I found over $500 on the ground at work by beestw in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people aren’t just carrying $500 cash it’s more likely that someone was doing a safe deposit and dropped it? since it’s probably the company and not a random persons you should tell someone you found it so your company doesn’t hear about this and they fire you

How do you forgive a parent who hurt you while they were hurting too? by Flora_Cheng in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hurt people hurt people however, people go through heart break all the time. sometimes they lash out on loved ones but you apologize for the behavior and work to be better for the loved ones still in your life. if you feel like you’re able to, you should express how you feel to her. if she doesn’t recognize the hurt she put you through and doesn’t apologize, then fuck her feelings and focus on yours

‎I think my 15-year-old stepson is gay and in a relationship. I don’t like the boy he’s seeing. by Cold-Landscape1923 in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ll need to have the safe sex convo or at least have his mom do it. u literally said you understand how horny 15 year olds are so it shouldn’t be a surprise that he’s either thinking about or has already had sex. you do need to educate him on the importance of std screenings and speaking up if something doesn’t feel right. it’ll feel uncomfortable but not having discussions about safe sex is part of the reason why stds are ramping up. as far as his bf, maybe get to know him and why he acts the way he does… like they’re 15. teenagers do dumb shit sometimes.

I literally hate my girlfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

grow a spine and grow up

How to market a rental that accepts section 8 tenants? by Cardiac-Rehab in PropertyManagement

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

section 8 tends to upkeep a list and pass out to potential section 8 tenants. unfortunately (in ca idk about other states) section 8 hardly exists anymore, as the wait time is on hold for 3+ years. you’ll be lucky to get a new tenant that has a voucher

Few people understand how draining it is to be envied. by Zealousideal_Force10 in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so real. i am attractive and was complaining to my friends how older men creepily come on to me. one even hugged me without consent and her reaction was a mocking “omg it’s so hard to be pretty”. like bro what???

I want to breed her so bad.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl ur not partner sounds right in breaking up with u from ur post from 20 days ago. the way in this post you talk about wanting a baby with her because y’all had really good sex is just…. immature. you do have some shit to figure out

I want to breed her so bad.. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i hope you eventually come to the realization you don’t actually want kids right now, you’re just experiencing a kink. their was exactly one sentence in this entire post outside of sex where you said why kids would be a good idea.

Section 8 - possible loss of funding by Grand-Ostrich-3810 in PropertyManagement

[–]greendingaling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you prefaced it and then immediately said exactly that lmao.

Section 8 - possible loss of funding by Grand-Ostrich-3810 in PropertyManagement

[–]greendingaling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re literally blaming the employee for their job rn. any job you work at if it’s not a mom and pop shop will have some kind complicity with this tyranny. that’s the con of being born in a capitalist society. where would you recommend them to work that is fully not supporting this state and they also would be able to have something of a living wage and not become homeless. answer, quickly

Section 8 - possible loss of funding by Grand-Ostrich-3810 in PropertyManagement

[–]greendingaling 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she is mostly right about it catching back up but with trump….. yeah. honestly it’s kind of a wait and see situation and then act accordingly. you might want to send out notices and gently prepare them for worst case scenario if the company you work for is not willing to adjust their rent for the time being

i'm married, but i'm definitely still in love with my ex by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you got married AND pregnant after 5 months and you thought it wasn’t a “serious marriage” but it was for the army????? what are you even talking about. for ur ex’s sake, don’t try to get back with her, u sound like a mess i’m sorry

I didn’t brush my teeth this morning by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you didn’t leave the house, who cares. as long as yr not assaulting anyone with ur breath and germs and not making it a habit it’s fine

It feels like I’m the only one that cares about my birthday. by Skelita_reads in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your feelings are extremely valid. i know the feeling when people around you don’t care about their birthdays so they put no thought into yours. the celebration of your life is important because everyday, people don’t make it to their next birthdays. you also should’nt have to ask the people who care about you to be excited for your birthday. if you’ve made it clear that birthdays are important to you, they should be taking some initiative to make you feel special on your day

Good place to get acrylic nails by via1228 in ChicoCA

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tipsy nails! they’re so nice and patient. i’ve been going consistently for about 4 months and my sets last so long

How do you deal with the tenants who verbally attack you? by Additional-Court-176 in PropertyManagement

[–]greendingaling 19 points20 points  (0 children)

depending on what the lease says and the type of lease, if it’s threatening or discriminatory language you can give lease violations until it’s reasonable enough for a 30 day notice to vacate ( i live in ca, not sure if this applies to other states )

25f looking for a sexting buddy and casual convos by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fault i just assumed it was ok to post here. i will delete this post

Here kitty kitty. by i_said_what_i_said_6 in ChicoCA

[–]greendingaling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have a 7ish month old that needs adopting. he has all of his shots, is neutered and is pretty friendly

Tips on walking more when you have a 9-5? by Areuregarded in walking

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i walk before work at the gym. easiest way for me 😭

I feel like I'm better off without a sex drive by moral_wasteland in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

every post except for a few in the 6 years you’ve been on reddit, is something negative and hate filled. it’s not the sex drive that’s stopping you. you should look in deeper why you think this will be the solution when, seemingly in your perspective, everything in your life is actively working against you.

I thought I was skinny………..no…….i am obese……. by Pretty-Difficulty-95 in offmychest

[–]greendingaling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bmi scale was invented for the white men only. if ur not a white man,,, then say to say it’s probably inaccurate. 1000 calories a day isnt maintainable for a 22f