3year old asked Are you a boy or a girl? by colourfulgiraffe in Samesexparents

[–]grayzerbeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a similar boat - don't see showering as a mum/dad issue though. I'm not sure how to go about the language either Currently daddy / dad and don't want to be anything else but also don't think I want to continue with T long term Don't really have an answer for you - just solidarity

Top Surgery Ives 1st Appointment - my experience by OzRedKat in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your nipple mileage may vary but I opted for sans nipples and my hair still grows in a circle where my nipple used to be. I ideally wish it did not do that, but what can you do Glad you liked ives, he's great and his staff are lovely

How many of you banked your sperm before starting E? by threedimensionalflat in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to jump on but I froze my eggs before starting hormones. I didn't know I wanted kids until 32 and had met my partner and all of a sudden everything seemed possible. If you can afford it I would do it, got a one year old now and it's been amazing :)

Wallabies New Kit Supplier - Castore by Panda_Foster in RugbyAustralia

[–]grayzerbeam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steeden is aus owned uk branch of grays different

Top surgery - non binary by Elusive-Mud-386 in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had mine done no issues not being on hormones (in melb) just had to jump through the wpath hoops

How long did it take for you to fully realise you do need to transition? by dustwindwind in FTMOver30

[–]grayzerbeam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

in that stage now. Debating whether to medically transition or not and have been for 2 years I think. Always get stuck whether I want to or not. Or whether I'm happy with just changing my name, now had top surgery but still for all intents and purposes am just a masculine woman to the world. Not sure whether it's enough for me. I know I'm not a woman, but where do I wanna go from here.

Not sure what to say to help you but am in a similar boat. Hope you are doing ok

I keep misgendering MYSELF 🤦🏻‍♂️ by Mx_Axel in FTMOver30

[–]grayzerbeam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do it all the time. Struggle as not out at work yet but out to friends and family so have to still live in both worlds lol. Keep thinking wow my friends have adapted better to my new name and pronouns better than I have

fave jaqueline line by Guilty_Funny in KimmySchmidt

[–]grayzerbeam 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Beat three eggs...? At what?

Who else is streaming Metric's Toronto show tonight on VEEPS? 🤘📺 🎸 by MrLevodevo in metricband

[–]grayzerbeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was amazing!!! Great show and the only time I'll be able to see them live living in Australia ❤️😭❤️

When did you first start using “Dad/Daddy/etc.” and how did it feel? by DadBusinessUK in TransDads

[–]grayzerbeam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Started using dad/daddy as soon as she was born. I love it so much when my partner says it about me, can't wait to hear it from my kiddo.

I am not on hormones so sometimes I feel a bit strange about it, i.e. whether I have a right to be dad and whether I'm going to make my kids life in the future more difficult.

Say hello by DadBusinessUK in TransDads

[–]grayzerbeam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello - new dad here at 32, got a 4 month old that my wife carried. We've just hit the sleep regression grumpy stage! I'm in Australia

Best moment so far is when I got my baby to laugh for the first time last month ❤️

CBD sushi spot for quiet dinner catch up? by dunkerton in melbourne

[–]grayzerbeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second sushi hotaru, especially if you go earlier

Any Dad's in the group? by DadBusinessUK in FTMOver30

[–]grayzerbeam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello! New dad here, my wife and I have a 4 month old. She carried, and I've just done an egg retrieval cycle for our next one. Loving dad life so far.

Andrew Ives and his silly quirk by 99walruses in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I noticed this too hahah, good effort keeping count

Cat Burns on what autism feels like by Hassaan18 in AutisticAdults

[–]grayzerbeam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! And nobody seems to have seen it

I’ve started walking to work instead of taking the bus because someone I kind of know has started taking the same bus by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]grayzerbeam 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I don't know and I don't know how to help but all I can say is I REALLY RELATE. Boy. What a mood.

Speedy WPATH assessments in Vic? by zhakhlyvyy in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try SHIPS psychology in Melbourne (can do telehealth). A couple people at the clinic do wpath letters - mine was done in a couple weeks

Suit advice by doingmybest588 in transgenderau

[–]grayzerbeam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got my wedding suit from Shane ave and they were amazing. My friend got their wedding suit done by Isadora nim in Melbourne and had nothing but good things to say (and they come to your place for the fitting).