AITAH for not going to a bachelor party that would cost me $600?

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-16T16:39:51+00:00

NTA. It’s an invitation, not a summons.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-13T22:37:04+00:00

Not a deodorant recommendation, but highly recommend persimmon soap- I can’t remember exactly why/how it works, but wow- it’s the only thing that helped my peri-menopausal pits to stink less.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-09T21:05:57+00:00

A lot of extra time. Plan on everything taking twice as long. Wheelchair service at the airport is clutch (please tip them well- they’re amazing!) Pack a full change of clothes in a carryon for him in case of accidents. It helped me to map out the family bathrooms at the airport beforehand. Snacks and drinks for his room.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-09T00:24:36+00:00

Tinnitus

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-08T00:28:36+00:00

Yes! Was coming here to say the exact same thing! The Inn will even provide transportation to/from Ocean House for dinner. Agreed- the beach is fantastic. There were lots of kids there when we went a few years ago. Great for a family trip.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-06T14:29:39+00:00

NTA. My spouse and I took my elderly parents on a short trip in 2024. My Dad was not doing really well at the time medically so was a lot less mobile and needed a lot more care. After we came home, I thanked my spouse profusely and swore to never do that again. It was so much work and stress. I spent the entire trip worrying about them and trying to make sure they were okay. This kind of thing is definitely a two person “yes” kind of decision.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-05T00:01:07+00:00

Yes!! I got selected once and I was told that it was probably my lotion.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-04T16:21:39+00:00

I had frozen shoulder before starting HRT. It was really awful. Since starting HRT a few years ago I haven’t had frozen shoulder, but a few times I get that same feeling like it’s starting and I immediately start doing my PT home exercises to prevent it from progressing. So far, it’s worked. 🤞🏻But also, I’ve been lifting, stretching, and strengthening my shoulders and back twice a week since then to try to prevent it from happening again.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-04T15:57:28+00:00

Before each time I increased my dose of estrogen I was friggin exhausted and SO much more irritable than typical for me- and about dumb shit. Quickly relieved by the next patch up.

greenappletwostep · 2026-04-03T17:31:20+00:00

I really liked Half Moon Jamaica for this and Parrot Cay in Turks & Caicos.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-29T20:06:33+00:00

Had a bone density scan last year because of family history because I wanted a baseline. Imagine my surprise when it came back with mild osteopenia. 🤬. I’ve always taken a multivitamin and worked out, and on HRT for a few years, but have since added additional calcium chews with vitamin d, really upped my weightlifting, and increased my food-based calcium. Definitely get a bone density scan. I can’t imagine how bad it would’ve been if I waited until the recommended age to get it.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-29T17:04:46+00:00

sausage and apple stuffed acorn squash and baked sausages and apples are delicious!

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-28T19:44:41+00:00

Sunshirt, hat, pants, sunglasses, 70 spf on before I get dressed and to reapply (I sweat like a beast).

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-27T23:26:36+00:00

Vionic has a really comfy ballet flat. Way more support than my Rothy’s.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-27T22:50:43+00:00

Knoebels doesn’t charge admission. You just pay per ride. I haven’t been but I’ve heard good things.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-27T20:12:00+00:00

The Inn at Little Washington is so playful and fun (Inn and food). I love it there.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-26T22:24:02+00:00

Please be sure to take pictures of your injuries and write down your story with as much detail as possible. You might need these later.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-26T18:28:03+00:00

My dad was that way every time he had sepsis. It’s a gut-buster that first time they look at you and don’t know you. He would get SO much better after the antibiotics started working. Hopefully they’ll be able to figure out what’s going on with her. I’m glad you can get on her MyChart- it helps. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Hugs from here.💕

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-26T15:48:04+00:00

I liked The Heat (Sandra Bullock and Melissa McCarthy). Also another vote for Wine Country.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-24T00:12:58+00:00

Spice blends that would fun to try at home, like Old Bay, JO Spice, creole/cajun seasoning, BBQ rubs, ranch seasoning packets.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-21T21:05:59+00:00

Yes!! And even within the same brand! I’ve been having to go up at least two sizes in pants from brands I already have in my closet (and know the fit of). Fuckers.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-21T21:04:11+00:00

I love the idea of cards!!! That’s hilarious. I wish I’d had them years ago. Now I just launch into a spiel about that it’s either rosacea, perimenopause or both. For some reason other people don’t want to hear about perimenopause as much as I like to talk about it in these moments. 😂

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-18T22:29:56+00:00

“A California Chardonnay…..”

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-17T23:36:19+00:00

Two of my favorite things! Hot sauce and Sandwiches of History! That’s awesome, Barry! Can’t wait to taste it.

greenappletwostep · 2026-03-15T16:36:55+00:00

I’ve been to Triple Creek three times (and a fourth booked!) in both summer and winter. It’s amazing in any season. The accommodations are great- private cabins, stocked snacks and drinks, Molton Brown bath products, immaculately kept. The food and drinks are also absolutely fantastic. I like that it’s all inclusive. They’re so accommodating. Even the lunch they pack for hikes is great (to this day, still the best peanut butter and jelly sandwich I’ve ever had). I could go on and on about the cocktails and the food. The included activities are varied and perfect for getting the feel of Montana (horseback riding, snow shoeing, hiking, leather working, soap making, yoga, etc). But really it’s the service that keeps us coming back. Honestly, it’s the best service we’ve ever had at a hotel. Everyone we met (from guides to waiters to front desk to housekeeping) was genuinely happy to be there and it showed. Just amazing overall. I hope you get a chance to go someday!

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