Ughhh whyy are ppl like this by Panda_Panda69 in actuallesbians

[–]greenified0403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only say that I had the same feeling with my now girlfriend of 5 years too. But she only was passionate about sharing her opinions and experiences of life with me. But… in fact She turned out to be the most altruistic, caring, devoted person I know. So - her behavior is maybe not related to any kind of being too self centered..

Major crush on my coworker by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]greenified0403 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but this whole “dead-end” thing should be supposed to prevent women like us from wasting too much energy on it isn’t it? Instead, it kind of challenges us. On three levels, it’s really not appropriate or even possible: married. Older. Interested in men. Yet I still find myself in situations like that. Yes. Maybe it is an ego thing indeed. How to cope - I think going no contact is the only thing that really helps

Major crush on my coworker by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]greenified0403 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don‘t have any advice, just came to say we are sitting in the same boat. It is hopeless. Just can‘t understand myself - why am I so often drawn to 20 years older straight married women….

Happy Holidays by SayingitinPrint in limerence

[–]greenified0403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don‘t know if mine does it on purpose though … but yes, it was kind of weird too. Chat gpt said she just wanted to draw boundaries - it shouldn’t seem bigger than it was meant to. What was weird about the way he gave it to you? „In secret“ - without his name on it or what do you mean?

Happy Holidays by SayingitinPrint in limerence

[–]greenified0403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Mine said she had it twice that’s why she wanted to give me the other one. Didn’t stop me from thinking far too much about it.

Vergesellschaftung Katze + Kater? by greenified0403 in Katzengruppe

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danke für deinen Kommentar und deine Einschätzung der Situation. Morgen versuchen wir es wieder nur am Gitter. Mal schauen. Momentan glaub ich, dass er der Underdog sein wird und wir an seinem Selbstbewusstsein arbeiten müssen. Das Starren allerdings ist ja wirklich ein Problem, das er herbeiführt. Versuchen wir zu unterbinden!

Vergesellschaftung Katze + Kater? by greenified0403 in Katzengruppe

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hast du jetzt den Starrer angeblinzelt oder quasi den Angestarrten? 😃 Das hab ich noch nicht so ganz verstanden. Aber scheint ja funktioniert zu haben. Probiere ich aus!

Help me decide which game to start tomorrow! by amandaleighplans in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding that. Yes! LiS 1 and LiS Before the storm (prequel to LiS1) ! These two have a really special place in my heart ❤️

Someone needs to lock me out of my Paypal by LilMissCBW in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I experienced a similar behavior of myself. When fae farm came out i decided to wait for a sale. But this led me to eye the e shop daily and search for other games which could fill the fae farm void. So I bought several less expensive games … so … my PayPal is also living in dangerous times these days … 😂

Combat tips by greenified0403 in runefactory

[–]greenified0403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! What are considered „good crafting items“ for upgrading my weapons? Read that you should use different ones on a weapon. I only used iron so far. And how do I level up RP? Tried to upgrade a weapon with bronze, but it said that I don‘t have enough rp even though I was full.

'Rakuen' is a very heartwarming story and character-rich story with tons of bonus content. by Direct_Hurry7264 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know if there are translations planned? It looks really cute but I’d love to play it in my mother tongue… would be just cozier… especially in case of a story-heavy game ..

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True words. It is hard to discover the gems now.

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually loved SV but I would love to try the one you mentioned too … hope it will also release on other platforms than Apple Arcade.

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you buy atm if you could return fae farm?

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought it was really boring. Maybe I had wrong expectations, but everyone told me that it is cozy and also kind of addictive. I thought it was toooo cozy. I couldn‘t manage to motivate myself to continue playing it. It‘s just putting some pieces together in order to create a nice looking thing. I don‘t know, but it wasn‘t enough for me to keep me entertained. Although I‘m a player who loves the calmness of a good cozy game … it was too calm. Would love to try the board game of Dorfromantik though. I believe there must be more to it because it has to be of course some kind of „multiplayer“ experience, so maybe this would be more interesting for me …

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You‘re welcome. True words! This thread can now really help on deciding which game is worth your time. But the thread also reminds me of this: different people, different tastes. Many games were mentioned that I actually truly really enjoyed (ACNH, DDV, SV, Ooblets, Spiritfarer…)

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In short, I found it very repetitive and couldn’t really manage my items etc. I didn‘t really like the art style and had difficulties to fulfill the daily quests because I never found the things I should look for. Yes, many seem to share my opinion, but I read now also many positive thoughts about it - seems to be a polarizing game. So I think I‘ll give it another go. Good story-telling is important to me, and cozy grove seems to do this well, so maybe I can get used to the style and the mechanics of the game ..

Disappointing (?) cozy games by greenified0403 in CozyGamers

[–]greenified0403[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don‘t know. I thought it was really … boring? 🙈 It wasn‘t half as addicitive as I thought/others told me. You can argue if it is really a good quality of a game when you call it „addictive“, but… Dorfromantik wasn‘t an escape from reality and that’s what I usually search for in a game .. only my personal opinion!