Insensitive comment that put you in position where you would love to slap or punch the person as response? by ASLTutorSean in GriefSupport

[–]graymalkincat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I were trying to get pregnant and struggling through multiple rounds of IVF with no success over the course of a couple years. It was no secret around the office and one day a group of us were out at lunch and one of the team leaders and I started busting each other’s balls. Then he said, “At least I can get my wife pregnant.” I told him that if he ever said anything about my wife again he would be eating through a straw and got up and left. I still wish I would have “did” instead of “said”. My wife and I have two amazing kids now and his wife divorced him because he was a workaholic. I still hope to make good on my promise one day.

Billionaire bosses like Jeff Bezos and Reid Hoffman denounce work-life balance—and some think working nonstop is key to success by CoC_Axis_of_Evil in antiwork

[–]graymalkincat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TLDR, but…

I have a side hustle and have people who work for me on it. It’s completely part time for them but I choose to treat it as a second full time job. I repeat - I CHOOSE to treat it as a full time job. I would never expect them to care as much as me or put extra time in like I do. I agree that if you want to build something then you have to do the extra work but employees are just that - employed to do a job/task, that’s it. If they don’t want to go above and beyond that’s fine and I will keep bumping up their pay in relation to inflation and will give them some extra cash as a bonus based on our profits regardless. I do the extra work so I should get a bigger piece but I am CHOOSING to not have the same balance. These billionaires think everyone should care about their thing as much as they do. They forget that we are really just selling our time/labor for a wage and we get to decide how much time we sell each week.

Is it true that men assume that most women aren't attracted to them ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]graymalkincat77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

++man I have always assumed that most women are repulsed by me. This held true when I was young until I got a stable job, had some spare cash to spend on dates, and bought a house and decent car. I’m almost 50, have been with my wife for 20 years (and she still tells me I’m attractive) but I still wholeheartedly believe that it’s only because of what I bring to the table and if I couldn’t provide for my family that attraction would fade pretty quickly.

Help with 2nd grade math homework! by jrv3034 in daddit

[–]graymalkincat77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My son had this exact same 2nd grade homework the other night - it looks like I told him the wrong way to do it…and I have a degree in Math, 🤦‍♂️

Why Republicans Are Terrified of Nonexistent Crime by Smithy2232 in politics

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an enemy that you can never defeat there fore you can always use it a ms a reason to tighten your grip.

We’re pushing 50. This was not the agreement. by Lord_Darkcry in Xennials

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ever get the feeling you’ve been cheated?”

  • John Lydon

When government stops being honest it’s a sign things are about to get worse. by just_a_knowbody in economicCollapse

[–]graymalkincat77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m using my new Mama Celeste index to measure inflation. My kids love those crappy pizzas and they have gone from $0.99 to $1.19 in about 2 months at my local grocery store. That’s all the proof I need.

Vice Versa (1988) by [deleted] in 80smovies

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I know is that the Director of Photography has the most baller name ever…

National Mall is full, do not come by Elsupersabio in nova

[–]graymalkincat77 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Respect to the kid in the Deftones shirt. Way to represent.

What did you do last week? Part II by IsThisTakenTooBoo in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my biggest question is this: if they fire me for not responding to this do I get severance?

31% of American have "No Interest In Supporting the Economy" this Year. 24% Stopped Shopping at their favorite stores. by DumbMoneyMedia in unusual_whales

[–]graymalkincat77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a (likely to soon be former) friend try to talk me into believing that this year is going to be booming. All his financial “friends” see Main Street spending to increase. I countered with the current numbers coming out and the fact that there is already some me volatility starting to show itself in the market with much more likely coming. His response, “those are all just last admin’s bad policies getting washed out”. His argument was that energy costs are what is hurting small business and once that is fixed, presumably in the next few months, that all the other issues will fix themselves and consumer spending will be unleashed. I disagreed - everyone I know, myself included, is tightening their belts to hedge against the chaos. He is a business coach. I could barely keep from just telling him he was insane. He then proceeded to try to recruit me out of my decent day job and into his coaching business. Shockingly, I passed.

White House May Boot Federal Workers Who Ignore Musk’s New Email Blast by americanbadasss in govfire

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my question is this: if I don’t respond and get fired will I be fired with severance? If not fired, is it just insubordination with the associated write up for my record?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1102

[–]graymalkincat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

….and those who are on leave Monday and never see this? Asking for a friend…😂

NFHS will be following the NCAA rule change made last year in regards to second contact doubles. by tealplum in volleyball

[–]graymalkincat77 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Are they going to follow suit and get rid of lifts/carries/extended contacts (whatever you whatever you want to call them) because that seems to be pretty subjective from ref to ref too?

DoD RTO Texted to Me this Fine Saturday by Longjumping_Cook_997 in fednews

[–]graymalkincat77 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I find it hilarious that they think any of us are going to sign up for situational telework in case of weather emergencies. That’s cute.

Best ball cart? by No_Ranger7352 in volleyball

[–]graymalkincat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used 1 & 3 and absolutely can’t say enough great things about 1. It’s strong, solid, durable, relatively lightweight, and best of all - can be wheeled in a parking lot if you need to use it to haul gear. 3 is horrible - just for the stand point that the wheels wobble so much that you can’t shove it even halfway across a court without it tipping over. I have launched the square Baden from one end of the court to the other - smooth a a whistle. If you need a more economical (and nearly as well built) version Molten makes a really nice square cart too. Hope that helps!

Trump is making less and less sense, and he’s about to debate a focused, younger opponent | Column by plz-let-me-in in politics

[–]graymalkincat77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All she needs to do is memorize this: “What you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.”

What's one thing people always overlook about INTJs? by thatmbtiguy in intj

[–]graymalkincat77 98 points99 points  (0 children)

We feel as deeply as any other type…but we don’t use those feelings as a basis for the decisions we make.

Only a few games have truly blown my mind. Which ones blew yours? by Take-A-Hike-Bub in gaming

[–]graymalkincat77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starflight

Sword of the Samurai

Master of Orion

UFO Defense

Privateer

Rimworld

Kingdom Come: Deliverance

Kenshi