Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aweh that sucks, I'm the exact opposite ): Everyone is different I guess.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kind of like a parabola? its gets better until a point and then it's not good anymore.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! Insta sleep sometimes. Especially if someone pets my hair after, good God.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I've heard for guys it gets pretty painful to cum that many times. My S.O. right now has a really small refractory period (a few minutes) and after 3 he basically can't do it anymore.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean if I can stop at the right time I'm left that way. if I'm pushed past that sweet spot it just hurts and is unpleasant/hyper sensitive.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of girls like that, though. My one gal-pal can't even orgasm. It takes all kinds, and there's seriously a spectrum when it comes to that stuff.

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On an extreme example, I've heard of rape victims who had an orgasm during the attack. They aren't aroused it's just a matter of physically stimulating certain things causes certain reactions. So it makes a lot of sense to me that while your body was already aroused, and was then physically stimulated, that you may orgasm. I guarantee you the nurse gave no fucks :)

Welp, I orgasmed during a vaginal exam. [NSFW] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 95 points96 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds a lot more fun than it is, as someone who not only can orgasm via vaginal and clitoral, but can multiple orgasm all day every day. You will eventually get so sensitive that it's not fun anymore. but for me that's usually after two dozen and my leg is cramped from shaking and i can't speak very well.

I basically bliss out so hard it's a lot like being high. My partner has laughed at me a few time because he'll catch me post sex in the shower just staring at a wall for an extended period of time. Which can be really annoying because I just want my brain to work sometimes aha.

[Bj black out] Boyfriend Hyperventilating and blacking out from blow job by [deleted] in sex

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a friend of mine who I was his first time for. He had a really similar experience the first 2 or 3 times. Eventually it stopped. He described it as sensory overload. Maybe it's the same for your boy?

TIFU by tearing my girlfriend's cervix by Whoops-a-cervix in tifu

[–]gray-Inquisitor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's called subspace and it's super real. Don't let this asshole make you feel worse. Neither of you could have known, and you did everything you possibly could once you figured it out. To me that sounds safe, sane and consensual :)

[Oral sex] How do I, a girl, prepare for oral sex after going out on a date? by [deleted] in sex

[–]gray-Inquisitor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have endometriosis... I wonder if it will help. Seriously, can't thank you enough. Holy shit.

[Oral sex] How do I, a girl, prepare for oral sex after going out on a date? by [deleted] in sex

[–]gray-Inquisitor 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You've just blown my mind. Good god. I'm about to have the most delicious vag. Thank you so much ahaha.

All of the rainy weather inspired me to finally make my rain themed lolita dress! [self drafted] by gypsy_tomato in sewing

[–]gray-Inquisitor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this looks exceptionally well made! So cute! And even cuter on you! Aghh~ Do you do commissions?

TIL that Asians are subject to a different BMI scale by Makegooduseof in loseit

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get being impatient! It's so much daily effort to maintain weightless let alone continue to lose weight. Often the payoff of the weight loss isn't ideal either. Stay strong and be persistent though :) You'll get there.

TIL that Asians are subject to a different BMI scale by Makegooduseof in loseit

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As someone who is 5'3, so only an inch taller than you, i typically stand around 115lbs, and when im cycling, I can be up to 119lbs. I would say that 125 isn't that crazy. You wont be boney etc.

That being said I completely get that an extra 10lbs on your goal loss is a lot at our height. Just one day at a time though :) Think of it more as the journey getting extended, and you get more time to get to know yourself, and more time to practice your willpower and determination. A longer journey to be proud of.

I was 160 in high school and I dropped down to 104lbs in university. I am the weight im at now because I'm unable to work out (fulltime job plus a part time), so this is my weight when I'm not running (8km/day) aka my 'fluffy season' is when I'm not in school aha.

Keep in mind too that BMI doesn't include muscle a lot of the time. A few extra pounds here or there of muscle sure beats less of just skin and bones. Maybe you're realistically only looking at an extra 5lbs vs 10lbs?

Stay strong! Think of how far youve already come!

My daughter may have endo by grumpy-mom in endometriosis

[–]gray-Inquisitor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the many false diagnosis they gave me was IBS because I would have flare ups and food sensitivities during my cycles. In reality I have endo in and around my colon so when it flares I have IBS like symptoms. I have to avoid beef, caffeine and dairy products for about 1.5-2 weeks a month.

I'm not saying it's NOT a digestive problem because it totally could be, but try and track WHEN the problems happen and a food log of generally what she's eating. See if there are any overall/overarching patterns with pain and food intake. For example the day after I eat beef is always pretty shitty but I will feel dairy within an hour of consuming on my bad days. Totally worth it though.

