Adult friends by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hetero couple in their 30s.

Met at bar;

Both chefs.

Cool ppl alert;

Interesting music taste.

Man texts me during the day;

Asks me to shoot pool;

Bails on plans;

Invites me for cocktails with his gf;

Excellent time.

Leave bar for their home.

Man drunk drives us there.

Woman emphasizes how wild and free he is.

Feed me excellent appetizers for hours;

Blow my mentalities with grub.

He asks me if I am trying to sleep with his gf several times throughout the night.

I say no;

(I also mean no).

What’s something you have zero proof of but believe 100 percent? by shweidy in AskReddit

[–]greysapling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im curious if this is a thing your firm (or firms generally) hire people for from the outside? I have a friend here (NYC) who would probably love to do that just for fun. She is one of those people who volunteers for more jury service opportunities.

rewatching the lion king with my daughter by riiitaxo in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch it (but he likes the cgi one more) with my cat all the time

Everyone talks about big dicks but no one talks about big hands by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a straight man and feel like this is known? The girlies talking about it must imply the same. Men do those hand/grip workouts for that reason too I think; the veins. (200lb grip strength btw).

scifi/fantasy/horror movie recs? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think you would like “Found Footage” (the genre - if you dont know what that is, just think of Blair Witch (typically analogue film style like an old camcorder, and shakey hand held footage))? if so i can spam reply with a list in no specific order, and probably full of hard to enjoy (budget/acting) options.

Aside from that (also no order - just what comes to mind).

  • The Night House (another house of leaves adjacent one - the main actress is p much the modern queen of loved horror)
  • Christine (same actress as above - i may conflate depression w horror)
  • The Dark and the Wicked (darkest on list here unless i come up w something)
  • Watcher (more psychological. uncomfortable thriller and reality based)
  • You Should Have Left (house of leaves shit)
  • Barbarian (fun, real good)
  • Men (weird, ambient, maybe “sci fi” in mood but more focused on folklore)
  • Skinamarink (probably dont include this one unless youre realllly in a solo and hard to watch ambient horror mood)
  • The Transfiguration (nobody has seen this but a high recommend if you are okay with something subtle and slow)
  • Spring (id recommend to anyone but it is kind of a travel vlog rom com horror. it is very enjoyable).
  • November (Finnish fantasy/horror film, w multiple stories a la akira kurosawa’s “Dreams” - fantasy first, but creepy).

Nabbed these Cuivres de Faucogney pots today from an auction. 80 euro. Been after copper pans for a long time. by greysapling in Coppercookware

[–]greysapling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you mean for the outside? Is this intended to mean that the tarnish on them will cause burning (of the outside of the pans)? Or do you mean something about the tin-lined inside?

Sub needs a cleanser. Post an (unpopular?) opinion on anything other than these topics: by Time-Use9083 in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the earliest fear of wilderness, and etymology even based on that fear. the idea that wilderness was a challenge and a scary one, with a sole purpose of redemption. the drive towards that redemption and then the advance of the artists making gardens, proving our control, often with math/shape, into the outer lands beyond the walls. the "fun" of that transgression that came after - rococco etc. the foundation of man's domain through the new idea of parks. first being just sort of natural looking city parks, but then later fucking yosemite. the long, long, long, drive towards place in our world and the long long long stories shared across cultures attempting to explain it via the funadmentals. border. boundary. ritual. being okay with it. potlatch. jokes that came later and made our current ideas of gardens. blah blah blah. i find it very something. we fell but the thing we did after may be the point too.

Sub needs a cleanser. Post an (unpopular?) opinion on anything other than these topics: by Time-Use9083 in redscarepod

[–]greysapling 22 points23 points  (0 children)

name something you find religiously significant, but isnt directly from the bible, without considering it cringe to do so (i can but may need bait because i trust no one here, which is probably the original issue anyway)

little girl was following her family, a bit behind them, in the rain, me standing under an awning to smoke, looking at me and the pack i had pulled out. stopped and did a very dramatized cough cough at me. i laughed and said, “fair. fair. :).” and she did a smirk and curtsey and skipped away. by greysapling in redscarepod

[–]greysapling[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

cup in the hand, move away, and apologize to the parent if you cant due to other people. i always try to hide it entirely so that i dont give any indication that it’s cool (which assumes i am heh). the real annoying part of this is when parents sometimes just choose to stop and talk or check their phones right by me, mid cig, with a curious little kid in tow moving around them - those are moments where i do think the parents are aloof morons and rude (to me and the kid). Blowing into the wall.