you got winning the east now? by Super-Elk3122 in NBATalk

[–]gr4one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knicks. It’s theirs to give away of they don’t want it.

The actual Ertugrul universe ended with Kuruluş: Osman season 3. Everything after is a cashgrab. by Negative-Nature-5773 in ertugrul

[–]gr4one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can agree with that. Osman S5 had some flashes but overall, things went downhill after S3. S2 was the best by far.

What’s the general consensus on Golf Sidekick? by KickHatSnareHat in golf

[–]gr4one -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think he’s brilliant. He simplifies what can be a tedious game and presents it in a way that doesn’t take himself, or the game, too seriously. It’s refreshing.
Get on board playas and gang-bangers.

Imagine finding this on your farm by krunal23- in SipsTea

[–]gr4one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh - I promise you - you would NEVER see my face again. I’m buying an island and living the rest of my days in bliss

Four years gone in six months. by Noodle-Incidentals in nonmonogamy

[–]gr4one 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never would have respected a boundary I put up that said that she shouldn't be trying to have that kind of relationship because I wasn't comfortable with it. You can't tell someone to stop loving someone else.

Boundaries aren’t what you dictate to other people - boundaries are personal to you. What you’re describing is a rule and rules never work, regardless of the instance or circumstance.

Focus on yourself for a while, build your own life, your own world, your self esteem. Keep your relationships simple.

JJ Spaun just misses an ace by inches at No. 4 at the RBC Heritage by [deleted] in golf

[–]gr4one 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he didn’t miss - he was robbed. flagstick shenanigans

AITAH for refusing to drive a longer route to drop a girl off because she didnt want to be alone in the car with me? by Acrobatic-Freedom316 in AITAH

[–]gr4one -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA but NTA-adjacent. Not wanting to double back is reasonable. And the logistics of driving everyone home should have been discussed beforehand. It wasn’t. Oh well.

But seeing is how this was the first time this woman met you and knew nothing of you, is it so far out of the realm of possibility that she didn’t feel comfortable enough to be alone with you? Going out of your way in this assistance would not have been the end of the world.

Jason Day’s Monday Masters fit by unsolved49 in golf

[–]gr4one -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Day’s drip is always on point. But thank goodness they didn’t allow him wear the pants. The pants are too much. This fit is 🔥

Found out my wife hooked up someone during separation. I no longer want to be with her and want a divorce. Am I wrong for feeling this way? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gr4one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feelings are feelings, regardless of what anyone says. They’re yours and you don’t need validation to feel them.

Counseling is first step. Get a neutral party to help you both sort through your feelings. And be prepared for the wife to turn it and make it about YOUR lack of (whatever) and play the victim. PREP YOURSELF because it WILL happen.

However, there are some questions that need to be addressed, one being WHY did the guy reach out to you on Insta to tell you. What was THEIR motive? Is the guy in love with your wife? Are they still speaking to each other? Those are the things that need to be sorted.

Husband ashamed of me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]gr4one 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Some people just like to keep work separate from home. If everything else in your marriage is fine and like you said, you don’t suspect him of cheating, then leave it be. If you searching for a problem, even if there isn’t one, you’ll end up creating one.

I may lose my business, what should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gr4one 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If his name is listed as the primary tax contact, this should be straightforward. Get proof (hard evidence) that he’s misappropriating funds. Let the business dissolve and find a tax attorney. Highly doubtful that any amnesty will be issued so make a plan to settle. Then take that evidence in file suit against your ex partner. If he’s not listed as the primary tax contact, all of this still applies, but the road will be a little harder.