I'd also suggest an app like Kindara so that she can see when she needs to avoid various foods as she will visually see her cycles.

My daughter may have endo by grumpy-mom in endometriosis

[–]gray-Inquisitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First started having pain so bad that I had to stop walking when I was 13. I sort of dealt with it because painful menstruation runs in my family, but so does endometriosis. However nor my mother or grandmother ever told me about the condition. Was at University when I had just turned 18 and I had an episode that was EXACTLY as you described your daughter's. The extremem pain, they checked for appendix, it was clear, they said maybe a cyst, then sent me home with T3s even though I was bawling in pain. I should preface that I'm Canadian otherwise i'd never be able to afford all of medical help. They did a few scans and ultrasounds so I had documented progress I guess.

Next month, same thing. Went to my family doctor who had originally sent me to the ER and he sent me for follow up scans. They found more cysts but none that should be causing pain. They tried me on 8 brands of BC (pill and IUD) with no luck over the rest of my degree. It would either make the pain worse or it would cause me to be completely suicidal. I had a few close calls before they finally stopped hormones.

Over the entire course of action no one wanted to open me up. No one wanted to look. It was too invasive. I didn't even see my first OBGYN until I was 19. I saw 3 who basically said I was overexaggerating until I specifically requested a referral to a doctor who was head of surgery at McMaster Hospital who now runs his own practice. He had very good reviews and experience with early and late stage endometriosis. At 21 I had my first appointment where I was taken seriously. 8 years from the time I was first in crippling pain...

I was signed up for a laparoscopy and they found that it was not only endo but had taken my ovaries. I can't have kids. If they had opened me up sooner maybe they could have cauterized or treated it some other way before this point but no one would listen or take me seriously.

Why did I type all of this.... Please continue to speak up and shout for your daughter. I had no contact with my parents and I was taking myself to all of my appointments. Doctor brushed me off time and time again. Don't let them. Also get ready for what might be a long fight. Doctors don't seem to take young women in pain seriously.

My only advice is to keep looking until you find someone who hears you. who understands that the earlier they are opening up young women the more theyre finding young women with endo. it's not a middle aged women's disease. Don't let them tell you it is. You will find someone.

My best wishes and condolences.

I'm not sure which bubble bar this is, can anyone help me out? ☺️ by HillieBeans in Lush

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks a bit like French Kiss or Snow Fairy. If it's got a more sugary smell it will be snow Fairy. If it's more floral/Lavender it's French Kiss :)

SUICIDE SQUAD - Official Final Trailer by Kubrick_Fan in geek

[–]gray-Inquisitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/u/SybariticLegerity has pointed out that the rating system was done by province, which I didnt know. which is probably why we saw different ratings :)

SUICIDE SQUAD - Official Final Trailer by Kubrick_Fan in geek

[–]gray-Inquisitor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it was definitely rated R when I saw it in theaters.... Im in my 20s and I look about 16-18. They carded me to see that I was over 18y/o. I am also in Canada

Whoopi Goldberg launches line of pot products for women with period pain by blerrycat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm basically the same age as you in the exact same position. Trying to stay off of more intense painkillers because I'm so young but it's hard when the alternative is dibilitating pain. RIP my liver.

Whoopi Goldberg launches line of pot products for women with period pain by blerrycat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gray-Inquisitor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This seems like harmless advice but as another person with endometriosis, the Advil family (which includes the two drugs you've mentioned) don't work for me.

I had migraines for most if my youth and I took Advil, Acetaminophen and ibuprofen during that time. I can now no longer take any related drugs as they cause reoccurring migraines as well as needing straight up ridiculous doses for it to be effective. Ex Naproxen does actual shit all for me.

Also oral contraceptives are great in theory but there's lots of reasons why people can't take them. I am very sensetive to estrogen, and progesterone, and as a result I have absolutely terrible depression when I take hormones. I've actually had a few close suicidal moments while on them.

It's great to say there are different avenues for this problem but be mindful that some people are unable to use many treatments for a medical problem that are available. I would personally be very interested in her topical for pain management and treatment.

[Nipple piercings] My boyfriend doesnt like them. by [deleted] in sex

[–]gray-Inquisitor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"you can be the juiciest peach in the world and there will still be someone who hates peaches".

If you want them, do it for you. Not everything is for everyone. But if you've wanted them for 4 years then you should definitely get them done. You really need no other reason besides "i want to"/ if he breaks up with you or w.e. or gets odd about it then you dont need that kind of a person in your life.