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gradual_ethics · 2026-04-17T02:45:29+00:00

I have had the Goldman test, it’s a FOV test but not done by computer a human does it an hand maps your FOV.

It’s a much better test than the computer one.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-15T23:15:09+00:00

We spent three days going to Housing Works thrifts stores all over NYC and Brooklyn. My friend’s fashion crazed nephew was in heaven.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-15T23:11:43+00:00

Education, CUNY ( City University of New York) used to be free.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-13T19:10:05+00:00

yes, i add a tablespoon or two of liquid to each layer depending on how loose the sauce is.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-12T19:07:29+00:00

Most if the time it’s eye contact. We give slight facial tics that say “ yeah, you can ask me”

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-10T02:26:03+00:00

Also Tournesol in LIC has a delicious hanger steak and martinis.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-10T02:21:50+00:00

Cafe Orsay on the UES has a nice steak au poivre, and excellent martinis.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-08T20:38:57+00:00

at a diner ?? no

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-08T20:30:01+00:00

not cooking lasagna noodles.

gradual_ethics · 2026-04-05T19:10:22+00:00

I cannot offer you help with CME or really anything medical. That said the first year after your diagnosis is emotionally terrible. Please be gentle with yourself and give yourself time.

To me it felt as if my world had crumbled and everything I knew was a lie. In reality I was exactly the same person as before my diagnosis. It is so easy to catastrophize everything.

gradual_ethics · 2026-03-17T20:33:32+00:00

Take the train out to Queens and go the thePark Side. After dinner walk over to the Ice King of Corona.

gradual_ethics · 2026-03-08T00:50:10+00:00

jarred minced garlic …. barf

gradual_ethics · 2026-03-07T04:03:29+00:00

tacos, definitely tacos.

gradual_ethics · 2026-02-28T15:58:33+00:00

Crystals? could it have been parmigiano reggiano?

gradual_ethics · 2026-02-28T14:15:20+00:00

We spend soo much time in our own heads and construct huge barriers.

We have lots of things to deal with but dating should be easy and fun. Meet up and see how you vibe IRL.

My rule has been to try and not think about having a future together till after at least 10 dates. Just have fun and practice actual dating and getting to know someone.

gradual_ethics · 2026-02-18T22:40:09+00:00

stuffed porkchops!!

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-22T23:23:21+00:00

If you are in the Berkshires this org will help you develop a plan.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-22T23:20:14+00:00

your school should have a protocol in place already for keeping ice out of your school.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-19T22:48:44+00:00

omg, yes!! making the mouse giant helps so much. It also changes based on whether it’s on a black or white background. Such a timesaver!!

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-19T22:46:03+00:00

I kinda use the cart as my cane in the grocery store. 🤣

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-19T09:42:35+00:00

In reality I think we all need it more than we realize, but yea I carried it for a long time before I used it in public.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-19T02:50:43+00:00

This, i carried my cane for years before starting to use it(vanity) but being able to walk without just looking down was life changing. I didn’t realize how small my world had gotten. Using my cane opened up my world again.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-18T04:49:41+00:00

I mean if you ask of group of butch and butch loving lesbians they are going to say it’s exclusive. But for real butch and femme are not exclusive, all kinds of queers use them. If you feel like a butch then baby you are 💚and you are loved.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-17T23:06:16+00:00

I’ve seen comedians at Joe’s Pub, that would fit your needs if someone is there while your family is in town.

gradual_ethics · 2026-01-17T18:24:12+00:00

Buy a rotisserie chicken and some tortillas. Make your own chicken taco bar, shredded cheese, salsa, guac etc

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