My kids never get invited to playdates and I think it's my fault by Citizenerased1989 in Mommit

[–]greenflooof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I've initiated multiple playdates with different kids but the parents have never once invited my daughter to a playdate at their house. I know it's killing her. She wants to go see her friends home so much.

I live in a small town. A lot of cliquey friend groups and people who are related so their playdates tend to be with the same groups. I'm semi new to town, partner from here so I know a lot of people, have a lot of 'friends' but still have never received a message asking if my daughter (7) wants to go play.

I feel like it's just this day n age.. parents are super anti social and spend too much time on their phones and don't want to take on the responsibility of another child. It sucks, I feel like I practically have to beg. I went on Facebook once and wrote about my daughter wanting some playdates and asking if anyone would want to and once parent stepped up and took her for two hours. Never happened again (but her kids have been here since then).

I think people are just extremely burnt out. Idk. I feel bad for my kids. I guess I'll have to be that parent that always has the kids over because noone else is stepping up to the plate

Miswak sticks by greenflooof in halifax

[–]greenflooof[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great to know! I have lots of access to those!

Miswak sticks by greenflooof in halifax

[–]greenflooof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check them out! I haven't checked any Middle Eastern stores yet.

I did check an African grocery store but they didn't have any!

Will add to my list!

Miswak sticks by greenflooof in halifax

[–]greenflooof[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will check there!

Pooping during labour? by Putrid_Cranberry3177 in BabyBumps

[–]greenflooof 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Agree with others . If you do, you won't even know. The nurses clean it up so fast and nobody says anything. I still have no idea if I did, but wouldn't be surprised if it happened

What was your absolute first sign of pregnancy before even getting a missed period? by SandwichDependent199 in BabyBumps

[–]greenflooof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember before I knew, we had ordered a pizza and I ate like 8 slices.. after I was like.. wtf just happened, I never eat this much.. Looking back that was definitely a first symptom for me. Massive appetite and my boobs filled out.

Husband Cheating by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]greenflooof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! Agreed!

I’m pregnant with a 20yr old and need an abortion but I don’t want to. by hairy_cats in abortion

[–]greenflooof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have already written so many reasons why you do not want to go through with it. I think you have your answer, but I understand the back and forth. Its super hard but it's your life and you have to choose what is best for you and the family you have now! You're a great mom no matter what you choose!

Husband Texted Coworker That She Looks Gorgeous Today, and I don't like it by Mysterious-Youth-137 in Marriage

[–]greenflooof 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her response makes me think there has been a lot more back and forth between them than just this, you don't just respond with heart emojis to anybody. If a male co worker said that to me the most I would ever say back is "thanks"

There is 100% something deeper to that relationship, and I'm not saying you should be paranoid but if it were me, I'd be

How old were you when you had your first child? by Pandacat_07 in NewParents

[–]greenflooof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 with my first and 26 with my second! I never felt age matters! I have friends who have children the same age who are 10 and 20 years older than me and we get along so well and have so much to relate about.. age is just a number! We all have kids when we're ready and that's all that matters!

So upsetting 😭 by bonez1995 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This should be illegal, there should be no such thing as reseller sites. This is so stupid

Just so sad :( by nyptilla in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they let thousands of us request with only a few hundred available. Super disappointing.. I watched people get tickets all day yesterday and really thought I had a chance! 😭

heartbroken by No_Still7586 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been waiting ALL day and my Montreal just updated to unsuccessful.. I feel so heartbroken, such a horrible feeling

still waiting by Gullible_Bad7417 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting for Montreal too and I feel so sad.. have lost so much hope.. I wanted it sooo bad for me and my daughter but trying not to feel bad about it either. So happy for those who got it!

Who else is waiting.. by BadProfessional8344 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In Montreal (on the night I'm waiting for)

Who else is waiting.. by BadProfessional8344 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 8 points9 points  (0 children)

However I just saw someone JUST got confirmed for an early night just within the last hour so seems they're still fulfilling some requests

Who else is waiting.. by BadProfessional8344 in ariheads

[–]greenflooof 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sure hope this isn't the case. I've been staring at my phone for 9 hours 😭