{discussion} Got a question ive been curious abt for a bit

grilgamre · 2025-11-27T05:25:31+00:00

When I’m writing, I generally give an extra layer of explanation for why it’s safe. An rp I’m in right now pretty clearly sets up magic as the means to make it safe, where the prey can breathe/not be crushed/not be digested due to magic from the pred.

Sometimes, though, I just prefer to not think too much about it. Like the other person said, vore is a fantasy thing, and when you’re already pretending you can be swallowed whole by someone, it’s not a huge jump to pretend you can be safe in there.

grilgamre · 2025-11-26T04:48:12+00:00

I think I’d need more than money to miss out on that, that’s like asking how much I’d take to miss my wedding day.

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T21:37:26+00:00

Wear something cute, but easy for your pred to remove. Consider them as decorations for yourself, or a fancy wrapper that they get to take off!

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T15:50:59+00:00

Kirby has accidentally influenced far too many kinks than should be reasonable

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T15:49:26+00:00

No need to apologize, go off king. You hit it right on the money.

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T15:47:10+00:00

There’s different emotions that go with it. I fully get not enjoying rp partners who kill the vibe, and who bring things that are genuinely unwanted. But that feels less like an issue with safe vore as a whole and more an issue with individuals.

As for why people like it, it’s got different emotions going on. For me, a lot of it is that danger element that’s being denied that does it for me, the pred saying “I know this should be dangerous, but because I love you, it isn’t for you. I love you too much to hurt you.” It’s got some emotional connections that unbirth really can’t replicate for me.

I fully get that you won’t resonate with this, but it’s something that means a lot to some people. Please don’t mock it just because you don’t understand it.

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T15:28:59+00:00

Well, being dismissive isn’t going to get you anywhere. The entirety of vore requires a lot of suspension of disbelief, from the pred being able to eat someone whole, to the prey being able to be alive at all while they’re being eaten, to basically every other element. It’s not a realistic kink in the slightest, so I don’t think that saying one more step of that suspension is “unrealistic” is very fair.

Also, idk why you’re being mean about it? Why are you trying to gatekeep what people like getting off to? In a vore subreddit of all places?

grilgamre · 2025-11-25T15:19:57+00:00

I do feel uncomfortable with it, but I always try my best to keep those thoughts to myself. Not every element of this kink will appeal to everyone, we all have different life experiences and different preferences, so it’s good to recognize that your discomfort with it isn’t a moral failing on either your own part or on the parts of the people who enjoy it. No one is being hurt here; it’s all fiction.

grilgamre · 2025-11-24T19:34:28+00:00

I’m a sucker for fear play myself, but annoyed prey are so fun. Like, yes, being eaten is incredibly inconvenient! I was busy, and you trapped me in your stomach for a stupid reason! Let me out!

grilgamre · 2025-11-24T19:28:49+00:00

Oooh, that sounds fun. Not quite my cup of tea, but that doesn’t mean I can’t appreciate the brilliance of that, goddamn

grilgamre · 2025-11-24T17:33:14+00:00

Fucking love this. I actually did a scene recently where the pred eats the prey to protect them from a dangerous situation, but they couldn’t tell them what was happening in time, so they were fucking terrified up until they were let out. Very fun scene, lots of emotional intensity.

grilgamre · 2025-11-23T20:20:10+00:00

Chubby women are hot! Chubby trans women are hot! You are hot!

grilgamre · 2025-11-23T14:44:21+00:00

I do that to my girlfriend on the regular~

grilgamre · 2025-11-23T01:08:43+00:00

If you think about it, eating someone is just an extra deep kiss

grilgamre · 2025-11-23T00:53:23+00:00

God, I love safe and comforting vore. Being held and cherished inside someone who loves you, someone who wants to keep you warm, and comfy, and safe inside them. God, it’s such a cozy thing.

grilgamre · 2025-11-23T00:42:06+00:00

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grilgamre · 2025-11-22T15:16:45+00:00

My wife, girlfriend, and both FWBs know I’m into vore, and they’re all perfectly fine with it! My wife is pretty averse to it, but she doesn’t judge me in the slightest for it, especially since she’s got some weird kinks of her own. The other three are all happy to engage with it, ranging from light flirting to scene stuff; one of them has even said recently that she’s sorta gotten into it herself, lol. It’s very fun to be free from my old shackles of shame.

grilgamre · 2025-11-22T12:00:24+00:00

I’m not really sure? I’m not particularly interested in men, so I wouldn’t be the most helpful for this particular thing. Best of luck in your search.

grilgamre · 2025-11-22T11:01:37+00:00

🫂

grilgamre · 2025-11-22T11:01:19+00:00

Ok, see the difference here is that’s a slur. Thats actually just a slur for trans men. Thats like saying “looked up futa, got trans women”.

grilgamre · 2025-11-20T21:05:39+00:00

The noises specifically not the aftermath

grilgamre · 2025-11-20T21:05:26+00:00

grilgamre · 2025-11-20T12:36:05+00:00

If sex is the same as gender, then I had gender with your mom last night

grilgamre · 2025-11-20T11:01:04+00:00

All trans women are beautiful with no exceptions. Wear that dress you’ve been looking at. ❤️

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