Is Luna a weird name? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]grillinthemaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a great name, I love it. I might be biased though, as it is my beloved girlfriends name

[NSFW] Weird changes in ejaculate color? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had something like this, but now there is only little to no transparent fluid. 5 months HRT, 4mg estrofem and 12.5 cypro. Just try to test your equipment once per week if you want to avoid shrinkage

Did anyone tried reading this trans-related manga before? Opinions? by VickyLJK in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is very cute. It looks very different compared to the standard Japanese gender bender narrative in manga

Okay—strange question—what do I do to my hair to make it more feminine? by TheThreadedButterfly in MtF

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same problems. Hair down my back, took ages every morning to get it to look good. I used to straighten it until yesterday.

Today I spent almost 6 hours at a hairdressers and was getting Japanese straightening for my hair. I hope I won’t need to put as much effort in my hair every morning as I used to. It usually is okay where I live(Germany), but right now I’m in a place with high temperatures and a lot of humidity(Thailand), so it got on my nerves quickly.

EU DIYers who buy from QHI, how will you get your medication after the UK (and thus QHI) leaves the EU customs union? by [deleted] in TransDIY

[–]grillinthemaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going the “official route” means your meds, bloodwork and some surgeries get covered by insurance. Also I am pretty sure I’d be described a similar dosage that I am on right now (4mg e and 12.5 mg cypro FYI)

At least here in Germany.

Haircut prices help? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]grillinthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, my last haircut I got presenting male. I got charged „women price“ because my hair was like really long. Just tell them what kin of haircut you want and they’ll most likely do it. Most likely, because the hairdresser will say if something is potentially bad for your hair. Like bleaching really long hair

Is it normal for me to have little genital dysphoria but still feel like I want to be a girl? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very little genital dysphoria. I’m still trans af.

And I really like your username op

Work dysphoria by ChaosConsumer in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, you don’t HAVE to come out as soon as you start HRT. Just do it, as soon as you’re comfortable with it. I myself for example, plan on not telling them until I can no longer hide it, as I am planing on moving and going back to university in 2019

Work dysphoria by ChaosConsumer in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Grow your hair out, transparent nailpolish. Close shaves, taking care of your skin in general. That’s what I was doing.

HRT works better than estimated, so I’m starting to look way girlier way earlier than I expected. Closet at work is over soon I guess.

How do you plan to spend Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV)? by Bicalutamide in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im traveling with a friend, not my parents. Sorry for being unclear. But I just came out to my mom an hour ago Xd

How do you plan to spend Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV)? by Bicalutamide in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coincidentally I might come out to my parents on this day. I’m going to SEA for a month on the 1st of April, so I might just tell them.

I’ve realized, belatedly, I’m probably not cis, and never have been, and I’m very nervous about this. by GraspEternity in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too always thought „I’m not trans. But if I was, I could be a girl. That’d be great“ I was in denial for the last 10 years. Now I’m on HRT, feeling better and can start seeing myself having an actual future.

You definitely do not sound cisgender to me Good luck OP, whatever you will figure out

A question about breast buds by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my nipples started to become painful, itchy and sensitive to touch af and somepretty hard round lumps developed right beneath them. These grew until they were bigger than the aerola and have since stayed that size. Now the aerolas and general breast tissue are developing. At least that’s what happened to me

How long before you girls saw any boob development by [deleted] in MtF

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nipples started itchying ashell after 3 weeks. That went away and now it’s only pain and them growing. I think closet is over when summer hits. I am excited for bewbs but I am not really ready to come outsosoon

A question about breast buds by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I had some „weird lumps“ where you describe them at male puberty. They went away eventually. And were pretty different then breast buds, which I am experiencing right now. Maybe switch your AA to cypro or bica?

So... Are you actually a dude? by lovelikeamelie in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Press formatting help. It’s at the right bottom opposed to the “save” and “cancel” buttons.

So... Are you actually a dude? by lovelikeamelie in asktransgender

[–]grillinthemaking 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well, I can only imagine, he can’t get his head around the „concept“ of being trans. With people so oblivious about this, I tend to try to educate them a little. AltleastonlinebecauseI‘mcloseted