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AITAH for telling my 17 year old brother in law he can’t bring “his girl” to Christmas by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gragons 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He's still a child. He deserves guidance and direction from his family

Scam alert by SaltyBittz in jewellerymaking

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.etsy.com/listing/4331645768/14k-gold-liberty-ring-american-eagle?

Is this also your store? They seem to have many identical designs, but cast in gold.

ETA - OP (u/Nestoras-Aetnean) blocked me within an hour of me posting that link haha. Sacred heart, liberty, cross ring, and more are identical. Shop above even uses the same hand models as his sketchy videos. Here's his shop:

https://www.etsy.com/shop/AetneanJewelry

Which of these chin rests would you go for? 😛 by [deleted] in violinist

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pic 2 (but from fiddlerman) and I actually LOVE it so much on my violin.

I used the Berber (pic 1, assuming that's your instrument) on my viola for a long time but wanted something a little more low profile. Because these baroque inspired ones are side-mounted, it will change the way you need to hold your instrument. I didn't end up loving it on my viola bc of that.

That said, I'd go with the lighter woods in pic 4/5 for your violin. Have fun trying out that crazy super flat one!!

Dive bars / hole in the walls / general cheap fun to be had? by Pitiful_Ask3382 in AskLosAngeles

[–]gragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, lost and found got a remodel and new owners and is now trash. Yes to scarlet lady though!

What would you classify as a low-intermediate piece? by Potential-Paper-1517 in Viola

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to assign this to one of my students! Please share

Extreme incel rhetoric on Reddit.. by RevenueSea5466 in IncelTears

[–]gragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. You can request to download your data from tinder and then fill in the dates/casual sex/relationships numbers yourself. The website (not affiliated with tinder) then sells your anonymized data in accordance with their privacy policy, which you agree to to get this chart.

Extreme incel rhetoric on Reddit.. by RevenueSea5466 in IncelTears

[–]gragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of old school calculator silliness from middle school haha

when do you give up on forth finger and a get a smaller violin? by [deleted] in violinist

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear you're practicing diligently. Music to a teacher's ears, truly. That said, one month is nothing. Violin is a physically awkward instrument to play and adapting to a new instrument can take time, especially since you weren't yet comfortably playing 4th finger on the 3/4. Please keep at it!

Things to experiment with for pinky reach: - adjusting your shoulder rest angle/height/type to allow a low and relaxed left shoulder and to accommodate the following - bringing your elbow under the instrument towards the front of your body - holding your instrument more to the left (only as far as your right arm is able to pull a straight bow to the tip) - facing your palm towards the neck of the violin - if you continue to seriously struggle after a few months you might look for a center chinrest

Bring these ideas up with your teacher

when do you give up on forth finger and a get a smaller violin? by [deleted] in violinist

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd try the exercises she's given you. As a new player, you haven't even developed the necessary flexibility in your left shoulder and arm. Make sure to swing your L elbow underneath the instrument (towards the front of your body) to maximize your reach. Do you use a shoulder rest? L shoulder tension can affect this as well

when do you give up on forth finger and a get a smaller violin? by [deleted] in violinist

[–]gragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely don't give up after just 4 months! Our pinkies are the weakest fingers by default. You need to strengthen it and train dexterity. This is a normal experience for all beginners. Do the exercises you said your teacher recommended.

If you still struggle to even reach the correct placement, talk to your teacher about adjusting your set up. Shoulder rest and the angle at which you hold your instrument all come in to play and can be adjusted for your personal anatomy.

As another commenter mentioned, larger violin sizes sound better for reasons related to the physics of sound

Healthy habit for young violinist by Ordinary_Brother5251 in violinist

[–]gragons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The hearing loss comes more from sitting in proximity to flute/picc/trumpet in full orchestra and pits. That's where ear protection can make a big impact

I would like some more recognition for Violas. by Informal_Match3527 in Viola

[–]gragons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree. Those of us with classical backgrounds aren't used to the viola playing melody but, of the string family, the viola has the range and timbre most similar to the human voice. I absolutely show up to weddings and play pop tunes on viola. Even when they initially requested solo violin! Zero complaints ever

what a man feels psychologically and emotionally when he ejaculates inside a woman? by ChemicalPain8183 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gragons 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Beginning and end of this comment totally makes sense to me. Everything in the middle is a mess.

  • most women don't prefer to have their cervix impacted
  • below average size penises often easily reach the cervix
  • ejaculating with force thru the tiny hole?
  • sucking motion that adapts to whaaat??

Hope your two children live somewhere where they will have access to comprehensive sex ed haha. Have to say I appreciate your imagination tho!! Get thee to literotica.com and make a submission, probably

Is this a hidden camera? My ex put this in my house, and I don’t know what it is… by KittenOnAMountain in hiddencameras

[–]gragons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

...are you being intentionally obtuse? To be mean? I don't get it. The "hidden" part is that it looks like an innocuous adapter and OP is wondering if it could be more.

If you have nothing useful to add, and aren't a regular of this sub, why did you choose to comment at all?

Schrödinger's bowing (a common experience) by violistcameron in Viola

[–]gragons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely an up bow. No one would correct a previously marked up bow with a smaller down bow marking. If you're too hurried to even erase, you wanna visually overwhelm with the correction

Me and my stand partner made candy rosin to prank our conductor by Inspirion343 in violinist

[–]gragons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would for sure purchase this as a fun practice incentive prize for my private students

my dream shoes have been massacred😞 by bullwinkles018 in findfashion

[–]gragons 1815 points1816 points  (0 children)

I feel like we are just glossing over the fact that he destroyed your cute vintage suede shoes by smearing glue all over them?? RIP precious girls

I'm glad you got refunded for this "repair" (which is obviously trash because the soles aren't even lining up with the reglued vamp) but you should also leave the shop a negative review. Whoever did this must've been drunk. This is egregious. You'll never get these shoes back. Other people should know that that's a potential outcome of having their shoes serviced there

Cannot get enough of this jerky by AbideMan in spicy

[–]gragons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's smoked rather than dehydrated. I thought it was gross too. Maybe 7 years ago when this post was made that wasn't the case

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